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16.12.2006, 23:24 quote

Anonymous

pirakkanaama wrote:
xhiddenxlustx wrote:
I'd give ANYTHING to be happy again. I really would.

Maybe i'm just used to being unhappy?


aw luara u will be happy and maybe even ur happy now but havnt noticed the change so still believe ur unhappy?


Nah..definately unhappy at this moment in time.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:24 quote

Anonymous

xhiddenxlustx wrote:
Morillo wrote:
Actually maybe you do subconsciously. I dont mean that to sound horrible but I have a friend like you who aint happy unless he's unhappy.


Don't know if you have realised this yet, but I actually am sometimes happy, and that is the best feeling in the world.

Then something or someone always brings me down again Confused


yes I know you can be happy and when you are your a totally different person. We all have our knocks Laura but you got to learn to take them in your stride as part of life, sweep them under the carpet and get on with things. I know its easier said than done but there's people on these boards who have gone through hell of a lot more than you have yet dont moan and groan about it all the time. Seriously now, maybe you need proffesional help.

Please dont take what Ive said the wrong way, only trying to help, not have a go at you.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:24 quote

Anonymous

xhiddenxlustx wrote:
Morillo wrote:
Actually maybe you do subconsciously. I dont mean that to sound horrible but I have a friend like you who aint happy unless he's unhappy.


Don't know if you have realised this yet, but I actually am sometimes happy, and that is the best feeling in the world.

Then something or someone always brings me down again Confused



Laura honestly that happens to everyone in life ........... the people that bring you down and make you feel unhappy arent really friends .. i dont want to sound patronising by saying this ,, but you are young .. and you will learn x

 
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16.12.2006, 23:26 quote

Anonymous

xhiddenxlustx wrote:
I'd give ANYTHING to be happy again. I really would.

Maybe i'm just used to being unhappy?


My mate is maybe the best looking one out of us, earns more money...but he dislikes himself. When he's got a girlfriend, he seems to go out of his way to put her off him, then when she blows him out he gets depressed.
But I think his problem is a dislike of himself.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:26 quote

Anonymous

KEVIN53846 wrote:
only if youlet that happen..

a young lass like you should be saying, sometimes i am unhappy, not the other way around....seems by the way you worded it that you spend more time unhappy than happy.. Confused


I guess.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:27 quote

loubylou

morillo being all sensible and mature?!!think am gonna faint!!loldig ya hair colour claudia!!

 
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16.12.2006, 23:30 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
morillo being all sensible and mature?!!think am gonna faint!!loldig ya hair colour claudia!!


I have my moments.....and despite our little digs I think Lauras alright and needs a bit of help at the moment.....though judging by my mental stae prob not from me.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:31 quote

Anonymous

Laura just being honest with you ...... theres nothn worse than someone unhappy at xmas ....... but only you can change it ....thats if you really want to

 
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16.12.2006, 23:33 quote

Anonymous

Morillo wrote:
yes I know you can be happy and when you are your a totally different person. We all have our knocks Laura but you got to learn to take them in your stride as part of life, sweep them under the carpet and get on with things. I know its easier said than done but there's people on these boards who have gone through hell of a lot more than you have yet dont moan and groan about it all the time. Seriously now, maybe you need proffesional help.

Please dont take what Ive said the wrong way, only trying to help, not have a go at you.


I know a lot of you probably have been through more than me - but you are all a little older(not disrespect meant here)

About the professional help..I have a psychiatrist appointment in january. My doctor referred me just over a month ago. Maybe that will help....only bit of advice I have ever followed from my parents.

I know you didn't mean it in the 'wrong way', Ant.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:34 quote

Anonymous

KEVIN53846 wrote:
Morillo wrote:
cheekyarse wrote:
69 69 69 aka 58346.. or if ur into physics (e = MC likes my pie squared ) ........is coming to mine on monday to spend christmas in scottie land


Aw thats great guys, wishing you a great 1st xmas together and many more to follow. Couldn't happen to a nicer couple of people. Im honestly really chuffed for you both. x


thankyou Ant..means a lot to hear that..

Kevin is that you? Hallowe'en is over you know.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:34 quote

Anonymous

go out on xmas eve laura, find a place with your music and have a good time, your only young once yanno

 
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16.12.2006, 23:35 quote

Anonymous

cheekyarse wrote:
Laura honestly that happens to everyone in life ........... the people that bring you down and make you feel unhappy arent really friends .. i dont want to sound patronising by saying this ,, but you are young .. and you will learn x


Some of my friends are great, and I love them to pieces....I am going through the process of getting rid of the bad apples.

And it isn't just my 'friends' that bring me down. Confused

 
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16.12.2006, 23:36 quote

Anonymous

Morillo wrote:
loubylou wrote:
morillo being all sensible and mature?!!think am gonna faint!!loldig ya hair colour claudia!!


I have my moments.....and despite our little digs I think Lauras alright and needs a bit of help at the moment.....though judging by my mental stae prob not from me.


You know, you're not so bad yourself, Ant.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:37 quote

Anonymous

xhiddenxlustx wrote:
Morillo wrote:
yes I know you can be happy and when you are your a totally different person. We all have our knocks Laura but you got to learn to take them in your stride as part of life, sweep them under the carpet and get on with things. I know its easier said than done but there's people on these boards who have gone through hell of a lot more than you have yet dont moan and groan about it all the time. Seriously now, maybe you need proffesional help.

Please dont take what Ive said the wrong way, only trying to help, not have a go at you.


I know a lot of you probably have been through more than me - but you are all a little older(not disrespect meant here)

About the professional help..I have a psychiatrist appointment in january. My doctor referred me just over a month ago. Maybe that will help....only bit of advice I have ever followed from my parents.

I know you didn't mean it in the 'wrong way', Ant.


Well you've done the hard part, admitting you may have a problem is half the battle. Hope it goes well for you.

 
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16.12.2006, 23:37 quote

Anonymous

cheekyarse wrote:
Laura just being honest with you ...... theres nothn worse than someone unhappy at xmas ....... but only you can change it ....thats if you really want to


That is why I am desperately trying not to be alone this christmas.

I spent all of last christmas crying, and that definately isn't good.

 
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