Maybe this has been done before, but what do men think about women chucking themselves at them ? I have had it a few times [don't mean to brag[it was a long time ago ]], and I've found its put me off them. Have unfeeling love with them then that's it.
Maybe men like the chase ?

What do other blokies feel about that ?

.........Wait.........was this trying to say I was 'chucking' myself at him??!!!

i've only had it happen to me once, took me by surprise but it made a change

Personally i cant see any problem with women making the first move..why is it always assumed that the man should?
Meant to be living in a society with equal rights arnt we..lol

People are going out to either with an open mind to getting laid or not.
Sorry about the lack of foreplay there, but that's the logical conclusion without the B/S, and holds true for both men and women in my opinion.


As for women making the first move - so they bloody should!! And offer to buy drinks as well!!

I actually like the idea of a girl making the first moves. Most of my girlfriends had actually hit on me, rather than the other way around and its always caught me by suprise, but it made very little difference to us in the long run as to who made moves first.

Im pretty thick when it comes to noticing things, so when i am on a night out and im chatting to someone, ill always blankly assume that its just a chat. If the girl im talking to is interested in me, incredibly i tend not to notice! Im not kidding here, i must have been dropped on the head as a child or something, because i can never say for certain if its just a chat or a chat up so to play it safe ill always assume the former. Anyway Three things tend to happen to me in that situation.

A) she'll lose patience and bugger off annoyed at me

B) a third party (a friend of hers or mine) will choose a suitable moment to enlighten me, or ask what the hell is wrong with me. Her friends tend to ask the latter question.

C) and thirdly she'll make a move on me which unfortunatly tends to be awkard most times. Its awkward i think because women aren't used to doing it like that.

The broad concensus i've experienced personally still has it that a guy has to do the chasiing and the girl gives the permission. Due to me being thick, i've found that girls who i have been speaking and getting on great for ages, sometimes have friends that get very annoyed at me for not doing anything, In this case nothing will happen without me instigating it.

Even if a girl is chucking herself at you, you still kinda have to "go in for the kill" yourself, her "chucking" is in my experience her flauting the fact that you have permission to do something, rather than her tossing you over her shoulder and heading to the nearest hotel.

I realise im generalizing a little here, but that pretty much sums up most of my experience ( i know, i know, i know, its a little sad, why do you think i drink so much )