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Home >> Dating >> Me? A Father?
05.03.2007, 22:09 quote
This ones mainly 4 the guys.
Do any guys on here, when u actually do get any women contacting u on dating sites, always get the ones with kids sending u a message.
I just wondered if i'm giving off some sort of fatherly figure vibe! Am i?
I mean i'm sure we could get on, but i'm not ready to be a father yet, especially to someone elses kids!
Mmmmm?
05.03.2007, 22:13 quote
Not a bloke...but I don't think most women are looking for father figures or whatever for their children.
Just because they contact you, it doesn't mean they are going to ask you to father their kids!
I'm sure if you find somebody you really like, you won't find that this is a problem. You just have to over look it.
05.03.2007, 22:16 quote
| PasleptSiekare wrote: |
| Not a bloke...but I don't think most women are looking for father figures or whatever for their children.
Just because they contact you, it doesn't mean they are going to ask you to father their kids! |
Spot on ! It's a bit arrogant of you 2bit to assume they want this
05.03.2007, 22:19 quote
| missme7 wrote: | ||
Spot on ! It's a bit arrogant of you 2bit to assume they want this |
It's common sense, really
05.03.2007, 22:23 quote
Im not being arrogant, but i just wanna meet someone who hasnt got kids and get interest from them, when all i seem to get is interest from women with kids!
How i see it, is that a woman has given herself to a man, had children with them, there will never be anyone else that can match surely?
I could be wrong, but isnt that the reason were here, to find the right person to carry on the genes?
I think it probably stems from having two stepfathers who i hated!
Dont wanna be like them!
05.03.2007, 22:27 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: |
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How i see it, is that a woman has given herself to a man, had children with them, there will never be anyone else that can match surely? I could be wrong, but isnt that the reason were here, to find the right person to carry on the genes? |
I never heard such rubbish in all my life. You're basically saying that if a woman has a failed relationship which produced kids then thats the end for her? People do go on and have relationships again you know, its not a case of one strike and you're out !!
05.03.2007, 22:30 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: |
| Im not being arrogant, but i just wanna meet someone who hasnt got kids and get interest from them, when all i seem to get is interest from women with kids!
How i see it, is that a woman has given herself to a man, had children with them, there will never be anyone else that can match surely? I could be wrong, but isnt that the reason were here, to find the right person to carry on the genes? I think it probably stems from having two stepfathers who i hated! Dont wanna be like them! |
Thank god my stepdad didnt feel like you or I wouldnt have had the great and happy childhood that I did!!!!!
Im soooooo glad that he was the complete opposite from my biological sperm donor as I call my so called 'dad'. Sometimes there may just be more than person that you can 'match' with as you put it
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05.03.2007, 22:31 quote
I never heard such rubbish in all my life. You're basically saying that if a woman has a failed relationship which produced kids then thats the end for her? People do go on and have relationships again you know, its not a case of one strike and you're out !![/quote]
Which is why i directed this at the guys!
I think your getting me all wrong, did i say it was the end for them?
All im saying is that i dont think itll work for me, and id like some interest to be shown from single, childless women....
Please!
05.03.2007, 22:31 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: |
| Im not being arrogant, but i just wanna meet someone who hasnt got kids and get interest from them, when all i seem to get is interest from women with kids!
How i see it, is that a woman has given herself to a man, had children with them, there will never be anyone else that can match surely? I could be wrong, but isnt that the reason were here, to find the right person to carry on the genes? I think it probably stems from having two stepfathers who i hated! Dont wanna be like them! |
How can you say that when you don't know the situation with the kids fathers?
Hate to break it to you - but a lot of females do have kids from previous relationships now - no matter how old or young they are. If you want to carry on looking for one - then good luck - you're going to need it.
If you like a woman that much, you'll accept her children. If not - more fool you.
05.03.2007, 22:34 quote
Think ive struck a cord here with the ladies!
Wheres all the guys tonight?
Sorry ladies, no offence meant, especially ones with kids
05.03.2007, 22:35 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: |
| Think ive struck a cord here with the ladies!
Wheres all the guys tonight? Sorry ladies, no offence meant, especially ones with kids |
Or wheres all the single fathers then that might be in the same boat????
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05.03.2007, 22:36 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: |
| Which is why i directed this at the guys!
I think your getting me all wrong, did i say it was the end for them? All im saying is that i dont think itll work for me, and id like some interest to be shown from single, childless women.... Please! |
You're entitled to your preferences of course, but you could have worded it better in you're initial post ! Maybe you should put a note on your profile saying 'no mums need apply'.
05.03.2007, 22:41 quote
I would love kids! mine or someone elses, shouldn't let kids stop you from meeting the woman your going to fall in love with.
| Twobitactor wrote: |
| Think ive struck a cord here with the ladies!
Wheres all the guys tonight? Sorry ladies, no offence meant, especially ones with kids |
05.03.2007, 22:44 quote
| brightfame wrote: | ||
I would love kids! mine or someone elses, shouldn't let kids stop you from meeting the woman your going to fall in love with.
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Thats good 4 u brightframe!
Have u changed your name?
Sorry mate, just not ready for em
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