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20.01.2007, 23:09 quote

Orbazm
Orbazm Joined: 17 Jan 2007 Posts: 264 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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KEVIN53846 wrote:
you have now met someone...they mean something to you...

would you now stop 'actively' flirting with others..?

would you want your partner to do the same? or would you be happy if they 'actively flirt'..

does it matter if they dont know about it?

and when i say actively i mean encourage it...



No. I'm a natural flirt. I don't mean to sound big-headed but I'd be lying if I didn't say I get alot of attention from women at work some days.

But. I've never cheated. In my life. Because I'm able to draw the line. No touching, no "oh....yeah....im single", flirty smiles and what not. It's harmless.

I'd be totally fine with my g/f doing the same, so long as she drew the line too. It's tricky.... because we all know it's more dangerous for a girl to flirt because alot of men don't back off if they think they're in, no matter what the girl says.

But yeah. I'd still flirt a little, and I'd expect her to do the same. Because if she was a flirt before...making her stop now is going to potentially cause her to stray more than if she was free to flirt without guilt.
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20.01.2007, 23:10 quote

loubylou

kev was just asking others opinion as he thought it was strange to accept your partner flirting as he wasnt comfy with it no names/situations mentioned

 
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20.01.2007, 23:10 quote

missme7

KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..


Well if he wants a row he's picked on the right person coz I'm tired of the little digs so do your worst jeg Evil or Very Mad

 
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20.01.2007, 23:11 quote

Anonymous

KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..


Other people probably thought the same as me...Just seemed the way the thread was going to me. Maybe I'm wrong though

 
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20.01.2007, 23:12 quote

Anonymous

angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..

why so defensive kev?


not defensive dear...just trying to stop you causing trouble and others getting the blame for it.. Wink

 
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20.01.2007, 23:13 quote

Orbazm
Orbazm Joined: 17 Jan 2007 Posts: 264 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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ok...what the hell?
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20.01.2007, 23:13 quote

Anonymous

angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
xhiddenxlustx wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
encouraging them would be like making sure it continues over a period of time...feeding of what they say and responding in such a way as to get more comments of them....which i would say, would lead to it getting a bit deeper than just the odd flirtacious comment..


Hm..

Still don't see anything wrong with it.

Getting deeper? Confused


ok..how about this...you log on here say and see that your partner has been flirting back and forth for 4 or 5 pages with someone else..now obviously they have encouraged them to get to 4 or 5 pages, and by now comments are not ' i like your pic, you have a lovely smile', type of things...

wouldnt you be pissed off at all? you think this is ok?

see..i would be peeved myself, it would seem to me that there is no respect going on, but i want other peoples opinons on this..

again...if both are CLEARLY just having fun,no harm no foul. relationships do require trust


What if it wasn’t on the internet and your boyfriend was chatting up a woman or being chatted up, ..say in a pub somewhere, ..would that not make you angry? Is there really a difference because its online?

there is a difference. if it were online there wouldn't necessarily be intent. we all do it all the time here...doesn't necessarily mean that person is getting ready to cheat


dont think just because its online its more ok to do it...and as for we all do it on here...not true...since meeting claudia, i have never flirted with someone for 4,5 or 6 pages with someone...the odd bit of banter, yes..but out of respect and because its just not 'me' to do this i would never actively encourage it..
but i do understand that others might....it just seems weird to me..

don't know that i would either but i wouldn't look down on someone who did. it's their business not mine


I have flirted as we all now while being in a relationship, but this has proved to me that my relationship was not right. I have been looked down upon because of this by several members. I try to put myself in the others persons shoes and would never want someone to do what i did if I had true feeling for that person

 
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20.01.2007, 23:13 quote

Anonymous

KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..

why so defensive kev?


not defensive dear...just trying to stop you causing trouble and others getting the blame for it.. Wink

seems to me that the trouble started when u posted this thread in the first place

 
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20.01.2007, 23:14 quote

Anonymous

Jeggea wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..


Other people probably thought the same as me...Just seemed the way the thread was going to me. Maybe I'm wrong though


but it wasnt other people trying to make something out of this thread which wasnt there though eh!...

 
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20.01.2007, 23:16 quote

loubylou

karen just leave it hey it shouldnt have to go into who what or why really he was asking for others opinions end of

 
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20.01.2007, 23:16 quote

Anonymous

angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
KEVIN53846 wrote:
angelsarah wrote:
missme7 wrote:
Jeggea wrote:
Has this thread gone from a general 'would you ??' question, to having a pop at some one....... Just wondering.


I didn't see any names mentioned so maybe it's just you having a pop again Rolling Eyes

rather strange "coinicidence"that this thread appeared after laura flirted with baz


blimey...this naming is how trouble starts you know..

and with jeggea inciting it by asking his question...what are you lot like..

why so defensive kev?


not defensive dear...just trying to stop you causing trouble and others getting the blame for it.. Wink

seems to me that the trouble started when u posted this thread in the first place


wtf..have you read this thread correctly...stop trying to blame me for something which i havent done will you...getting pathectic now..

 
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20.01.2007, 23:16 quote

missme7

armpit there was no trouble til jeggea stuck his oar in. But of course he will get out of it by saying 'just my opinion'.

 
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20.01.2007, 23:17 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
karen just leave it hey it shouldnt have to go into who what or why really he was asking for others opinions end of


thankyou...

 
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20.01.2007, 23:18 quote

Anonymous

missme7 wrote:
armpit there was no trouble til jeggea stuck his oar in. But of course he will get out of it by saying 'just my opinion'.


Oh and '' if a mod wants to delete my posts then thats fine with me ''

 
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20.01.2007, 23:19 quote

loubylou

jesus bless ya no worries its gotten a little off track here remind the ppl who dont get this thread what you want opinions on again!!!lol

 
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