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Home >> Dating >> devils advocate
27.02.2007, 20:21 quote
I dont give 2 flying f**ks what people whink of me to be fair, i'm the same on here as I am IRL, and no matter what people say/do i wont change for nobody. Take me as I am or not at all ... easy
28.02.2007, 01:45 quote
| twinight wrote: |
| publicly you maybe right but I have not picked on any person by name I have made statement about a person weather he/she knows about it is irrelevant I have done nothing to alienate a particular person I have observed certain characterisations and commented on them in a general picture without pointing fingers I do not/did not want this person to feel that there actions were negative but that other peoples actions were limiting, as for analysing people every time we look at a person we analyse/ judge them weather we realise it or not, maybe not as far as I have gone, but I would say my actions can only truly be described as vague little less then what you get from one of them tarot readers
please don’t get me wrong if you disagree that’s great and I do not hold your options against you quite the opposite I feel that it’s a positive action on your part to disagree if that is how you truly feel! |
Please don't take this the wrong way, but try throwing in a few full stops now and then.
Without proper sentences, posts become uncomfortable to read and people are more likely to skim/ skip over them.
28.02.2007, 07:29 quote
| twinight wrote: |
| I did not disclose who I was talking about because I believe it was unfair to do so, why does it matter I have seen the same actions from others to a lesser extent, if you want to find out just watch people that’s all I do
maybe in your mind I have not been around long enough to make a judgement it depends on what I read and how much post and what I take away from the post I have read not on time I have been logged on, I did not say all or imply that I now everything I made some statements that maybe don’t apply to you, does that make them any less true, should I pick a person and descript what my intuition tells me about this person, I can see that being fair but you/they could then argue the correct points should I not talk because you don’t agree? It would be easier and I would get better responses but what would I get from better responses if the post meant nothing to me? as for females acting less intelligent then they are, watch you friend/family or any other female when they interact with blokes watch them in a business environment, I did not make that statement to imply all females feel that way just some, it was the over all idea that some females think men will feel emasculated with a female that is more intelligent, more successful, in better shape and the hundred and one other unimportant things that could possible damage the fragile male ego |
You know, I could have sworn we were out of the dark ages and firmly in the 21st century! Ask my fellah what attracted me to him in the first 10 minutes of talking and he'll say it was my mind. And I know that he's not the only guy who finds it attractive. Of all the regulars in here, there's only one that I would say is somewhat mercurial, but i put that down to being a lot shyer/insecure than he gives out. Nothing wrong with that.
I think also if really read the messages as they are intended and not try to find something hidden, that a lot of the regular females in here are infact very strong-minded women and there's not many of the guys that would bend to accomodate just for the sake of peace or because it's 'the thing to do' just incase they upset us poor girlies!
What you're also not taking into account is what goes on in pm's/msn etc. A lot of what goes on in the forums is only surface stuff. The kind of thing that happens in the real world. The vast majority of folk don't pour out their life story on first meeting. It's not the done thing!
28.02.2007, 07:31 quote
| aDecentGuy wrote: |
| I dont give 2 flying f**ks what people whink of me to be fair, i'm the same on here as I am IRL, and no matter what people say/do i wont change for nobody. Take me as I am or not at all ... easy |
Keiron, even if he is on about you, you obviously are bothered or you wouldn't be so defensive
28.02.2007, 08:44 quote
| DoctorBeat wrote: | ||
Please don't take this the wrong way, but try throwing in a few full stops now and then. Without proper sentences, posts become uncomfortable to read and people are more likely to skim/ skip over them. |
28.02.2007, 19:02 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||
Keiron, even if he is on about you, you obviously are bothered or you wouldn't be so defensive |
Suck me
28.02.2007, 20:08 quote
| twinight wrote: |
| You may have guessed I think a lot, can’t help it I have always been this way! I think there for I am or do I just think I think there for I am not or does thinking that I think mean I think there for I am again
I like to plays devils advocate so…. What surprises me is the amount ok blokes on here that always seem to agree with females, or respond with small none disclosing answers I don’t get it does this make them more attractive? I am a bloke so I can’t answer for females but from my perspective I don’t see it, what fun would it be to date someone that always agreed with you? What does a person learn about you from two words? Do they think females don’t see if? Well I have seen it so I have to assume that they can to! Do you really think a relationship would last under those conditions? Do you care? Its strange, I guess I figured if you came on here you want a relationship, you took all this time to answer question think up post to start talking then you lie, is it worth the time just for love or is it something else you want, if that’s all you want try the pub on a Saturday night ladies I don’t get it, I look at all these posts and see loads of you falling back on old habits, some of you from your righting I can see you have been hurt, some of you seem scared other just unsure of yourself So you are making a move forward trying to find someone new threw this and other services. I would think you would be trying to find people that open up to you, people that will talk to you as a person not a piece of meat, people different from all the other you dated? I know from my sister that lots of females pretend to be less smart then they are for a few reasons like men don’t like smart females and some of you have always got what you want playing the silly blonde I can except that but if your looking for a life partner should you really be going for the guys that just seem so perfect, cause I got to tell you no ones perfect, we all (men and women) have done stuff that we should be ashamed off, concern about, just plan wrong *Perfection is an Unattainable target it’s a goal we should strive to achieve* I was going to mention a name for this next part but I decided that was not my call so ill continue with some instead I read a lot and I think I am quite good at reading people it takes longer on here as you have to sort threw the bull from the real, there are some people on here that I have noticed started all gung-ho he/they were I don’t think completely honest but truthful enough for a start trying find the/a person but as his/her posts continued and other supplying one or two word commentary were getting a better response (that’s on posts) I see there posts slowly becoming less then what he/she wanted. He/she was very articulate and responsive but to no avail? It just seems to me that we should be encouraging these minds and discouraging people that are not really adding to the over flow? |
wow..i have managed to read all of this in one sitting..just..lol
twilight...although i read your post the content was un-important to me really..what did strike me was how you yourself, was coming across. I feel like you are a very introverted person, even to the extent that you are somehow distancing yourself from others..and probably you are not doing it conciously.. I think you see yourself as a loner, and probably live to work as you gain the interaction with others you need, but are afraid to be yourself totally as you have been hurt in the past. (this could be because of something to do with childhood)..you are a very shy person by nature and love to people watch, and to be honest, probably a very deep thinker rather than do'er..
you probably also have trust issues regarding others and feel safer to keep yourself in the background of life..
basically, i just wanted to say, be careful not to over-analyse life and others too much..as i just felt by your post that you are doing so at mo..
anyway, have fun you little 'devils advocate' you..
01.03.2007, 01:02 quote
Kevin!
What made you so clever and insightful!
I read those posts and thought
"Sentencing, punctuation, grammar, structure"
but you managed to get to the root of the problem straight away!
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