We need a seperate box for what sort of person we're looking for, it'd really filter things out, and I wouldn't be wasting my time messaging someone who doesn't want me to message them, if you catch my drift

I think that would only work if everyone is honest....in my experience what a person says they are looking for from their profile and what they actually are, are very different....what we need on site likes this is upfront honest folk!!!

Well said GreenAngelEyes!!!! Oh!! how true is that!!!

yeah!!! Now that would not suprise me!!!

Ok, prove me wrong I just like to know what some people are looking for more than the boolean options for the profile.

Greenangeleyes is spot on.

Loads of Flirtbox members lie through their teeth on their profiles.

From women totally and deliberately mis-describing themselves to men hiding the fact that they're just looking for a lay.

maybe thats the answer, the descriptions saying Man seeking Woman, Man seeking man just arent decsriptive enough....

Maybe you literally need something like...

Female seeking sex m/f
Female looking for friends
Chat only

etc etc or summat like that!

Also I think there should be an option to say what youre current status is, altho again you have to rely on someone being honest (apologies if thats already there and I've just missed it!)

In a previous life I didnt care wether anyone was married or whatever.... I do now and its very annoying to find out when its too late!

The one most important box missing from these profiles is the SMOKER / NON-SMOKER box.

I HATE people who smoke. It is the single disqualifying thing when I browse profiles, yet there is nothing to tell whether a person smokes or not, and I hate getting chatting with people only to discover they smoke. I don't understand why young attractive ladies would spend hours doing themselves up and wearing nice perfume, only to smell like an ashtray. I wouldn't come within a mile of them, let alone look for a kiss!

So perhaps that one extra question on a person's profile could be added? It would be a great help!

thats why there is the likes and dislikes, put it there if you do not want a smoker, skinny or fullfigured woman, if your really out just for sex, or if you really want friends. i think most people are afraid to be totally honest, but what good is it gonna do you. as i have said in the other topics here, with me being totally honest i still have some dam goodlooking young studs who enjoy chatting with me and i have a few that will be coming to visit. i tell it like it is and if someone doesnt want to chat with me i feel its there loss not mine