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Home >> Dating >> Disgusting Messages from Men
10.07.2007, 21:44 quote
Is it me, or do other ladies get really dirty messages from men on FB??
I sat there for a few minutes with my jaw on the floor absolutely gobsmacked!! Now i'm no young thing and have had my share of relationships but what do others do/say?
I replied with a bit of an insult when i finally recovered my composure and then he had the cheek to say there was no need for the insults!!!!!
Let me know what you lot do,please!!!
10.07.2007, 22:04 quote
ooh insulting back is always a good idea actually that's a waste of time.. you should just delete it and ignore them, and block them if they try again
10.07.2007, 22:15 quote
You girls have all the fun, I want dirty messages damn it! At least i'd get a few laughs out of it
11.07.2007, 06:56 quote
Imperfect wrote: |
ooh insulting back is always a good idea ![]() |
I go with Imperfects suggestion.
When I first starting using dating sites i used a paying site. I had a pic up of me in leather trousers and a lacey top. One guy asked me if I was looking for a guy who wanted to be dominated as he was in a high powered job with lots of responsibility and was looking for someone to swap the roles when he got home. I politely directed him to a BDSM site and suggested it would be more to hs liking and 'good luck'. He sent me a very snotty reply, telling me i was disgusting!!! I laughed my socks off at that one

11.07.2007, 07:41 quote
These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html
11.07.2007, 07:56 quote
I get rather alot of filthy messages, mainly from older men, but some from younger guys as well.
I never reply to them, as it just encourages them, if people like this get an answer they think they must be doing something right, and keep doing it.
11.07.2007, 08:08 quote
8legs wrote: |
These people are very easy to deal with if you don't want to be a big grown up and block them. Simply respond, "is this you?" and this link http://zerosexlife.com/faq.html |
*puts claws back in
11.07.2007, 08:11 quote
i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored
i did have my profile stating i wanted a husband and strangely enough, got some offers... but now ive decided to be a crack whore
11.07.2007, 08:16 quote
Don't forget to report them!
What about copying and pasting those messages on here ?
(also mention their usernames )
11.07.2007, 08:18 quote
twistedvoilet wrote: |
i need to change my pic again as im getting alot of sub/dom messages, now i remember why i deleted it in the first place.
but i like to have a bit of fun with some of them, until i get bored |
/slight derailment of topic
I think you should keep your photo up, it's nice. It's hardly your fault that some people are stupid enough to base their entire idea of you as a person on one photo.
11.07.2007, 08:23 quote
god wrote: |
Don't forget to report them!
What about copying and pasting those messages on here ? (also mention their usernames ![]() |
ooh bad luck, I just deleted all my messages, everytime I get 6 pages or so, I delete them all!
11.07.2007, 08:38 quote
8legs wrote: | ||
/slight derailment of topic I think you should keep your photo up, it's nice. It's hardly your fault that some people are stupid enough to base their entire idea of you as a person on one photo. |
I agree, would twistedviolet use that costume for anything other then cleaning the house ??

11.07.2007, 16:30 quote
If i'd put flirty fun as one of my options then fare enough but i put friendship seeing as i've now found my lovely Greg.
Love all the replies though, they made me laugh. I never thought i was naive or prudish by any stretch of the imagination but i just didn't expect it!!! LOL
It seems funny now i think about it though but just to name and shame Welshboxer is the chap and you'd be amazed what he wants to do with his 'male chicken'!!!!
11.07.2007, 21:23 quote
redoctober wrote: | ||
I go with Imperfects suggestion. When I first starting using dating sites i used a paying site. I had a pic up of me in leather trousers and a lacey top. One guy asked me if I was looking for a guy who wanted to be dominated as he was in a high powered job with lots of responsibility and was looking for someone to swap the roles when he got home. I politely directed him to a BDSM site and suggested it would be more to hs liking and 'good luck'. He sent me a very snotty reply, telling me i was disgusting!!! I laughed my socks off at that one ![]() |
and where is that pic now red?

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