Anything else >> now you have a partner..

20.01.2007, 21:24 quote

Anonymous

angelsarah wrote:

Leglover227 wrote:

angelsarah wrote:

KEVIN53846 wrote:

xhiddenxlustx wrote:

KEVIN53846 wrote:

encouraging them would be like making sure it continues over a period of time...feeding of what they say and responding in such a way as to get more comments of them....which i would say, would lead to it getting a bit deeper than just the odd flirtacious comment..

Hm..

Still don't see anything wrong with it.

Getting deeper? Confused

ok..how about this...you log on here say and see that your partner has been flirting back and forth for 4 or 5 pages with someone else..now obviously they have encouraged them to get to 4 or 5 pages, and by now comments are not ' i like your pic, you have a lovely smile', type of things...

wouldnt you be pissed off at all? you think this is ok?

see..i would be peeved myself, it would seem to me that there is no respect going on, but i want other peoples opinons on this..

again...if both are CLEARLY just having fun,no harm no foul. relationships do require trust

What if it wasn’t on the internet and your boyfriend was chatting up a woman or being chatted up, ..say in a pub somewhere, ..would that not make you angry? Is there really a difference because its online?

there is a difference. if it were online there wouldn't necessarily be intent. we all do it all the time here...doesn't necessarily mean that person is getting ready to cheat

dont think just because its online its more ok to do it...and as for we all do it on here...not true...since meeting claudia, i have never flirted with someone for 4,5 or 6 pages with someone...the odd bit of banter, yes..but out of respect and because its just not 'me' to do this i would never actively encourage it..
but i do understand that others might....it just seems weird to me..

20.01.2007, 21:29 quote

Anonymous

KEVIN53846 wrote:

angelsarah wrote:

Leglover227 wrote:

angelsarah wrote:

KEVIN53846 wrote:

xhiddenxlustx wrote:

KEVIN53846 wrote:

encouraging them would be like making sure it continues over a period of time...feeding of what they say and responding in such a way as to get more comments of them....which i would say, would lead to it getting a bit deeper than just the odd flirtacious comment..

Hm..

Still don't see anything wrong with it.

Getting deeper? Confused

ok..how about this...you log on here say and see that your partner has been flirting back and forth for 4 or 5 pages with someone else..now obviously they have encouraged them to get to 4 or 5 pages, and by now comments are not ' i like your pic, you have a lovely smile', type of things...

wouldnt you be pissed off at all? you think this is ok?

see..i would be peeved myself, it would seem to me that there is no respect going on, but i want other peoples opinons on this..

again...if both are CLEARLY just having fun,no harm no foul. relationships do require trust

What if it wasn’t on the internet and your boyfriend was chatting up a woman or being chatted up, ..say in a pub somewhere, ..would that not make you angry? Is there really a difference because its online?

there is a difference. if it were online there wouldn't necessarily be intent. we all do it all the time here...doesn't necessarily mean that person is getting ready to cheat

dont think just because its online its more ok to do it...and as for we all do it on here...not true...since meeting claudia, i have never flirted with someone for 4,5 or 6 pages with someone...the odd bit of banter, yes..but out of respect and because its just not 'me' to do this i would never actively encourage it..
but i do understand that others might....it just seems weird to me..

don't know that i would either but i wouldn't look down on someone who did. it's their business not mine

20.01.2007, 21:32 quote