Personally, I'd love it if a woman made the first move.

I think most men would like it, even if they said they didn't, because it would be a great ego boost. Not that some people need it, but still.

i prefer it. that way I know they must like me.

More new faces ......... hi snidey, welcome to the forums

Hello and welcome snidey

I'm sure a lot of men wants to be in the driver seat and control things but I don't mind.
Women that play hard to get should not be surprised when they're not gotten. Some men are lazy, other have too much respect to be pushy. We don't want to come off as stalkers.

Let's meet halfway people

i like a woman with confidence who will make the fist move,

Dude! That should go int the fetish topic!

say what?

when it comes down to it most people have fears of some sort of the other

its a question of meeting people who put your fears to rest. its like jigsaw pieces fitting together. if they dont fit it aint gonna work. two people may have the same fears but at least one of them has to be able to get over them in order to reassure the other. i've been there when it didnt happen & it was a nightmare for both of us

Im happy to mail blokes, and id be happy to ask a bloke out in the real world as well, they can only say no, then id just run off and cry