you have now met someone...they mean something to you...

would you now stop 'actively' flirting with others..?

would you want your partner to do the same? or would you be happy if they 'actively flirt'..

does it matter if they dont know about it?

and when i say actively i mean encourage it...

i would stop flirting, but i wouldnt mind the partner doing it unless its like to over the top
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I'd be ok about it if my boyfriend 'actively' flirted with other girls.

Flirting is harmless. So is looking.

As long as you don't touch.

I tend to stop noticing other guys when i'm in a relationship. i'm a one-guy girl. yes it would bother me if he did, i expect monogamy

People tell me I am a flirt but I like to think I am just a really friendly person who will have a laugh with anyone so nope I probably wouldnt change. I would know within myself I think if things were taken too far
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I feel kinda uncomfortable about it, but I know I'll be fine as (if) it progresses. The fact that the guy in question has changed his profile from 'dating' to 'talking/email only' helps

edit: ah! Didn't read that quite right I don't think. I'm talking about friendly flirting, having a giggle, not out and out ''hand in her knickers'' flirting

Mmmmm ... i'm in two minds about this one ... i wouldnt like my b/friend flirting ''outrageously'' with other females .... but friendly banter is fine

see...personally, i would say i couldnt do it.. out of respect to the other person..

cannot see the point of encouraging others to flirt with you if you have a partner..i know people can throw around some flirtatious banter at times, and thats fine...