Thats a cute little story you got going on there Greystones. However, way to point out the obvious. The thing about dating sites is mate, that dating sites are shite, because the people on them make them shite.
If you wanna spice up your s e x life.. (because lets face it, thats all any of us are really on here for at the end of the day) then go out and buy yourself a prostitute, if it saves ya the annoyance of trying to get yourself some s e x.
Also, the pickup scene is dead mate. The only way to get a woman is to kidnap one and tie her up in your house But hey don't take my advice.. Go out and try it for yourself