Getting back to the case in point Anyone else got any views on this?

It could be both.

Personally, i'd say it's the relationship type things you're missing more.

I know I miss that when i'm single!

can you separate the person from the experience. I think not.

its difficult to imagine when you've had it good with one person that another will be as good but sooner or later you get to the concept that good with another person is something that can't be compared. its like saying which is better an apple or a bannana. if you like both can you really say one is better than the other. they're just different.

Out of interest Julie what are you knitting ?

Hmm with days warming up you might not need that scarf, was lovely outside today, even took my tie off and undid the top button of my shirt @ work.

Apologies, I shall now call you red, lol I thought you might say call me Mistress!!!

Yeah I think it was but it didn't come true so never mind

We shall confine the M word to the PM's where nobody can see!!!!!

actually the past few days have brough some clarity for me. I want to thank everyone who commented and gave their views. I've realised its not really her I miss (aside from the company) its more being in a relationship, and feeling wanted, and wanting and caring for someone. She's not ready for that, and I'm not sure will be for quite a while.

Guess I'm looking for what we're all looking for eh?

I have no idea what i'm looking for, I'm open to suggestions people...