Hey everyone

About a month ago my girlfriend and I broke up because she didn't want to be in a relationship, and she's got a few things she needs to deal with.

I'm in the middle of the post relationship blues, and I'm trying to to figure out if its her I miss, or being in a relationship. So my question is, what's the general feeling? In your experience, do you find its the person, or the relationship you miss?

Thanks!

i find its a bit of both, you miss sleeping with someone, you miss the sex and all that, you miss having someone to talk to.. etc...

No....I dont think its the sex that I miss really....its more the other things you do as a couple.....cuddling, holding hands, that sort of thing. I'm just trying to work out if I had that with someone else, would be that I'm missing, and then be ok, or is it actually my ex?

but it does take a while to kinda settle in a relationship so you'll need a few months with someone new to really tell

I've just had a wonderful weekend doing the things I miss in a relationship. No, we didn't spend all day in bed having sex He sat next to me reading and I snuggled up to him and alternately (i'm gonna cringe here)... knitting*!!! and snoozing Plus the general pottering about the place over the weekend.

Don't get me wrong, the sex is fantastic, but it's the little things you miss most when not in a relationship, so I'd agree with Violet and say that you are probably missing both.






NB knitting is an art form!!!!!

theres nowt wrong with knitting.. ive always wanted to learn

TRACY ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, KNITTING .???????............. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


i'm not having that i dont care if you think your old coz your 28 ... WE DONT DOOOOOOOOOOO KNITTING

shut it cheeky, othewise i wont be knitting you a scarf..

Plain ... and miss a few purl ... pmsl

noooooooo its a knitting term hun heehee pmsl