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04.06.2006, 15:39 quote

cellardweller
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 31 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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Not all younger guys under there 30s are the same and no disrespect to any younger men here....but Tanyah you will find that alot of younger men are just out for a bit of fun so good luck to you....[/quote]

ive had many men in there 40s and 50s ask men 2 go bed wiv em as im a barmaid it happens offen!! men in there 30s i dnt mind now coz i know there alot better then men my own age!! (they know how 2 treat a women) so im sorry if i said nething out ov line Embarassed 4give me Question lol[/quote]

no worries babygirluk i now no what you are saying. Smile

Dirty old smelly men in there 50S... Laughing Could you picture that LOL!!

 

04.06.2006, 15:44 quote

newlondonromeo
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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hey ya..
it is really quite interesting topic.
From my personal point fo view and experience I am telling this.
I used this site a quit while ago, with a god profile stating evrything, what I am looking, andalso 3 pics.
But u know one thing most of the interenet datin sites having fake pics including girls and boys, I have had so many mails from black, mixed and also white girls, after talk some time over the mails, they try to tell cock and bull stories, that they stucked in africa/usa/or bla..bla, and want to send some money to come to london, where they can live peacefull, so that makes me so annoyed, thats why I removed the picture, and also one more thing, girl get loads of replys, i hope so in internet dating, if u rellay dont like their profile, Just type one msg and save it( saying I am sorry not interested after gone through your profiel) that cud be anything with out picture ot mismatch fo age as tanya said, or interests..
do u understand girls?

 

04.06.2006, 16:20 quote

Anonymous

cellardweller wrote:
Whats wrong with men in there 30S? We're not that old you no Tanyah!! and all you younger ladies will be there one day you no.



Cellardwellar, I think you miss my point a little. What I am saying is that I have stated certain preferences on my profile, and people who message me and ignore this info are wasting mine and their own time.

I ain't saying I'm anything special, but I do have preferences, everyone is entitled to have preferences. Some prefer blondes, some prefer brunettes. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, and we really can't help what floats our boats. Personally I don't think I am being picky by choosing to date someone more my own age. It doesn't mean I'm shallow.

Yes I will be an old woman one day...and THEN I'll be chasing all the old men!

 

04.06.2006, 16:27 quote

Anonymous

I used to have my pic in my profile but people at work found it and that was a LONG week of having the juice extracted, I work in a big company and there are a LOT of notice boards :p

Now I just add a note that pics are available on request (not that I ever get any replies since I don't have a pic..vicious circle? Wink)

 

04.06.2006, 17:45 quote

jenmck

Tanyah wrote:
cellardweller wrote:
Whats wrong with men in there 30S? We're not that old you no Tanyah!! and all you younger ladies will be there one day you no.



Cellardwellar, I think you miss my point a little. What I am saying is that I have stated certain preferences on my profile, and people who message me and ignore this info are wasting mine and their own time.

I ain't saying I'm anything special, but I do have preferences, everyone is entitled to have preferences. Some prefer blondes, some prefer brunettes. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it, and we really can't help what floats our boats. Personally I don't think I am being picky by choosing to date someone more my own age. It doesn't mean I'm shallow.

Yes I will be an old woman one day...and THEN I'll be chasing all the old men!


Hiya Tanyah

I agree with you, when you say every1 has their own prefernces and opinions on what they seek in the opposite sex. i like you also state in my profile that men over 30 dont need to message me, the reason I did this was because I kept gettin messages from men in their 40s and 50s and im 21 and prefer chatting to men of a similar age or older by a few years. I dont think either of us are being picky by puttin an age limit for us. I feel I have more in common with people of the similar age, plus I would probably never go out with someone older than 30 anyway. Alot of men have messaged me saying whats wrong with men over 30, but there is nothing wrong with them at all. I wud never say never tho and maybe end up with someone 10 years older than me?

Jenny

 

04.06.2006, 18:49 quote

markybabe
Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 20 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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You've got to have your picture up there. If you dont,... how can you expect someone to recognise you if you meet?
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04.06.2006, 19:14 quote

Anonymous

trouble is older men are far too experienced for women under 30 takes women till then to know how to satisfy a man, the young guys shoot and scoot Very Happy

 

04.06.2006, 19:49 quote

cellardweller
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 31 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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Tanyah!! I don,t think you are being picky or swallow and yes you are entitled to your preferences, But some one in there 30s is not (OLD) has you put it.........60 is OLD.

Anyway i,m in my 30s and look like i,m still in my 20s so there. LOL!!

Smile

 

04.06.2006, 23:14 quote

Anonymous

Fair play to those who refrain from uploading a pic. However, you can guarantee that those who do will increase their messages by 90%. No question. No?

 

04.06.2006, 23:22 quote

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spookyghost wrote:
trouble is older men are far too experienced for women under 30 takes women till then to know how to satisfy a man, the young guys shoot and scoot Very Happy


hmmmm thats very judgmental of us younger ladies. im 24 and every boyfriend i have ever had bar 1 has been in their 30's i have never had any complaints.

And age has nothing to do with sexual experience, but it has everything to do with confidence and adventure.

 

05.06.2006, 00:21 quote

Anonymous

cellardweller wrote:
Tanyah!! I don,t think you are being picky or swallow and yes you are entitled to your preferences, But some one in there 30s is not (OLD) has you put it.........60 is OLD.

Anyway i,m in my 30s and look like i,m still in my 20s so there. LOL!!

Smile


'Old' as I put it? Selective reading (or imaginary reading) on your part. I didn't say 30 is old. I said it's OLDER. Read my second post. 30 is several years older than 24. Fact.

For example... At 24, I feel I would be too old for an 18 year old lad. Doesn't mean I actually AM old though.

Can you see how 'too old' and 'older' aren't necessarily synonyms for 'old'?

I won't date anyone over 30, under 21, or a drug user. And if I can't have my own way then I'll stay single.

I can't be bothered to explain myself anymore. Cellardweller I hope you haven't been offended by anything I've said and I hope you find someone you like on Flirtbox or elsewhere.

Peace.

 

05.06.2006, 10:15 quote

tracey34
tracey34 Joined: 13 Feb 2006 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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i get annoyed when there is no pic on the profile, at the end of the day why go on these sort of dating sites if u are going 2 hide yourself,if u are ashamed of your self why bother dont see the point in that at all,i dont bother looking at profiles without pics,u like to see who u are talking 2 dont u..................................... Confused

 

05.06.2006, 10:30 quote

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musiksoulchild Joined: 08 Feb 2006 Posts: 41 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Belfast
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Hmmmm
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05.06.2006, 10:31 quote

cellardweller
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 31 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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No worries Tanyah!! And no you have,nt offended me and really hpoe you find someone you like here and elsewhere. Smile

You seem to be a lady who no's what she wants and theres nothing wrong with that, OK!!

PS: I knew what you whore saying all along anyway and was just being silly on my part.

Peace to you.

 

05.06.2006, 20:10 quote

crimewave
Joined: 25 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: Ireland, Dublin, Deansgrange
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Spindles wrote:
I used to have my pic in my profile but people at work found it and that was a LONG week of having the juice extracted, I work in a big company and there are a LOT of notice boards :p

Now I just add a note that pics are available on request (not that I ever get any replies since I don't have a pic..vicious circle? Wink)


its a very good point....theres a certain stigma attatched to using a "dating" site, and to be honest, i would be embarrised if certain people i know were to see my profile on one of these sites.

still though, if you want anyone to like you, you got to put up a photo!!
it doesnt matter how witty your posts are, no ones going to be attracted to a blank spot where a photo should be

 
 
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