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07.08.2006, 18:02 quote

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I have to agree that it's all down to whether or not the other person floats your boat. Personally, i've had 4 relationships and they were all older than myself by 14yrs, 17yrs, 3yrs and 8yrs. I think it has a lot to do with the fact i was bald at age 23 so look much older than my true age. Taking the age thing the other way, the last time i mailed a 19yr old, she mailed back something like "do you know my dad or something?". Considering i'm 31 so only 12yrs older, i found that quite insulting.

Incidentally, women in their early 40's are highly recommended!

 

07.08.2006, 18:04 quote

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Ooopppssss not suprising!! Rolling Eyes
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07.08.2006, 18:05 quote

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YourManForever wrote:
I have to agree that it's all down to whether or not the other person floats your boat. Personally, i've had 4 relationships and they were all older than myself by 14yrs, 17yrs, 3yrs and 8yrs. I think it has a lot to do with the fact i was bald at age 23 so look much older than my true age. Taking the age thing the other way, the last time i mailed a 19yr old, she mailed back something like "do you know my dad or something?". Considering i'm 31 so only 12yrs older, i found that quite insulting.

Incidentally, women in their early 40's are highly recommended!


Seriously?

Some girls Rolling Eyes

 

07.08.2006, 18:07 quote

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i know!!! that is poopsy!!! Rolling Eyes
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07.08.2006, 18:09 quote

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flowerangelaura wrote:
Seriously?

Some girls Rolling Eyes


Yup, i'm afraid that's the kind of selfish/bitchy society we live in nowadays. I decided after my last relationship that i should date a younger girl. 2yrs later i'm still looking! lol

 

07.08.2006, 18:12 quote

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all good things come to those who wait Smile
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07.08.2006, 18:13 quote

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YourManForever wrote:
flowerangelaura wrote:
Seriously?

Some girls Rolling Eyes


Yup, i'm afraid that's the kind of selfish/bitchy society we live in nowadays. I decided after my last relationship that i should date a younger girl. 2yrs later i'm still looking! lol


Yep.

Some of my friends think i'm mad for liking older guys. But you should see some of the 17/18/19 year old idiots they go out with Rolling Eyes

 

07.08.2006, 18:16 quote

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when I was in my teens I preferred to date guys who were a bit older. Now it wouldn't worry me too much I would rather judge somebody on how well we got on than to check out the date on their birth certificate first

 

07.08.2006, 18:23 quote

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ladytracexx wrote:
all good things come to those who wait Smile

I sure hope so Tracey! There's now a potential time bomb swing between my legs - one stroke and i may explode! lmao. Damnit, i've gone all smutty again.
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flowerangelaura wrote:
Some of my friends think i'm mad for liking older guys. But you should see some of the 17/18/19 year old idiots they go out with Rolling Eyes

I know what you mean. I see loads of couples who put up with all kinds of shitty mind games, sleeping around, etc but they seem to thrive on that sort of thing. I guess it all relates back to the thread i started a few weeks ago - "can a partner be TOO nice?". The majority voted "yes" so those of us who are genuine are not really the "in" thing at the mo. At least old fashions come round again so maybe one day, people will get sick of this "me, me, me" society and then WE'LL be the "in" thing. Wink

 

07.08.2006, 18:28 quote

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I know what you mean. I see loads of couples who put up with all kinds of shitty mind games, sleeping around, etc but they seem to thrive on that sort of thing. I guess it all relates back to the thread i started a few weeks ago - "can a partner be TOO nice?". The majority voted "yes" so those of us who are genuine are not really the "in" thing at the mo. At least old fashions come round again so maybe one day, people will get sick of this "me, me, me" society and then WE'LL be the "in" thing. Wink


I was one of the minority that voted that you can't be too nice.

Some people...seriously. My friends choose to go out with 18 year old guys that think they are gods gift to women or whatever, and then they come whining to me about these guys because they have been hurt by them.

I try to be sympathetic towards them, but it's difficult. And then the next day, they have either found a new asshole to treat them like dirt, or they have gone back to the old asshole that they were whining about.

...Sorry..mini-rant over.

 

07.08.2006, 18:29 quote

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YourManForever wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
all good things come to those who wait Smile

I sure hope so Tracey! There's now a potential time bomb swing between my legs - one stroke and i may explode! lmao. Damnit, i've gone all smutty again.
Smile


flowerangelaura wrote:
Some of my friends think i'm mad for liking older guys. But you should see some of the 17/18/19 year old idiots they go out with Rolling Eyes

I know what you mean. I see loads of couples who put up with all kinds of shitty mind games, sleeping around, etc but they seem to thrive on that sort of thing. I guess it all relates back to the thread i started a few weeks ago - "can a partner be TOO nice?". The majority voted "yes" so those of us who are genuine are not really the "in" thing at the mo. At least old fashions come round again so maybe one day, people will get sick of this "me, me, me" society and then WE'LL be the "in" thing. Wink


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07.08.2006, 18:43 quote

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flowerangelaura wrote:
I try to be sympathetic towards them, but it's difficult. And then the next day, they have either found a new asshole to treat them like dirt, or they have gone back to the old asshole that they were whining about.
...Sorry..mini-rant over.


Oh god yes, i've done that hundreds of times with friends, etc. To be fair, i'm not particularly sympathetic. I can normally spot a liar/cheater/asshole/wanker/tosser/bitch (delete as applicable) at first glance and definately after you get to know the way they do and say things. I then mention to the friend "i don't trust her" or whatever. Sure enough, 6 months/12 months/whatever, later they part because she was sleeping around or getting bitchy, etc. To be fair, i have a very small circle of friends but there's a lot of trust/respect between us. I'd rather have 2 friends like that than a 100 of the modern age tossers. lol

 

07.08.2006, 19:01 quote

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YourManForever wrote:


Oh god yes, i've done that hundreds of times with friends, etc. To be fair, i'm not particularly sympathetic. I can normally spot a liar/cheater/asshole/wanker/tosser/bitch (delete as applicable) at first glance and definately after you get to know the way they do and say things. I then mention to the friend "i don't trust her" or whatever. Sure enough, 6 months/12 months/whatever, later they part because she was sleeping around or getting bitchy, etc. To be fair, i have a very small circle of friends but there's a lot of trust/respect between us. I'd rather have 2 friends like that than a 100 of the modern age tossers. lol


I don't have too many friends. There's my best friends, and then there's the ones I go drinking/go to football matches with.

Funnily enough, I only have like 2 female friends. The rest are male, and I actually trust the male ones more than the females. And they trust my judgement on stuff like that.

 

11.08.2006, 21:03 quote

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Most of the guys I have been out with have always been younger, the youngest was 12 years younger and my recent boyfriend is 5 years younger. so i think it is the chemistry and emotional, mentaly maturity of the younger person.

 

11.08.2006, 21:28 quote

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no. simple as that. i went out with a 20 yr old for a while(i was 35 at the time) and my mate is 13 yrs older than her spouse and still sooooooooo in love after 10 yrs of marriage it makes me sick! Laughing so no..age shouldn't be a barrier

 
 
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