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03.09.2006, 20:17 quote

Anonymous

2niceguy wrote:
i have met a laidy on this ! it went realy,realy well! but please be carefull, just like in life ! there will be all sorts of peopel out there!if you meet !meet in a well known place by you


hi, welcome...and good advice..

 

03.09.2006, 20:37 quote

Anonymous

Senna27NZ wrote:
lol....

well i was raised in a way that if you can't find anything nice to say about someone, don't say anything at all.

so i managed to find something nice to say Smile


lol Laughing aww, better luck next time Jay Very Happy

 

03.09.2006, 21:16 quote

Anonymous

fix8ion wrote:
Granted I am hardly the kinda person most people try to victimize, I have always found the net to be a superior way to date.

I have not met anyone from flirtbox yet but it's rather small an nto realy set up all that well yet so give it time to grown an learn an I am sure someday it will be a good place.

I met my former wife on another site and it went great until outside forces beyond our control forced us apart.

To me the net is a great place to meet a bunch o fpeople all at once an then wait for the cream to float to the top.

Thing about the net is you are forced to communicate. One thing I find very important is to be very very honest about your flaws. DOn't waste other peopels time tryin to put on a good show that ain't gonna last once they meet you.
When I meet someone new I tend to tell them what the last person or 3 complained about hehhe.

For women I suggest you just meet people with other folks around. Give out zero personal info and pay your own way untill actual romantic stuff has well under way. Draw good clear boundries but be pleasent and you will be perfectly fine.

If you have a long list of scary boyfriends, abusers and stalkers then skip dating alltogether and just hang with a shrink for a while instead cuz that's all about you not them Wink

Meanwhile, would be nice if they had dates on these posts so I know if I am responding to a post from 1997 or not Wink

DAve


hi there...nice to hear some postive stuff about net dating..regarding dates, they are dated...in the very top left hand corner...

 

04.09.2006, 05:30 quote

Anonymous

Well I am happily all 'loved up' since meeting a guy of the net. It wasnt this site but a similar one. I have met guys before but over a period of 4/5 years there have only been 3 that had the 'wow' factor in the flesh.
It CAN happen girls!!! (and guys) The only thing that worries me is that it seems too good to be true and something is going to happen to spoil it....ever the optimist eh?
Jude

 

04.09.2006, 05:37 quote

Anonymous

hope it all goes well for you jude

 

04.09.2006, 06:16 quote

Anonymous

Minks wrote:
Well I am happily all 'loved up' since meeting a guy of the net. It wasnt this site but a similar one. I have met guys before but over a period of 4/5 years there have only been 3 that had the 'wow' factor in the flesh.
It CAN happen girls!!! (and guys) The only thing that worries me is that it seems too good to be true and something is going to happen to spoil it....ever the optimist eh?
Jude


I quite agree Minx. I had a date with a guy a couple of months ago. Absolutely wonderful, then he told me he was married!! We did meet the once. I had no reason to disbelieve what was happening in his marriage, but I wouldn't meet him again. Morals got in the way Sad Very Happy

 

04.09.2006, 12:17 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
Senna27NZ wrote:
lol....

well i was raised in a way that if you can't find anything nice to say about someone, don't say anything at all.

so i managed to find something nice to say Smile


lol Laughing aww, better luck next time Jay Very Happy



I enjoyed meeting the 3 girls, it certainly hasnt put me off meeting others.

 

04.09.2006, 12:20 quote

Anonymous

Senna27NZ wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Senna27NZ wrote:
lol....

well i was raised in a way that if you can't find anything nice to say about someone, don't say anything at all.

so i managed to find something nice to say Smile


lol Laughing aww, better luck next time Jay Very Happy



I enjoyed meeting the 3 girls, it certainly hasnt put me off meeting others.


I should think not! You'd have to be dead from the waist down not to Wink

 

04.09.2006, 12:33 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
If only i had a chance but I'm jus a poor shy scotsman Crying or Very sad "Head bowed down" walking into the sunset all alone!


Aww don't Dave Sad You're a lovely guy. You just got to take the bull by the horns and ask someone! I know it can be disheartening if the answer comes back as a no, but surely better to ask and know the answer than to always be wondering?

 

04.09.2006, 16:04 quote

Anonymous

Personally I think I'm brilliant and it is the girls are all at fault. It's not just me that thinks this all my female friends thinks so too. My problem is I make friends quite easily and it always killing a romance. The whole relationship from friendship thing just isn't true either...unless a woman is wanting to settle down for kids and you are her plan B option. Who wants to be a plan B when your a plan A guy?

 

04.09.2006, 16:09 quote

Anonymous

paulusmaximus wrote:
Personally I think I'm brilliant and it is the girls are all at fault. It's not just me that thinks this all my female friends thinks so too. My problem is I make friends quite easily and it always killing a romance. The whole relationship from friendship thing just isn't true either...unless a woman is wanting to settle down for kids and you are her plan B option. Who wants to be a plan B when your a plan A guy?


Good to see someone thinking this way. Way to go Paulus. Some women love that kind of confidence. Keep at making friends, forget looking for more for a while. The right one will then come along when you least expect it.

 

06.09.2006, 21:09 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
I don't know.

I'm pretty wary of meeting people from online.



so why are you here if not to meet people?

 

06.09.2006, 21:11 quote

Anonymous

agamm wrote:
so why are you here if not to meet people?


.........To talk to people?

 

06.09.2006, 21:12 quote

Anonymous

Im just here to be stupid and I think I do a pretty damn good job of it to.

 

06.09.2006, 21:14 quote

Anonymous

morillo wrote:
Im just here to be stupid and I think I do a pretty damn good job of it to.


No comment..... Wink

 
 
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