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21.03.2007, 15:37 quote
ive sent messages out and sometimes i get replys sometimes i dont..
but i do recieve alot more then i send..
i guess its just hit and miss, just keep trying and dont send the usual "hi" message
21.03.2007, 16:02 quote
I send lots of messages- if I see someone I want to talk to, I message them. I don't have a traditional view on here- I view it as casual and fun. If you are as genuine as you say you are, I am sure you'll get some good responses soon
21.03.2007, 18:09 quote
SirKunmskull wrote: |
Just wanted to get a range of opinions, i have been online a while now and it seems very rare for a woman to make the first move online. Is this due to the fact that they are prob outnumbered by 10 to 1 or more to do with old tradional point of views on dating? I know the genuine guys out there a like myself are outnumbered by the married/cheating guys that just want to get laid, but i still find it strange in this day and age that even online some people (not all) seem to be stuck into traditional values. any comments or suggestion are more than welcome |
dont think its rare at all for a woman to send out msgs..I think if more men actually stopped sending out msgs to everyone woman in a vain attempt to get a least one back, woman would spend more time msg'ing blokes they wanted too, instead of reading tonnes of crap, deleting and blocking..
21.03.2007, 18:21 quote
I was quite surprised at the amount of messages from women. Don't get me wrong, my inbox isn't exactly overflowing with potential admirers, but as us men are supposed to take the initiative in this field it came as a bit of a shock.
They haven't all been of the 'hi' variety either, and the ones who put the effort in have so far been the ones really worth talking to. Which kinda makes sense. Kudos to 'em I say.
It saves me making a dick of myself at any rate.
21.03.2007, 18:31 quote
chikhai wrote: |
I was quite surprised at the amount of messages from women. Don't get me wrong, my inbox isn't exactly overflowing with potential admirers, but as us men are supposed to take the initiative in this field it came as a bit of a shock.
They haven't all been of the 'hi' variety either, and the ones who put the effort in have so far been the ones really worth talking to. Which kinda makes sense. Kudos to 'em I say. It saves me making a dick of myself at any rate. |
too true..I dont send out msgs but have quite a few sent to me..
And i do laugh at the ones which just say hi etc..especially as woman keep saying they hate msgs like that..
so just proves that if any man says they dont get sent any msgs or moan about it, then i dont understand why..
21.03.2007, 18:33 quote
Ive found if ppl see something they like they often say something, traditional values dont entirely apply because digital communication negates the amount of self-confidence required in talking to strangers face to face.
saying that if people are looking but passing by its entirely likely they're seeing something that puts them off. Im sure i do better if i liked mainstream movies for instance instead of things like whasango, cashern and arahan.
21.03.2007, 19:06 quote
browolf wrote: |
Ive found if ppl see something they like they often say something, traditional values dont entirely apply because digital communication negates the amount of self-confidence required in talking to strangers face to face.
saying that if people are looking but passing by its entirely likely they're seeing something that puts them off. Im sure i do better if i liked mainstream movies for instance instead of things like whasango, cashern and arahan. |
are they actual movies or was that a joke..
21.03.2007, 19:18 quote
twistedvoilet wrote: |
are they actual movies or was that a joke.. |
I rest my case
21.03.2007, 19:19 quote
browolf wrote: | ||
I rest my case |
21.03.2007, 19:21 quote
Jesus. Someone else has heard of Cashern?
It'll be Happiness Of The Katakuris next.
21.03.2007, 19:24 quote
chikhai wrote: |
Jesus. Someone else has heard of Cashern?
It'll be Happiness Of The Katakuris next. |
21.03.2007, 19:25 quote
chikhai wrote: |
Jesus. Someone else has heard of Cashern?
It'll be Happiness Of The Katakuris next. |
thats a new one on me.....sounds good on imdb... damn can only find it with jap or esp subtitles
whasango is also known as volcano high....
23.03.2007, 20:11 quote
I think that in the six years that I have been using internet dating site I have had about two women contact me first. But then they soon seemed to lose interest and after a few exchanges of messages disappeared.
23.03.2007, 20:15 quote
stonecastle wrote: |
I think that in the six years that I have been using internet dating site I have had about two women contact me first. But then they soon seemed to lose interest and after a few exchanges of messages disappeared. |
.... i wonder why
23.03.2007, 20:40 quote
cheekyeyes wrote: | ||
.... i wonder why |
my thoughts exactly!!!
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