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28.02.2007, 08:31 quote

Anonymous

aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont give 2 flying f**ks what people whink of me to be fair, i'm the same on here as I am IRL, and no matter what people say/do i wont change for nobody. Take me as I am or not at all ... easy


Keiron, even if he is on about you, you obviously are bothered or you wouldn't be so defensive

 
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28.02.2007, 09:43 quote

Anonymous

Any chance of a summary please, I'm not reading all that lot!! Smile

 
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28.02.2007, 09:44 quote

Anonymous

DoctorBeat wrote:
twinight wrote:
publicly you maybe right but I have not picked on any person by name I have made statement about a person weather he/she knows about it is irrelevant I have done nothing to alienate a particular person I have observed certain characterisations and commented on them in a general picture without pointing fingers I do not/did not want this person to feel that there actions were negative but that other peoples actions were limiting, as for analysing people every time we look at a person we analyse/ judge them weather we realise it or not, maybe not as far as I have gone, but I would say my actions can only truly be described as vague little less then what you get from one of them tarot readers
please don’t get me wrong if you disagree that’s great and I do not hold your options against you quite the opposite I feel that it’s a positive action on your part to disagree if that is how you truly feel!


Please don't take this the wrong way, but try throwing in a few full stops now and then.
Without proper sentences, posts become uncomfortable to read and people are more likely to skim/ skip over them.
I just cant read it all without some sort of paragraphing!

 
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28.02.2007, 20:02 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
I dont give 2 flying f**ks what people whink of me to be fair, i'm the same on here as I am IRL, and no matter what people say/do i wont change for nobody. Take me as I am or not at all ... easy


Keiron, even if he is on about you, you obviously are bothered or you wouldn't be so defensive


Suck me Evil or Very Mad

 
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28.02.2007, 21:08 quote

Anonymous

twinight wrote:
You may have guessed I think a lot, can’t help it I have always been this way! I think there for I am or do I just think I think there for I am not or does thinking that I think mean I think there for I am again
I like to plays devils advocate so….
What surprises me is the amount ok blokes on here that always seem to agree with females, or respond with small none disclosing answers
I don’t get it does this make them more attractive?
I am a bloke so I can’t answer for females but from my perspective I don’t see it, what fun would it be to date someone that always agreed with you?
What does a person learn about you from two words?
Do they think females don’t see if? Well I have seen it so I have to assume that they can to!
Do you really think a relationship would last under those conditions?
Do you care?
Its strange, I guess I figured if you came on here you want a relationship, you took all this time to answer question think up post to start talking then you lie, is it worth the time just for love or is it something else you want, if that’s all you want try the pub on a Saturday night

ladies I don’t get it, I look at all these posts and see loads of you falling back on old habits, some of you from your righting I can see you have been hurt, some of you seem scared other just unsure of yourself
So you are making a move forward trying to find someone new threw this and other services. I would think you would be trying to find people that open up to you, people that will talk to you as a person not a piece of meat, people different from all the other you dated?
I know from my sister that lots of females pretend to be less smart then they are for a few reasons like men don’t like smart females and some of you have always got what you want playing the silly blonde I can except that but if your looking for a life partner should you really be going for the guys that just seem so perfect, cause I got to tell you no ones perfect, we all (men and women) have done stuff that we should be ashamed off, concern about, just plan wrong
*Perfection is an Unattainable target it’s a goal we should strive to achieve*
I was going to mention a name for this next part but I decided that was not my call so ill continue with some instead
I read a lot and I think I am quite good at reading people it takes longer on here as you have to sort threw the bull from the real, there are some people on here that I have noticed started all gung-ho he/they were I don’t think completely honest but truthful enough for a start trying find the/a person but as his/her posts continued and other supplying one or two word commentary were getting a better response (that’s on posts) I see there posts slowly becoming less then what he/she wanted. He/she was very articulate and responsive but to no avail? It just seems to me that we should be encouraging these minds and discouraging people that are not really adding to the over flow?


wow..i have managed to read all of this in one sitting..just..lol

twilight...although i read your post the content was un-important to me really..what did strike me was how you yourself, was coming across. I feel like you are a very introverted person, even to the extent that you are somehow distancing yourself from others..and probably you are not doing it conciously.. I think you see yourself as a loner, and probably live to work as you gain the interaction with others you need, but are afraid to be yourself totally as you have been hurt in the past. (this could be because of something to do with childhood)..you are a very shy person by nature and love to people watch, and to be honest, probably a very deep thinker rather than do'er..
you probably also have trust issues regarding others and feel safer to keep yourself in the background of life..
basically, i just wanted to say, be careful not to over-analyse life and others too much..as i just felt by your post that you are doing so at mo..
anyway, have fun you little 'devils advocate' you..

 
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01.03.2007, 02:02 quote

Anonymous

Kevin!

What made you so clever and insightful!

I read those posts and thought

"Sentencing, punctuation, grammar, structure"

but you managed to get to the root of the problem straight away!

 
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