just wondered if anybody else noticed that whilst you are logged on the forum, you are shown to be online in the dating site, even if you are not..

just thought that anyone sending a msg would be sitting there saying to themselves, why havent they read it? I can see there online? ..
Maybe another line showing that you online in forum could be incorporated..that way people might be curious enough to have a look..and enter the forum that way?..

Shit, I thought I was safe in here. Everytime I log in to flirtbox to check my mail I get hounded by Big Brenda from Brightion who wants to do rude things with banana and a yoghurt....maybe she's got thrush and wants me to apply it using the banana to save getting it under my finger nails. Am I being naive.

I didn't know that. It's a valid point - dunno how easy it'd be to impliment, i'll nudge it over to suggestions if that's ok?