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Home >> Dating >> Disgusting Messages from Men
10.07.2007, 22:44 quote
Is it me, or do other ladies get really dirty messages from men on FB??
I sat there for a few minutes with my jaw on the floor absolutely gobsmacked!! Now i'm no young thing and have had my share of relationships but what do others do/say?
I replied with a bit of an insult when i finally recovered my composure and then he had the cheek to say there was no need for the insults!!!!!
Let me know what you lot do,please!!!
10.07.2007, 22:50 quote
Yeah we all do Bex.....Part and parcel of internet dating I think. just tend to ignore them most of the time or if im drunk enough they get some really cheeky message back
10.07.2007, 23:04 quote
ooh insulting back is always a good idea
actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again
10.07.2007, 23:04 quote
As long as I'm not tracked down and stalked, I don't care what they write, you can always block them, ignore them, give as good as you get, laugh (as I do most of the time).....choice is yours, but it seems like it's been a bit of an eye-opener!
Oh and check you didn't include 'filthy fun' on what you were looking for.......not that anyone seems to take notice of that list either.
10.07.2007, 23:15 quote
You girls have all the fun, I want dirty messages damn it! At least i'd get a few laughs out of it
10.07.2007, 23:45 quote
ok dirty message on it way 2 u lol ![]()
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11.07.2007, 00:06 quote
I think it's great to know that even though the fb male to female ratios are quite unbalanced, much of that bias is neutralised by idiots who are wasting their time and energy typing inane sexual come ons that would only interest people who they would have to pay to sleep with.
11.07.2007, 07:56 quote
| Imperfect wrote: |
ooh insulting back is always a good idea actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again |
I go with Imperfects suggestion.
When I first starting using dating sites i used a paying site. I had a pic up of me in leather trousers and a lacey top. One guy asked me if I was looking for a guy who wanted to be dominated as he was in a high powered job with lots of responsibility and was looking for someone to swap the roles when he got home. I politely directed him to a BDSM site and suggested it would be more to hs liking and 'good luck'. He sent me a very snotty reply, telling me i was disgusting!!! I laughed my socks off at that one
11.07.2007, 08:41 quote
These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html
11.07.2007, 08:56 quote
I get rather alot of filthy messages, mainly from older men, but some from younger guys as well.
I never reply to them, as it just encourages them, if people like this get an answer they think they must be doing something right, and keep doing it.
11.07.2007, 09:08 quote
| 8legs wrote: |
| These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html |
*puts claws back in
11.07.2007, 09:11 quote
i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored
i did have my profile stating i wanted a husband and strangely enough, got some offers... but now ive decided to be a crack whore
11.07.2007, 09:16 quote
Don't forget to report them!
What about copying and pasting those messages on here ?
(also mention their usernames
)
11.07.2007, 09:18 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored |
/slight derailment of topic
I think you should keep your photo up, it's nice. It's hardly your fault that some people are stupid enough to base their entire idea of you as a person on one photo.
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