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20.02.2007, 14:59 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont think its just your looks
Of course it is my bad looks even some of my close friends told me I was ugly! It can't be lack of effort as I try to get off with a woman almost every time I come across a good looking woman. When I was a teenager I used to know quite a few girls but none of them would go out with me.
its you personality and the way you treat people , also why do you need a good looking women all the time thats just shallow

 
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20.02.2007, 15:10 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
maybe thats why, perhaps try to get to know her first.
But I do!!! And the first girls I tried to get off with when I was a lot younger were girls that I already had known for ages from school and from friends. When I meet new women I always talk to them for ages first but most don't seem the slightest bit interested in me. Sad

 
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20.02.2007, 15:17 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont think its just your looks
Of course it is my bad looks even some of my close friends told me I was ugly! It can't be lack of effort as I try to get off with a woman almost every time I come across a good looking woman. When I was a teenager I used to know quite a few girls but none of them would go out with me.
This could be where you are going wrong, youre trying to hard to score all the time, its a massive turn off. If a girl is out with a guy the last thing she wants on her mind is he a potential rapist lol, is she feeling safe and secure around him or is he just trying to score. Its a very ugly trait and a surefire way of not getting a 2nd date. If I was on a date, I would not feel happy or comfortable if some strange guy was more concerend with trying to "get off" with me. I'd run away like a shot, however if I was on a date with chiefy he would be thinking "is the girl trying to rape me or wot!!?? the mad woman" hahah and he'd run away like a shot haha

anyway, my point is stop seeing woman as a potential "get off", its very unattractive.

 
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20.02.2007, 15:18 quote

Anonymous

yeoldemoldypeach wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont think its just your looks
Of course it is my bad looks even some of my close friends told me I was ugly! It can't be lack of effort as I try to get off with a woman almost every time I come across a good looking woman. When I was a teenager I used to know quite a few girls but none of them would go out with me.
its you personality and the way you treat people , also why do you need a good looking women all the time thats just shallow
omg i cant believe Im doing this...but I think he means good looking to him. we all have an idea of good looking in our minds, but if he thinks he's gonna "get off" with MIss world then he's got another thing coming lol there's good looking and theres "not a chance in hell"

 
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20.02.2007, 15:34 quote

Anonymous

guitargirl wrote:
yeoldemoldypeach wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont think its just your looks
Of course it is my bad looks even some of my close friends told me I was ugly! It can't be lack of effort as I try to get off with a woman almost every time I come across a good looking woman. When I was a teenager I used to know quite a few girls but none of them would go out with me.
its you personality and the way you treat people , also why do you need a good looking women all the time thats just shallow
omg i cant believe Im doing this...but I think he means good looking to him. we all have an idea of good looking in our minds, but if he thinks he's gonna "get off" with MIss world then he's got another thing coming lol there's good looking and theres "not a chance in hell"
lol tis ok , i thought he meant that at first but still i get the feeling he does want some stunning looking girl

 
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20.02.2007, 16:21 quote

Anonymous

guitargirl wrote:
This could be where you are going wrong, youre trying to hard to score all the time, its a massive turn off. If a girl is out with a guy the last thing she wants on her mind is he a potential rapist.
When I am out and about around town and come across women all I do is talk to them and then ask them for a date or to see them again, but I get nowhere! They either say they are already seeing someone or they don't fancy me. Most don't even want to talk to me as they don't seem the slightest bit interested in me.

 
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20.02.2007, 16:33 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
This could be where you are going wrong, youre trying to hard to score all the time, its a massive turn off. If a girl is out with a guy the last thing she wants on her mind is he a potential rapist.
When I am out and about around town and come across women all I do is talk to them and then ask them for a date or to see them again, but I get nowhere! They either say they are already seeing someone or they don't fancy me. Most don't even want to talk to me as they don't seem the slightest bit interested in me.



must be something about you then, do you shower regularly? do you have bad breath? is your body language coming across as being aggressive? only you can sort this one out mate Confused

 
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20.02.2007, 18:05 quote

Anonymous

You just walk up to people and ask them for a date?

If you did that here you'd get the shite kicked out of you!

 
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21.02.2007, 00:37 quote

Anonymous

yeoldemoldypeach wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
yeoldemoldypeach wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont think its just your looks
Of course it is my bad looks even some of my close friends told me I was ugly! It can't be lack of effort as I try to get off with a woman almost every time I come across a good looking woman. When I was a teenager I used to know quite a few girls but none of them would go out with me.
its you personality and the way you treat people , also why do you need a good looking women all the time thats just shallow
omg i cant believe Im doing this...but I think he means good looking to him. we all have an idea of good looking in our minds, but if he thinks he's gonna "get off" with MIss world then he's got another thing coming lol there's good looking and theres "not a chance in hell"
lol tis ok , i thought he meant that at first but still i get the feeling he does want some stunning looking girl
yeah he has as much chance of me getting into bed in a minute and see Brad Pitt with a stonking big hard on with my name all over it Smile

 
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21.02.2007, 00:39 quote

Anonymous

stonecastle wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
This could be where you are going wrong, youre trying to hard to score all the time, its a massive turn off. If a girl is out with a guy the last thing she wants on her mind is he a potential rapist.
When I am out and about around town and come across women all I do is talk to them and then ask them for a date or to see them again, but I get nowhere! They either say they are already seeing someone or they don't fancy me. Most don't even want to talk to me as they don't seem the slightest bit interested in me.
So you just go up to random woman and start talking and then ask them out? Jesus mate you're gonna get yourslf nicked one of these days!

 
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21.02.2007, 09:49 quote

Anonymous

chris343 wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
stonecastle wrote:
guitargirl wrote:
This could be where you are going wrong, youre trying to hard to score all the time, its a massive turn off. If a girl is out with a guy the last thing she wants on her mind is he a potential rapist.
When I am out and about around town and come across women all I do is talk to them and then ask them for a date or to see them again, but I get nowhere! They either say they are already seeing someone or they don't fancy me. Most don't even want to talk to me as they don't seem the slightest bit interested in me.
So you just go up to random woman and start talking and then ask them out? Jesus mate you're gonna get yourslf nicked one of these days!



Agreed, you have to build a friendship....
Of course, and then move in for surprise love later. Tut tuts its just ettiquette really. Wink lolz

 
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21.02.2007, 11:44 quote

Anonymous

life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what ya gonna git Laughing Laughing

 
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21.02.2007, 12:03 quote

Anonymous

scottie69 wrote:
life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what ya gonna git Laughing Laughing
I love that saying... tho' it has to be said in the same way Tom Hanks did in the film

 
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21.02.2007, 17:11 quote

Anonymous

spdarkhorse wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
You just walk up to people and ask them for a date?

If you did that here you'd get the shite kicked out of you!


Im not suggesting we do this, but I read somewhere that if you walked around a club at midnight and asked all the girls to go home with you, 1 in about 10 or 15 would, though it didnt say how many would slap you or how many men would take you outside for a quiet word.

Girls, the same is true but I think its about 1 in 2 men would say yes - we men are tarts generally


Stonecastle - OK your not the best looking, but you arent the worst so perhaps there is something else going on. Lots of people when they are out in a social situation will avoid talking to ugly strangers, people are talking to you when you are out so you cant be that bad.


To be honest, I can EASILY go to a club with the intention to take a girl home, and take one home 100% of the time.

But i dont, why?

Because I believe that is taking advantage of a vulnerable person as 9/10 they are hammered, IMO thats not far away from rape, others disagree but thats just my view.

 
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21.02.2007, 22:13 quote

Anonymous

chris343 wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
spdarkhorse wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
You just walk up to people and ask them for a date?

If you did that here you'd get the shite kicked out of you!


Im not suggesting we do this, but I read somewhere that if you walked around a club at midnight and asked all the girls to go home with you, 1 in about 10 or 15 would, though it didnt say how many would slap you or how many men would take you outside for a quiet word.

Girls, the same is true but I think its about 1 in 2 men would say yes - we men are tarts generally


Stonecastle - OK your not the best looking, but you arent the worst so perhaps there is something else going on. Lots of people when they are out in a social situation will avoid talking to ugly strangers, people are talking to you when you are out so you cant be that bad.


To be honest, I can EASILY go to a club with the intention to take a girl home, and take one home 100% of the time.

But i dont, why?

Because I believe that is taking advantage of a vulnerable person as 9/10 they are hammered, IMO thats not far away from rape, others disagree but thats just my view.




To go on what you have said aDecentGuy. In the states, a 14yr old girl you never met could tell the police you raped her and they would give her the benefit of the doubt. Even though later on you could prove you never did it their would be some kind of altercation to your record and gettig that fixed would takes years and $$$.


Trust me, its the same here too!

 
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