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29.05.2007, 20:20 quote

Anonymous

what has happened to you women? most of the women i have been lucky enough to speak to on here all have the same percieved problem...... namely they THINK that they need to lose weight and us fellas always want skinny vic beckham/wag/size zero types....... i was speaking to a really sexy size 16 girl last nite who sent me a few sexy snaps {not nude} and boy was she sexy: generous boobs, shapely hips and a bum you just wanna grab..... but to hear her talk you'd think she was jabba the hut for fucks sake! what is this obsession with looking like a stick insect all about? i can tell you ladies here and now that a lot {most i know anyway} of guys love women with curves/few xtra pounds...... as someone on the london forum said no one wants to cuddle up to a xylophone..... and its true... i love to make love to fuller figured women theres just nothing better than {what i call} a real womans curves to hold or caress while doing a "double decker". so i'm shouting out loud and clear: ANY CURVY WOMEN WHO WANT SOME ATTENTION COME TALK TO ME COS I'M A BIG FAN......and so are a lot of blokes actually........honest. i'd love to hear from a few curvier babes to hear your side......... and i'm not averse to slender chicks either but they have an easier time it seems as they are considered "the way to be"

 

29.05.2007, 21:09 quote

Anonymous

Can I get an amen?

Say 'NO!' to toast racks!

More stuff to grab and less neurosis thanks.

 

29.05.2007, 21:20 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Can I get an amen?

Say 'NO!' to toast racks!

More stuff to grab and less neurosis thanks.


Perhaps we should get the EU to set minimum standards and make being below a certain size in relation to height illegal.

 

29.05.2007, 21:30 quote

paganpoetry

This is a lovely post Cheekyboy and good on you putting it up! I suppose what you have to remember is that the messages women get from an early age is that 'you can never be too thin' (or rich, as the Duchess of Windsor said, scrawny old hag she)

So, while we more voluptuous females may actually like our bodies, we get bombarded with messages to the contrary. And yes, we have control over our minds but boy is it an uphill struggle sometimes when all you want to do is be yourself and enjoy that.

Talking about it is just great cos it removes a lot of the misunderstanding we women can suffer from, namely that all you blokes out there (ok, sweeping statement I know but humour me) just want Kate Moss and anyone not conforming to that ideal may as well wall themselves up and write 'leave hope behind' on the bricks!

I'm tall, 5ft 8, and I'm a size 22. I go to the gym because I want to get more fit and be able to do more of the fantastic walks up in the Lakes that please me so much. I am guilty of spending quite a few years of my life worrying constantly about what people thought of me, what judgements they were making on my size - and that is a really exhausting way to live. No more now though, I'm respectful of other people's opinions but I know I'm ok. I'm not losing weight cos I feel I have to conform to anything, I'm doing it for me. And I know I'm damn sexy!

BUT - I still have my worrying days so it's just great to read somehting like this - I hope there are a few more responses from both men and women to this topic.


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29.05.2007, 21:45 quote

Anonymous

Yay!!! Its so nice to see a post like this I am a fuller figure girl and am not ashamed- I am what I am, and I am NOT a xylophone... Laughing Like paganpoetry, I am happy with myself but there are worrying days because the majority of things I hear are negative. Its good to see some appreciation for curves though!

 

29.05.2007, 22:04 quote

Anonymous

I know this is going to come off kind of cheesy or cliche, but to me, it really doesn't matter. I don't care what size a woman is, if I like her, think shes beautiful, whatever, then I just do. I've not got a type, I just like beautiful women.

Like the one above me. Its been a couple of days since I've been able to say something like this, so I'm making the most of it.

 

29.05.2007, 22:13 quote

Anonymous

This thread reminds me of my ignorance on the size thing, and shows just how clueless I am. My last gf was around the 24 mark when I met her, as well as being 5ft. My 1st stab at guessing her size, just so I'd know what size clothes to go for when I bought her something, was about 3-4 dress sizes below what she was. It was a good job I persisted in getting the info out of her before getting anything!

 

29.05.2007, 22:15 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
Baggiebhoy wrote:
I know this is going to come off kind of cheesy or cliche, but to me, it really doesn't matter. I don't care what size a woman is, if I like her, think shes beautiful, whatever, then I just do. I've not got a type, I just like beautiful women.

Like the one above me. Its been a couple of days since I've been able to say something like this, so I'm making the most of it.


Awwwwwwwwhhh how sweeeetttttt


Yes, it is VERY sweet

 

29.05.2007, 22:48 quote

Anonymous

FoxyHan wrote:

its not just people i know and people who have bullied me. Its the media as well if u are above a certain size, which to me appears to be a size 10, then u are not acceptable and society casts you aside. Im normally fit and healthy and will be again when my leg and ankle is mended but unless i am happy with myself then no one else will be, but i think they precisely the type of people who can make you feel this way in the first place!

i have now had my "woe is me" time ... enough!


Yes, indeed, enough. You've experienced positive reactions to how you look, but have chosen to focus on the negative ones. That is entirely your choice. To paraphrase something I read ages ago, for every person on the planet there's at least 2 people who think that person is a tosser or ugly or whatever. No-one's immune from that, it's a fact of life for everyone.

I also think that family members knocking your confidence is disgusting. I'd take the time to analyse them and take the piss out of any faults I could find, to return the favour. Hell, even it I didn't actually think something I'd pretend I did if I knew it would make them feel anything like how they tried to make me feel.

 

29.05.2007, 22:54 quote

Anonymous

i fucking detest bullies........ i would kick anyones arse i saw {and have done} bullying anyone especially a group doing it to sum1 alone........ at school i was one of the so called "in" crowd but on leaving school i realised the "in" crowd were a bunch of sycophantic plebs and its the less "fashionable" types who are coolest......... i'm sitting here looking at your photo and imagining u being hassled and im getting angry......... i always fight for the underdog.....literally {ask my parents}....but you arent an underdog baby you are a young beautiful obviously strong woman........ and im a fan already........x


[Having edited several posts where you did nothing but make fun of people and their appearance, i can quite safely say that you are what you profess to hate................. Chief O'Hara]

 

29.05.2007, 23:03 quote

Anonymous

annmarie5988 wrote:

What do you mean you will be 'fit & healthy' again !!! you dont have to to be thin to be fit and healthy


That reminds me of something I have read a few times, which is that supposedly thin and healthy people can have a dangerous amount of fat around their internal organs. I believe that the reverse may well be true, also. It's something I used to point out to people who assumed me being thin meant I was healthy. I said I wasn't sure I agreed because I don't exercise very much.

 

29.05.2007, 23:05 quote

Anonymous

sorry trev me old mate i shoulda namechecked you........ but getting back on track: i get the impression from charming dave that he got grief from his own family........shit you dont need that do you? give me a postal address mate and me and ann marie will go round and marry them up 4 you....lol

 

29.05.2007, 23:21 quote

Anonymous

cheekyboy36 wrote:
sorry trev me old mate i shoulda namechecked you........ but getting back on track: i get the impression from charming dave that he got grief from his own family........shit you dont need that do you? give me a postal adddress mate and me and ann marie will go round and marry them up 4 you....lol


God no, personally my family are fine, they've always been there for me. It's only ever been people close to me who can upset me or make me mad, hence my understanding about family being nasty. Most people close to me, though, have not meant to be nasty, though. Anyone who's damaging to my confidence and self esteem soon feels the sharp end of my tongue Very Happy and if they are persistent offenders they soon get pushed out of my life.

I'm a stick insect, just in case anyone got the impression I was a large lad. My interest in this thread is partially based on a tendency to have ended up going out with larger ladies more often than smaller ones. It wasn't a conscious decision, though, that's just the way it's been. I can definitely see the attraction in larger tits & a decent arse to put my hands on!

 

29.05.2007, 23:26 quote

Anonymous

well moving on to more serious matters........ive just started to munch on the mother of all peanut butter and jam toasted sandwiches......... and its one of my finest ever..........

 

29.05.2007, 23:33 quote

Anonymous

WE BOTH KNOWDAT!!!!

 
 
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