Why are there so many users on here who refuse to put on a pic on their profile, and then expect people to reply to their messages? It's really annoying! What's the point on being on this site?

I even stated on my profile that I wouldn't reply to non-pic profiles, and tried to say nicely that I don't like older (over age 30) men, but still they keep messaging me...am I being too picky?

I'm almost 25. I know I'm not that young, but still I feel that I'd get on better with someone more my own age bracket. For the same reason, I probably wouldn't date a 21 year old or younger...I just wouldn't feel comfortable with it!

lol i am the oppersit. im 24 but i prefer older men say 28-38 personally it is because i find that men of that age group are more at my level. i went out with a guy the same age once and i just felt like an old woman lol.

I guess every woman has their own preference. your best bet is not to reply.

I prefer older guys....*shrugs*

I'd rather have a message from a genuine person with no pic on their profile, than someone that just puts a pornographic pic of some random person on their profile instead.

I don't discriminate against people without pics - but obviously it helps to know who you're talking to.

I used to have my pic in my profile but people at work found it and that was a LONG week of having the juice extracted, I work in a big company and there are a LOT of notice boards :p

Now I just add a note that pics are available on request (not that I ever get any replies since I don't have a pic..vicious circle? )

trouble is older men are far too experienced for women under 30 takes women till then to know how to satisfy a man, the young guys shoot and scoot

Fair play to those who refrain from uploading a pic. However, you can guarantee that those who do will increase their messages by 90%. No question. No?

too true, I guess I should bite the bullet and just think "sod it"

tbh, it wasn't so much any stigma about my being on the site as the lies and crap that were told about me (photoshop is a cruel tool) by some really nasty people (since dismissed for gross misconduct anyway, so why should I still be bothered?)