You may have guessed I think a lot, can’t help it I have always been this way! I think there for I am or do I just think I think there for I am not or does thinking that I think mean I think there for I am again
I like to plays devils advocate so….
What surprises me is the amount ok blokes on here that always seem to agree with females, or respond with small none disclosing answers
I don’t get it does this make them more attractive?
I am a bloke so I can’t answer for females but from my perspective I don’t see it, what fun would it be to date someone that always agreed with you?
What does a person learn about you from two words?
Do they think females don’t see if? Well I have seen it so I have to assume that they can to!
Do you really think a relationship would last under those conditions?
Do you care?
Its strange, I guess I figured if you came on here you want a relationship, you took all this time to answer question think up post to start talking then you lie, is it worth the time just for sex or is it something else you want, if that’s all you want try the pub on a Saturday night

ladies I don’t get it, I look at all these posts and see loads of you falling back on old habits, some of you from your righting I can see you have been hurt, some of you seem scared other just unsure of yourself
So you are making a move forward trying to find someone new threw this and other services. I would think you would be trying to find people that open up to you, people that will talk to you as a person not a piece of meat, people different from all the other you dated?
I know from my sister that lots of females pretend to be less smart then they are for a few reasons like men don’t like smart females and some of you have always got what you want playing the silly blonde I can except that but if your looking for a life partner should you really be going for the guys that just seem so perfect, cause I got to tell you no ones perfect, we all (men and women) have done stuff that we should be ashamed off, concern about, just plan wrong
*Perfection is an Unattainable target it’s a goal we should strive to achieve*
I was going to mention a name for this next part but I decided that was not my call so ill continue with some instead
I read a lot and I think I am quite good at reading people it takes longer on here as you have to sort threw the bull from the real, there are some people on here that I have noticed started all gung-ho he/they were I don’t think completely honest but truthful enough for a start trying find the/a person but as his/her posts continued and other supplying one or two word commentary were getting a better response (that’s on posts) I see there posts slowly becoming less then what he/she wanted. He/she was very articulate and responsive but to no avail? It just seems to me that we should be encouraging these minds and discouraging people that are not really adding to the over flow?

wow that was like a mini shrink session (not that iv ever been to a shrink ) hope your not talking about me!!! What I think is that people dont really over think about what they say on here, which makes it light and fun, its a no pressure place to air your views and make friends. simple

Lol I guess to some extent that’s true I do analyse things and maybe I over do it, but the reason for that post and more importantly the last part was I could see a person/people attempting to make a connection, yet was unable to connected because he/she was not trying to be mister/miss perfect they were trying to be themselves and it got them no were, I can see that some people just want to keep it light but there are people trying to just talk, to express there ideas there hopes and desires there are people sitting on the edge of a massive cliff that just need to know there not alone, that want nothing from you but to connect not necessary on a romantic level, they want to connection to you for no other reason then to trying to find out what you think and believe it or not most of us would find that much more attractive then some meaningless chatter that no one really care about?
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Accept everything about yourself, I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end, no apologies, no regrets.
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Jees i dont think you've really been on here long enough to analyze (her/him/or they ) by just reading a few posts ???

SC then

I also disagree with you that you think men dont like intelligent females, and that females act dumb for attention ???

imagine having to listen to all that analytical stuff when your trying to watch neighbours!

I did not disclose who I was talking about because I believe it was unfair to do so, why does it matter I have seen the same actions from others to a lesser extent, if you want to find out just watch people that’s all I do
maybe in your mind I have not been around long enough to make a judgement it depends on what I read and how much post and what I take away from the post I have read not on time I have been logged on, I did not say all or imply that I now everything I made some statements that maybe don’t apply to you, does that make them any less true, should I pick a person and descript what my intuition tells me about this person, I can see that being fair but you/they could then argue the correct points should I not talk because you don’t agree? It would be easier and I would get better responses but what would I get from better responses if the post meant nothing to me?
as for females acting less intelligent then they are, watch you friend/family or any other female when they interact with blokes watch them in a business environment, I did not make that statement to imply all females feel that way just some, it was the over all idea that some females think men will feel emasculated with a female that is more intelligent, more successful, in better shape and the hundred and one other unimportant things that could possible damage the fragile male ego
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Accept everything about yourself, I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end, no apologies, no regrets.
Henry Kissinger

i dont think you have the right to publicly analyse people on a forum. if you were interested in this you should have done the right thing and pm'd him or her letting them know what you think.

all i can say is everyones entitled to their opinion .. and good luck in your search

If the person is me, then I dont mind you saying so, i wont complain.

I think it is me by the way I am on here

publicly you maybe right but I have not picked on any person by name I have made statement about a person weather he/she knows about it is irrelevant I have done nothing to alienate a particular person I have observed certain characterisations and commented on them in a general picture without pointing fingers I do not/did not want this person to feel that there actions were negative but that other peoples actions were limiting, as for analysing people every time we look at a person we analyse/ judge them weather we realise it or not, maybe not as far as I have gone, but I would say my actions can only truly be described as vague little less then what you get from one of them tarot readers
please don’t get me wrong if you disagree that’s great and I do not hold your options against you quite the opposite I feel that it’s a positive action on your part to disagree if that is how you truly feel!
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Accept everything about yourself, I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end, no apologies, no regrets.
Henry Kissinger