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08.09.2006, 21:47 quote

Anonymous

yes i believe..

 

08.09.2006, 21:48 quote

Anonymous

?? girls or guys?

 

08.09.2006, 22:11 quote

Anonymous

miss me i meant ask the other guys or girls what???.. i wasnt asking if you were into guys and girls - i was askn if u were into younger guys lol (toy boys) lol

 

08.09.2006, 22:26 quote

Anonymous

screw the age gaps man, if its two consenting adults then let it bring joyyyyyy lol. yes im pissed Razz

 

29.09.2006, 11:18 quote

Anonymous

Right now I really don't care whether we should or not Wink I'm enjoying flirting with a younger man. I guess if i thought there'd ever be more, then maybe I'd worry, I don't know, but so far I've not come up against anything that shows the age difference.

Live for the moment Wink

 

02.10.2006, 10:02 quote

Anonymous

depends on the person tbh

i say in my experience since i was 14 i have always dated older people, but thats because i always looked older than i am, in fact my physicall apperance has only changed in 3 ways since i was 14

fat
thin
fat
thin

short hair
long hair
longer hair
long hair
and soon to be short hair


side burns goatee
side burns mostash
side burns mini goatee
no side burns half goatee
half goatee

anyhoos never mind that

i think by the age of 20 i had a short term dating spree with woman about 24 to 37, i usually aimmed for woman who where attractive and intelligent and where independent, i would have preferred to have dated someone my own age, but ironically every woman i am friends with is gay or bi/taken, speaking of which i need to find one of them a lady

so i have ended up dating or been in a relationship with someone 3/4 years younger than me, and i would say i was not happy about it, while not all teenagers are as crazy as the two as i dated, i come to the conclusion that

unless there over 19/20 a 3 year age gap beneath you is a bad idea, but many woman like wine tend to be better with age

but thats my experience, i could just attract crazy people

 

02.10.2006, 14:08 quote

Anonymous

ChiefOHara wrote:
I was told that the best way to judge whether someone is too young for you or not is to divide your age in half and add 7. From that age up is the ideal for you.


Maybe that isn't far off the mark.

 

02.10.2006, 14:32 quote

Anonymous

ChiefOHara wrote:
I was told that the best way to judge whether someone is too young for you or not is to divide your age in half and add 7. From that age up is the ideal for you.


Bum!! Looks like you're too young Chiefy Confused

 

04.06.2007, 19:40 quote

Anonymous

We get abused and used hard... A mans peak is 18 - 25, a older woman gets a hold of you, that's it. They like to have stamina which keeps on going beyond... I heard that you start losing energy when your older, but that's just what I heard, so no offense to anyone out there! =)

Probably younger girls feel more secure with older guys, like they can protect them more, maybe it could be like a fatherly figure type thing. Of course there are many more things that can be added. How mature people are should be one, you don't see many mature couples out there, I see couples fight like parent and child. It's sad... anyways, that was my 2 cents...

I do like older women but never been with a girl my age or under (not too under lmao), I wonder what it's like. Smile I might aswell add, I don't even feel the need for a relationship that I would have to slit my wrists, it would be nice but at the end of the day, it's a distraction towards anyones goals. Relationships take alot of time. Obviously man wouldn't mind if he met a hot mamacita that makes his mouth water!

 

04.06.2007, 19:49 quote

Anonymous

I've mostly ended up going out with women older than me. The largest gap was 5-6 years, although I have ended up being mildly intimate with women a bit older than that, but I guess that doesn't count. That's not by any kind of conscious choice I've made, it's just been the way it's usually been. None of them have ever felt particularly weird about it, although I have had the odd question from male and female friends when the gap's been in the 4-6 yr older region.

 

04.06.2007, 19:51 quote

Anonymous

I didn't know how old the woman was until I got back to reality from that bottle of vodka, damn, much bigger gap, 24 year gap 2 years ago lmao =) Never would of thought she was that age tho =/

 

04.06.2007, 19:54 quote

Anonymous

Stormz wrote:
I didn't know how old the woman was until I got back to reality from that bottle of vodka, damn, much bigger gap, 24 year gap 2 years ago lmao =) Never would of thought she was that age tho =/


Hahaha, that reminds me of a woman that was coming on to me one night when I was 19. She could have been anywhere from her late 30s to early 40s. I left to give my friend a shot, because he was interested in her. The poor sod had her talking and asking about me, and got nowhere .... *snigger*

Mind you, five or so years later I had my tongue down the throat of a woman of a similar age. That was never going to go further, but anyway. I didn't remember it even happening, but there was some evidence to suggest that it did. I had another go about a year later to try and help me remember.

My lower regions are quite sacred, but when I am single my tongue can be a whore, for kissing.

 

06.07.2007, 07:39 quote

Anonymous

I don't care either way as long as they're nice. That said, I do usually end up with younger men, it's not on purpose, I just seem to attract them. I, for one, am not complaining.


(It is a bit odd, though, as a parent of older children. I do think one of the worst things that went through my mind once was, "Christ, you were 5 when I gave birth for the first time." THAT was slightly scary.)

 

06.07.2007, 07:46 quote

Anonymous

I think maturity plays a big part in the matter - some guys simply cannot handle older women so in most cases she must take the lead and show the way to adulthood lol - i see nothing wrong with it - go for it ladies younger man need you Very Happy

 

06.07.2007, 11:05 quote

Anonymous

simplyme79 wrote:
I think maturity plays a big part in the matter - some guys simply cannot handle older women so in most cases she must take the lead and show the way to adulthood lol - i see nothing wrong with it - go for it ladies younger man need you Very Happy


Personally I don't see anything wrong with women dating younger men if they so wish but for me... well, I've tried but I like men who look manly and not like teenagers or that look younger than me...I just don't find them attractive!
Also, most of the younger men I've met or chatted to showed to be immature or we didn't have anything in common or they just wanted to be "show the way to adulthood" which I'm not really keen on doing!!!

Maturity, common goals/interests, sense of humor, attraction and chemistry are the most important things for me to have a relationship with someone independently from the age of the person but again, I still haven't found a young man that covers all of the above lol Wink

 
 
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