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23.03.2007, 19:40 quote
| cheekyeyes wrote: | ||
 .... i wonder why |
my thoughts exactly!!!
23.03.2007, 19:44 quote
| cheekyeyes wrote: |
| I wonder why |
24.03.2007, 11:08 quote
Maybe it was your positive attitude that put them off Stonecastle. You just overwhelmed them with your aura of love for life. You might want to try toning it down a little. People can only take so much excitement.
24.03.2007, 11:22 quote
| stonecastle wrote: | ||
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thats one way of looking at it
but people tend to have an agenda of sorts and if they decide they dont like u or you dont live up to their expectations, they tend to discontinue communication. No one has time for 10,000 casual aquaintances. Its happened to me and I've done it too. Its just how it is.
24.03.2007, 12:06 quote
| chikhai wrote: |
| Maybe it was your positive attitude that put them off Stonecastle. You just overwhelmed them with your aura of love for life. You might want to try toning it down a little. People can only take so much excitement. |
lol
24.03.2007, 17:09 quote
I must say that in my experience of using sites like this, I haven’t had much contact from women. The problem with that is that it gets me thinking that some thing must be wrong with my profile or maybe I’m not getting my personality across well enough. I have had some success in women replying to my initial messages but generally it’s quite rare for me. 
24.03.2007, 20:44 quote
| Chet24 wrote: |
| I must say that in my experience of using sites like this, I haven’t had much contact from women. The problem with that is that it gets me thinking that some thing must be wrong with my profile or maybe I’m not getting my personality across well enough. I have had some success in women replying to my initial messages but generally it’s quite rare for me. |
if you feel your profile aint working u gotta experiment with it. preferably using more than one site. different sites work in different ways sometimes its easier to tell what works better elsewhere.
looked at your profile, you know saying too much can be a disadvantage as you risk giving ppl reasons why they shouldnt contact you. the more you say the more possible reasons. the same goes for replying to your messages. they've seen your profile and can make up their mind before you've had a chance to charm them.
you want to be in a position where you sound interesting enough to contact in least amount of information. think of car adverts they dont hit you with tonnes of information, just a small amount to make you think it's the coolest thing around. then you're interested. then you might go and find out more stuff. then you find you like it more or less. it what happens here too.
24.03.2007, 21:34 quote
Hmm I will have to look into that Browolf.
Maybe there is just a bit too much on my profile, I initially thought it would be good idea so that people got an exact idea of who they are contacting but perhaps making people curious about me is better. A little mystery is all good...
31.03.2007, 16:26 quote
Most dating sites have far more men than women so it is not surprising if you do not get contacted by women first or get a reply from all the women you send out messages to.
31.03.2007, 19:24 quote
| cheekyeyes wrote: | ||
.... i wonder why |
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