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22.02.2007, 15:09 quote

Anonymous

Feckitanyway wrote:
Stonecastle: I hear ya brother


is he your brother? jeez, do you go touching up women in a laundrette as well then? Laughing Laughing

 
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22.02.2007, 20:05 quote

Anonymous

Feckitanyway wrote:
Stonecastle: I hear ya brother,... only in my case, I really am far too shy to just "chat-up" girls.
Well you could also take along a friend who isn't shy to start talking to the girls first. I had to try really hard to overcome my shyness with girls but I did it in the end. It is not easy. I think everyone is very shy with girls to begin with. It could help to take a stiff drink before going out and approaching girls. Alcohol makes you more relaxed and gives you a bit of dutch courage.

 
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22.02.2007, 20:10 quote

Anonymous

PasleptSiekare wrote:
Alcohol can also make you act like a plonker. Not to mention girls aren't overly impressed if a bloke stinks of booze!
I am only talking about one drink just to calm your nerves. Say one pint of beer. Not about getting drunk.

 
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22.02.2007, 20:11 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
Feckitanyway wrote:
Stonecastle: I hear ya brother,... only in my case, I really am far too shy to just "chat-up" girls.
Well you could also take along a friend who isn't shy to start talking to the girls first. I had to try really hard to overcome my shyness with girls but I did it in the end. It is not easy. I think everyone is very shy with girls to begin with. It could help to take a stiff drink before going out and approaching girls. Alcohol makes you more relaxed and gives you a bit of dutch courage.


I never needed a drink to talk to anyone!!

 
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22.02.2007, 20:15 quote

Anonymous

PasleptSiekare
wrote:
is he your brother? jeez, do you go touching up women in a laundrette as well then?
Where did this touching up women in launderettes come from? I said that I met a woman in my local launderette once who agreed to meet me again. Nothing at all about touching her.

 
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22.02.2007, 20:50 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
PasleptSiekare
wrote:
is he your brother? jeez, do you go touching up women in a laundrette as well then?
Where did this touching up women in launderettes come from? I said that I met a woman in my local launderette once who agreed to meet me again. Nothing at all about touching her.


i think it comes from this thread mate

http://www.flirtbox.net/dating/you-know-someone-is-attracted-to-you-when-_3.html

 
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22.02.2007, 20:52 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
PasleptSiekare
wrote:
is he your brother? jeez, do you go touching up women in a laundrette as well then?
Where did this touching up women in launderettes come from? I said that I met a woman in my local launderette once who agreed to meet me again. Nothing at all about touching her.


i think it comes from this thread mate

http://www.flirtbox.net/dating/you-know-someone-is-attracted-to-you-when-_3.html

Thanks for that Bert Wink

 
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22.02.2007, 20:56 quote

Anonymous

Scottie & Red

 
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22.02.2007, 21:14 quote

Anonymous

aDecentGuy wrote:
Scottie & Red


errr... much as I think Scotties an okay guy..... sorry, but nooooooooooo!! That is just sooooo wrong! Rolling Eyes

 
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22.02.2007, 21:18 quote

Anonymous

lol

 
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26.02.2007, 18:30 quote

Anonymous

guitargirl wrote:
So you just go up to random woman and start talking and then ask them out? Jesus mate you're gonna get yourslf nicked one of these days!
Yes I go up to women in public places and try to start conversation with them. If they don't seem interested then I just walk away. I only ask them out if they chat with me for quite a while.

 
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26.02.2007, 18:32 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
So you just go up to random woman and start talking and then ask them out? Jesus mate you're gonna get yourslf nicked one of these days!
Yes I go up to women in public places and try to start conversation with them. If they don't seem interested then I just walk away. I only ask them out if they chat with me for quite a while.


Thats just pure weird

 
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26.02.2007, 19:39 quote

Anonymous

PasleptSiekare wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
So you just go up to random woman and start talking and then ask them out? Jesus mate you're gonna get yourslf nicked one of these days!
Yes I go up to women in public places and try to start conversation with them. If they don't seem interested then I just walk away. I only ask them out if they chat with me for quite a while.


Sorry, but if a guy came up to me in the street and just started talking to me, i'd call the police or something.


Would that depend on what he looked like and what he said ?? Surprised

 
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26.02.2007, 23:53 quote

Anonymous

i would be more than happy for a gorgeous babe to come over to me and start chatting me up, that would make my day! i sertanly wouldn't say get lost you weirdo.

 
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27.02.2007, 15:57 quote

Anonymous

Think i might use this advice, not to sure about standing on a stage doing a bit of acting though, takes a lot of confidence to do that, which i do lack in certain situations, but i'm going to look into doing similar stuff, i really do need to get a life and get myself out there! and sitting on this chair at the computer isn't a good start i reckon even if it is a dating site, would be interested to know what your experiences of these social circle's were, did you get lucky and meet a nice lady? who was mad for love Laughing

ChiefOHara wrote:
If you want to meet someone new, then join a new social circle. A lot of club activities are full of people who want to try new things and meet new people. One good example of this would be amature drama. If you join a drama group you get to meet lots of new girls and drinking buddies. The fact that your socialising and working towards a common or communal goal also helps overcome either shyness or at the very least gives you both something to talk about.

Aproaching someone in the street is difficult, i've had loads of small talk conversations that while interesting does sometimes leave me feeling uncomfortable.

If i want to try and meet someone i find the club activities or meeting people through friends much better than a nightclub or a drunken one night stand.

 
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