Maybe this has been done before, but what do men think about women chucking themselves at them ? I have had it a few times [don't mean to brag[it was a long time ago ]], and I've found its put me off them. Have unfeeling love with them then that's it.
Maybe men like the chase ?

What do other blokies feel about that ?

.........Wait.........was this trying to say I was 'chucking' myself at him??!!!

Personally i cant see any problem with women making the first move..why is it always assumed that the man should?
Meant to be living in a society with equal rights arnt we..lol

People are going out to either with an open mind to getting laid or not.
Sorry about the lack of foreplay there, but that's the logical conclusion without the B/S, and holds true for both men and women in my opinion.


As for women making the first move - so they bloody should!! And offer to buy drinks as well!!

Well, seeing how I always end up buying my own drinks, why should I pay for a drink for a bloke that wouldn't buy me a drink, exactly?[/quote]


That's exactly what women have been doing, still doing and will keep doing to gulible guys long after we've shuffled off this mortal coil.

Now I've done this before {when young, green and naieve {?}} anyway...
But I've seen this with my own eyes, women {mostly yonger} hit guys in a bar flirt, drink, marry off to the next mugs.

So the cynical no give a marry approach I find works best, and if a woman buys me a drink I get her one back, and if I like her, let her get the next, so fourth...

I will buy a the first drink if we've been chatting prior to that and I think she's worth my time - may even buy a few, but it's an indian trading post thing, 'cause I'm long enough in the tooth to suss oot people over a drink and don't feel it's my duty to overly make an effort to please somebody I don't even know.
Now if everybody {talking about women here} is a potential friend you've just no met yet then they have to show it...