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04.06.2006, 13:54 quote
Guess What, I have been around and know that women want a man that is gonna love themselves first then love their mate for what they are. You must have a personality, honesty, communication and just be yourself. You need to be your mates best friend. And looks, most young girls"no offense" do take looks very seriously but the older you get the wiser you are. Fate steps in when u least expect it. Good luck,
05.06.2006, 16:08 quote
| Aluria wrote: |
| Guess What, I have been around and know that women want a man that is gonna love themselves first then love their mate for what they are. You must have a personality, honesty, communication and just be yourself. You need to be your mates best friend. And looks, most young girls"no offense" do take looks very seriously but the older you get the wiser you are. Fate steps in when u least expect it. Good luck, |
You took the words right out of my mouth.
05.06.2006, 17:54 quote
| cellardweller wrote: |
| Good advice angelthread and i do see your point.
I just here so meny girls go on about liking confidence in a man and men going on about being confident to attact the girls i just got a bit confussed. But yer you are right .....but i,m still confuessed LOL cheers anyway..  |
this is my problem aswell!! how do i explain it??
my best mate is confident to the point of being extremely cocky. he's a bit of a "player" or at least thats the image he tries to project.
i'm different in that, i hate people with big ego's, and always try to be the "nice approachable guy".......besides, being arrogant doesnt suit me.
let there be no mistake, i have inner confidence and absolutely believe in myself, but i always thought that nice girls would be attracted to nice guys, and the cocky arrogant girls would be attracted to the cocky arrogant guys.
but it seems that ALL the girls are attracted to the cocky arrogant guys.
its shaking my faith in women...i mean, girls talk all the time about how all men are d*ckheads, and that what they really want is someone kind and considerate, but in this simple "demonstration" where me and my mate (both similar in looks and physical appearance) are single and looking for fun and/or long term relationship, he seems to be the one that always has girls hanging off him.
so whats my outlook on dating and relationships????
simple....just being a nice guy will get you no-where.
rant over
05.06.2006, 18:17 quote
| crimewave wrote: | ||
this is my problem aswell!! how do i explain it?? my best mate is confident to the point of being extremely cocky. he's a bit of a "player" or at least thats the image he tries to project. i'm different in that, i hate people with big ego's, and always try to be the "nice approachable guy".......besides, being arrogant doesnt suit me. let there be no mistake, i have inner confidence and absolutely believe in myself, but i always thought that nice girls would be attracted to nice guys, and the cocky arrogant girls would be attracted to the cocky arrogant guys. but it seems that ALL the girls are attracted to the cocky arrogant guys. its shaking my faith in women...i mean, girls talk all the time about how all men are d*ckheads, and that what they really want is someone kind and considerate, but in this simple "demonstration" where me and my mate (both similar in looks and physical appearance) are single and looking for fun and/or long term relationship, he seems to be the one that always has girls hanging off him. so whats my outlook on dating and relationships???? simple....just being a nice guy will get you no-where. rant over |
LOL not every girl is after a wild boy!!!!!
as i have said a few times i like a good guy and so have a few others lol
05.06.2006, 19:29 quote
Well I cannot stand cocky arrogant men.I have to find someone interesting and with a good imagination .Also you have to be able to listen as well as talk.A sense of humour is vital .People get better looking the more you get to know/like em.The eyes say it all.I get replies but as yet have had none that I have clicked with.Often there is a feeling that they arent interested in you and just want you to get on webcam!The most exciting sex begins in the mind!Any takers!?
Joolesxx
05.06.2006, 19:39 quote
I have to say I totally agree with crimewave. Being a 'nice guy' only gets you ignored, I mean, sure enough it is easy to say "being more positive and assertive will help" but for many people that just isn't in their personality and frankly I would rather not pretend to be someone I'm not just to try and trick someone into noticing me for someone I'm not.
07.06.2006, 18:11 quote
birds are more superficial than blokes, they like money and looks and this I know for sure.
"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money"
07.06.2006, 20:09 quote
| Itwasonlyakiss wrote: |
| birds are more superficial than blokes, they like money and looks and this I know for sure.
"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money" |
You say you know it for sure, well im sorry to shatter your illusions but not all girls like that. Money and cars are material things. I personally dont go for material things.
Me i like a guy for them. if i can converse with a guy and they interest me in what they say then that is a big thing. I also go for men who know what they want out of life and actively work towards achiving their dreams.
Nothing is better than a guy who has the brain and goals. they also have to have a sense of humor as i like to have a laugh and a joke.
looks are not important but there obviously has to be that spark of sexual chemistry too.
as for cars and money what a crock of poop. i could not care less. life is what you make of it. oh and it is far more romantic to go for a nice walk together than sit in a car in gridlocked traffic.
08.06.2006, 07:09 quote
well danni82 you say you dont go for cars and money nor looks yet you also say you want a guy who knows what they want out of life and actively work towards achiving their dreams.
is this then not the same? some one with the dream to make something of themselves to make there lives finacilay secure ( money) which in turn leads to a decent way of life ( nice car, nice home ).
maybe i have you wrong but it seems to me you have the same dreams as we all do , but have a better way of putting it lol .
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08.06.2006, 10:48 quote
I don't actively 'look' for anything in a man, if I meet someone and I'm physically attracted to them, I'll spend the time getting to know them and will determine over the course of time whether I find them intelligent, trustworthy, funny and all that stuff I like to have in my relationships. If I don't discover the kind of traits I like, I can still have a casual relationship, since the physical attraction is there. I'll just roll my eyes at the dumb things they say.
This isn't to say that I don't take the time to get to know people I'm not physically attracted to, just that if there's not a physical spark, nothing romantic is going to happen.
08.06.2006, 11:43 quote
| acedit wrote: |
| well danni82 you say you dont go for cars and money nor looks yet you also say you want a guy who knows what they want out of life and actively work towards achiving their dreams.
is this then not the same? some one with the dream to make something of themselves to make there lives finacilay secure ( money) which in turn leads to a decent way of life ( nice car, nice home ). maybe i have you wrong but it seems to me you have the same dreams as we all do , but have a better way of putting it lol .
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No its not the same at all, activley working towards your dreams could be anything wever it be to be a good father or doing a collage course to get into a feild they want to be in. i am not a material person. cars and money dont bother me at all. put it this way before i had my son i was in a management role earning a concidrable amount of money. i could well have gone and got myself a nice car or gone traveling but no. i chose to help out familly who needed it more than i, also i gave it all up to have my son and live £70 a week to support the both me and my son and pay bills. and you know what even tho i dont have money i am happier than i have ever been in my life. so the answer to your question is no it is entierly different. having hopes and dreams is what you want to do with your life in the future not working towards a spiffy car. yes some people dream of that and all fair play to them but thats not what i look for. its all to do with confidence and ambision.
So are you sugesting that anyone who wants to make something of their lives autimaticly wants nice cars and homes?
well i hope to go back to college once karl is in school and continue the phsycology course and hopefully get into the profession. Not to get the fast cars and nice houses because i wouldn't im quite hapy with my flat and renult 5 that never gets driven because im a walking person.
I want to do it so i can help people. not everyones dreams are to get a nice car and money.
Infact if i am honest it is something that turns me off about a guy when they drive around in the beemers and acting as though women should flock to them. its all a persona to hide the fact they have no testicals.
08.06.2006, 13:11 quote
well i,m safe then as i have to be driven now, as i had to give up driving due to MS but this has not stoped me from looking forward to life and living life as i make it, and great news any way one of my sons ( whos 20 ) who lives with me has just past his driving test today , i am so pleased for him.
i enjoy yo walk , oh and danni the 5.s are nice cars anyway . take care and be lucky .
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08.06.2006, 13:23 quote
| acedit wrote: |
| well i,m safe then as i have to be driven now, as i had to give up driving due to MS but this has not stoped me from looking forward to life and living life as i make it, and great news any way one of my sons ( whos 20 ) who lives with me has just past his driving test today , i am so pleased for him.
i enjoy yo walk , oh and danni the 5.s are nice cars anyway . take care and be lucky . |
aww congrats to your son. and its good to see you are determined to make the most of life, to many people are to quick to give it all up and wait for things to happen.
good luck with you to babes xx
08.06.2006, 17:16 quote
| crimewave wrote: |
| this is my problem aswell!! how do i explain it??
my best mate is confident to the point of being extremely cocky. he's a bit of a "player" or at least thats the image he tries to project. i'm different in that, i hate people with big ego's, and always try to be the "nice approachable guy".......besides, being arrogant doesnt suit me. let there be no mistake, i have inner confidence and absolutely believe in myself, but i always thought that nice girls would be attracted to nice guys, and the cocky arrogant girls would be attracted to the cocky arrogant guys. but it seems that ALL the girls are attracted to the cocky arrogant guys. its shaking my faith in women...i mean, girls talk all the time about how all men are d*ckheads, and that what they really want is someone kind and considerate, but in this simple "demonstration" where me and my mate (both similar in looks and physical appearance) are single and looking for fun and/or long term relationship, he seems to be the one that always has girls hanging off him. so whats my outlook on dating and relationships???? simple....just being a nice guy will get you no-where. rant over |
I think you're exactly right, I have a similar problem too, loads of girls I talk to on MSN and such like tell me I'm really nice etc, but don't seem to have much luck with girls because I don't try to chat them up or try to get them into bed.
There's a guy who works with me, who's cocky and arrogant, and is always bragging about which girls he's slept with, and people say how he's slept with practically everyone in the company, cause he's reasonably good looking, and cocky. It's not like he even treats them nicely, calling a woman "his bitch" when he was out with her.
It seems to be if you're cocky, arrogant, and treat women like shit then you'll have an endless string of women, but if you prefer to treat them with respect, get to know them etc, you'll struggle to find a date.
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