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10.07.2007, 22:44 quote

Anonymous

Is it me, or do other ladies get really dirty messages from men on FB??
I sat there for a few minutes with my jaw on the floor absolutely gobsmacked!! Now i'm no young thing and have had my share of relationships but what do others do/say?
I replied with a bit of an insult when i finally recovered my composure and then he had the cheek to say there was no need for the insults!!!!!
Let me know what you lot do,please!!!

 

10.07.2007, 23:04 quote

imperfect

ooh insulting back is always a good idea actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again

 

10.07.2007, 23:15 quote

Anonymous

You girls have all the fun, I want dirty messages damn it! At least i'd get a few laughs out of it Razz

 

11.07.2007, 07:56 quote

Anonymous

Imperfect wrote:
ooh insulting back is always a good idea actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again


I go with Imperfects suggestion.

When I first starting using dating sites i used a paying site. I had a pic up of me in leather trousers and a lacey top. One guy asked me if I was looking for a guy who wanted to be dominated as he was in a high powered job with lots of responsibility and was looking for someone to swap the roles when he got home. I politely directed him to a BDSM site and suggested it would be more to hs liking and 'good luck'. He sent me a very snotty reply, telling me i was disgusting!!! I laughed my socks off at that one Laughing

 

11.07.2007, 08:41 quote

Anonymous

These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html

 

11.07.2007, 08:56 quote

Anonymous

I get rather alot of filthy messages, mainly from older men, but some from younger guys as well.

I never reply to them, as it just encourages them, if people like this get an answer they think they must be doing something right, and keep doing it.

 

11.07.2007, 09:08 quote

Anonymous

8legs wrote:
These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html
i know someone who would fit that site perfectly, actually it might be him
*puts claws back in

 

11.07.2007, 09:11 quote

Anonymous

i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored

i did have my profile stating i wanted a husband and strangely enough, got some offers... but now ive decided to be a crack whore

 

11.07.2007, 09:16 quote

Anonymous

Don't forget to report them!

What about copying and pasting those messages on here ?

(also mention their usernames )

 

11.07.2007, 09:18 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored


/slight derailment of topic
I think you should keep your photo up, it's nice. It's hardly your fault that some people are stupid enough to base their entire idea of you as a person on one photo.

 

11.07.2007, 09:19 quote

Anonymous

oooooh are we allowed, fantastic

 

11.07.2007, 09:23 quote

Anonymous

god wrote:
Don't forget to report them!

What about copying and pasting those messages on here ?

(also mention their usernames )


ooh bad luck, I just deleted all my messages, everytime I get 6 pages or so, I delete them all!

 

11.07.2007, 09:38 quote

Anonymous

8legs wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored


/slight derailment of topic
I think you should keep your photo up, it's nice. It's hardly your fault that some people are stupid enough to base their entire idea of you as a person on one photo.


I agree, would twistedviolet use that costume for anything other then cleaning the house ?? Wink

 

11.07.2007, 17:30 quote

Anonymous

If i'd put flirty fun as one of my options then fare enough but i put friendship seeing as i've now found my lovely Greg.

Love all the replies though, they made me laugh. I never thought i was naive or prudish by any stretch of the imagination but i just didn't expect it!!! LOL

It seems funny now i think about it though but just to name and shame Welshboxer is the chap and you'd be amazed what he wants to do with his 'male chicken'!!!!

 

11.07.2007, 22:23 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Imperfect wrote:
ooh insulting back is always a good idea actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again


I go with Imperfects suggestion.

When I first starting using dating sites i used a paying site. I had a pic up of me in leather trousers and a lacey top. One guy asked me if I was looking for a guy who wanted to be dominated as he was in a high powered job with lots of responsibility and was looking for someone to swap the roles when he got home. I politely directed him to a BDSM site and suggested it would be more to hs liking and 'good luck'. He sent me a very snotty reply, telling me i was disgusting!!! I laughed my socks off at that one Laughing


and where is that pic now red?

 
 
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