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17.08.2006, 23:01 quote

kathy923
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im so pissed off! just had a date wiht this guy, we'd had a couple of dates a few months ago and get on really well, but then he went back 2 poland (where he's from), and came back last week, so we hook up 2night and have a few dirnks, its all going really well, then he askes if its ok for him to invite his polish mate out, i said that was fine so long as they both speak in english so i could join in the conversation, his mate turns up about 11 ish, and for 2 hours in sitting there bored out my skull while they talk in polish. i kept on pokling him, telling him to talk in english so i could join in but they didnt, so i said i wanted to go home. we all left and the guy asked me to come back to his, i said no and he gets really arsey with me, and keeps on asking me why and if im angry with him. i said yeah, a little but i wouldnt tell him why and refused to come back to his. this went all the walk back to the taxi rank, by which point he said he was going back 2 poland tomorrow, as the only reason he came back to england was to see me, and as i wouldn't go to his there was no point him staying in england.

im so mad with him being so incensitive and having no idea why im mad, and for making me so bored in the first place! some men have no idea how to treat a girl.

 

18.08.2006, 03:23 quote

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kathy923 wrote:
im so pissed off! just had a date wiht this guy, we'd had a couple of dates a few months ago and get on really well, but then he went back 2 poland (where he's from), and came back last week, so we hook up 2night and have a few dirnks, its all going really well, then he askes if its ok for him to invite his polish mate out, i said that was fine so long as they both speak in english so i could join in the conversation, his mate turns up about 11 ish, and for 2 hours in sitting there bored out my skull while they talk in polish. i kept on pokling him, telling him to talk in english so i could join in but they didnt, so i said i wanted to go home. we all left and the guy asked me to come back to his, i said no and he gets really arsey with me, and keeps on asking me why and if im angry with him. i said yeah, a little but i wouldnt tell him why and refused to come back to his. this went all the walk back to the taxi rank, by which point he said he was going back 2 poland tomorrow, as the only reason he came back to england was to see me, and as i wouldn't go to his there was no point him staying in england.

im so mad with him being so incensitive and having no idea why im mad, and for making me so bored in the first place! some men have no idea how to treat a girl.


yeah what can i say? you said he is polish? i find them all the same, and there are enough all over the place... i dont know if you broke up already but if you did just take it easy for the next few weeks.. give yourself time to forget about all the things that happen, and meet up with some friends doing some fun things.. and maybe even through your mates you could be able to meet a new guy Smile sorry if my post doesnt make sense havent slept yet Sad hope everythings works out for you the way it should be! take care of yourself Wink

Djrinster

 

18.08.2006, 04:04 quote

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kathy923 wrote:
this went all the walk back to the taxi rank, by which point he said he was going back 2 poland tomorrow, as the only reason he came back to england was to see me, and as i wouldn't go to his there was no point him staying in england.





What can i say, a lot but not all blokes do seem to miss out the thinking with their brain if you get what I mean. You seem such a lovely person I would say it is their loss!. I do not think you will find it hard to meet other men when you are ready to.............I promise you not all men are that bad I've heard there are some nice ones out there that just want to make new friends Smile



We all need someone to talk to my o my
We all need a shoulder to cry on my o my
Call my and I'll be standing by my o my

 

18.08.2006, 05:56 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
this went all the walk back to the taxi rank, by which point he said he was going back 2 poland tomorrow, as the only reason he came back to england was to see me, and as i wouldn't go to his there was no point him staying in england.





What can i say, a lot but not all blokes do seem to miss out the thinking with their brain if you get what I mean. You seem such a lovely person I would say it is their loss!. I do not think you will find it hard to meet other men when you are ready to.............I promise you not all men are that bad I've heard there are some nice ones out there that just want to make new friends Smile



We all need someone to talk to my o my
We all need a shoulder to cry on my o my
Call my and I'll be standing by my o my

Yikes Kathy! Sounds like another bad date for you? I am sorry to here that!
I do agree with Scots Dave though. You are a lovely person and i am sure you will meet someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. And as i am just finding out, not everyone
ARE the same. Smile
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18.08.2006, 10:36 quote

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aww, cheers everyone. going to stay awawy for men for a while, cant b doing with all the extra agro!!!

 

18.08.2006, 10:38 quote

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lol until the next one Kathy Wink
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18.08.2006, 10:40 quote

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maybe, but all the signs are telling me to stay away for a while, so im going to give it my best shot!!

 

18.08.2006, 11:34 quote

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Although you're pissed off, it's generally rule of thumb on these forums that explicit language, including just swearing, is kept to the sex forums.

That's mainly because we do have a younger audience on flirtbox, and although it's naive to assume they're ignorant to some of the language we use - it'd be nice to keep the place "family friendly" yeah?

 

18.08.2006, 14:33 quote

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kathy923 wrote:
maybe, but all the signs are telling me to stay away for a while, so im going to give it my best shot!!





Just go with your feelings but don't cut of a good man because of a bad past, sorry not preaching nice people will meet nice people given time.... Smile Smile

 

18.08.2006, 14:35 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
maybe, but all the signs are telling me to stay away for a while, so im going to give it my best shot!!





Just go with your feelings but don't cut of a good man because of a bad past, sorry not preaching nice people will meet nice people given time.... Smile Smile



Thats easier said than done!!! Embarassed
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18.08.2006, 14:54 quote

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ladytracexx wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
maybe, but all the signs are telling me to stay away for a while, so im going to give it my best shot!!





Just go with your feelings but don't cut of a good man because of a bad past, sorry not preaching nice people will meet nice people given time.... Smile Smile



Thats easier said than done!!! Embarassed



True but thats what makes loving people so hard work. If it was easy we would all do it.(o for the chance) Embarassed

 

18.08.2006, 15:02 quote

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kathy923 wrote:
and keeps on asking me why and if im angry with him. i said yeah, a little but i wouldnt tell him why and refused to come back to his. this went all the walk back to the taxi rank


Admittedly he was in the wrong to promise something and then not furfill it, but why make it any worse by not telling what you are feeling? It's things like this that always cause arguements, when women expect people to know what is wrong when they will not tell them.

Personal rule i use is, Ask 3 times, if they don't answer, then it isn't worth worrying over.

 

18.08.2006, 15:04 quote

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ScotsDave wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
maybe, but all the signs are telling me to stay away for a while, so im going to give it my best shot!!





Just go with your feelings but don't cut of a good man because of a bad past, sorry not preaching nice people will meet nice people given time.... Smile Smile



Thats easier said than done!!! Embarassed



True but thats what makes loving people so hard work. If it was easy we would all do it.(o for the chance) Embarassed


well if you have a chance then go for it!!! what have you to loose this time round?
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18.08.2006, 15:18 quote

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djrinster wrote:
kathy923 wrote:
im so pissed off! just had a date wiht this guy, we'd had a couple of dates a few months ago and get on really well, but then he went back 2 poland (where he's from), and came back last week, so we hook up 2night and have a few dirnks, its all going really well, then he askes if its ok for him to invite his polish mate out, i said that was fine so long as they both speak in english so i could join in the conversation, his mate turns up about 11 ish, and for 2 hours in sitting there bored out my skull while they talk in polish. i kept on pokling him, telling him to talk in english so i could join in but they didnt, so i said i wanted to go home. we all left and the guy asked me to come back to his, i said no and he gets really arsey with me, and keeps on asking me why and if im angry with him. i said yeah, a little but i wouldnt tell him why and refused to come back to his. this went all the walk back to the taxi rank, by which point he said he was going back 2 poland tomorrow, as the only reason he came back to england was to see me, and as i wouldn't go to his there was no point him staying in
england.

im so mad with him being so incensitive and having no idea why im mad, and for making me so bored in the first place! some men have no idea how to treat a girl.


yeah what can i say? you said he is polish? i find them all the same, and there are enough all over the place... i dont know if you broke up already but if you did just take it easy for the next few weeks.. give yourself time to forget about all the things that happen, and meet up with some friends doing some fun things.. and maybe even through your mates you could be able to meet a new guy Smile sorry if my post doesnt make sense havent slept yet Sad hope everythings works out for you the way it should be! take care of yourself Wink

Djrinster

Djrinster!! Don't generalize. Obviously you don't know many Poles. I can smell little bit of nationalism in your sentence so be careful m8t to not offend any1.I'm polish my self and you know s**t about me. Explain your self dude.

 

18.08.2006, 15:31 quote

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gregsky wrote:
Djrinster!! Don't generalize. Obviously you don't know many Poles. I can smell little bit of nationalism in your sentence so be careful m8t to not offend any1.I'm polish my self and you know s**t about me. Explain your self dude.


aww **kisses** you're a very cute pole.

dj, mind your words and don't offend the posters please.

 
 
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