wow
well i know i have only been here a while, but tonight i got my first string of nasty messages. Despite telling him i aint interested as he is married, he just wont stop. So i reported him but wow, he came at me that i must be a bloke not to want him, no face typical profile, but wow it has unnerved me.
At least he cant access my pic etc as he doesnt have one, and following some good advice i read on here, thank you lv and others, I changed that setting hours ago.

So do we have to suffer this alot or is it not so common, cause it has really unnerved me?
or do i need to toughen up and just start ignoring the messages?

cheers, crawling into bed now, with my boobs lol, gratefull i am a woman

ps can i name him or will i get into trouble?

Stef

Sorry to hear that Stef, since you have reported it i suggest you block him and try to forget it. Sounds like a gutless wanker to me, quite a few on here apparently...

thanks scottie, so toughen up i will, tomorrow

Oh dear sounds a right nasty piece of work, I don't think it's the norm, but there's always gona be a few 'odd' guys messaging we have some threads for 'weird' messages, but I've got a feeling that a 'name and shame' thread wasn't allowed.
Try not to let it get to you, he's not worth worrying about and there's plenty of nice guys around they just don't live near me.

Yeah, you certainly learn to treat this site with a bit of stoic distance after a while. You probably won't get into trouble for naming him, but it won't do much good because he can always make another profile.

Morning guys, well, having had a little sleep, i know I am not going to give up on the site as there are a load of goodens on here,

i am just getting better at sending 'look thank you very much however... good luck in your search oh and its not you its me... and no i am not giving out my msn '

oh god i am going shopping, nowt like the 300th pair of boots to make you feel like you have the best bum on the planet lol

do these lads not have a hobby or summit? where is the class in abusing strangers online - especially ones who have only knocked u back in a straightforward nice way - ARSEHOLES

Thanks guys, its so nice to get so much support but i am blushing now,
xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx xxx

I think you must have hurt his pride, some men are like that - they are allergic to the words "no" or "i am not interested" i feel the best approach for those people is to not give them a second thought and use your block option.....whoever invented that, i want to kiss them...on the lips!!

Hehe

I am glad you didnt let it drive you away from the site though, i am sure the nice men will pop out from wherever they are hiding!

Oh yes, they did and do
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stef

Try reading some of these, lots of weird individuals out there

http://www.flirtbox.net/sex/post-you-re-dirty-weird-funny-messages-here-_.html
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Welcome to the internet lol its full of people who hide behind their computer screens thinking they can get away with saying whatever they like......most of these guys would never have the balls to talk to a womans face like that but they get all brave hiding behind their comp screens.... its safe....they feel annoymouse.....


just iggy them.....if you dont throw any fuel on the fire it soon goes out
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If it's on the forums, you can use some really good put-downs that will soon have everyone laughing at them.

Most of their bravery centers around their need to prove their dick is larger than it actually is. The more crass they are, the more the need to prove it's not just a dried up maggot.

So next time one gets especially rude, it's because he is trying to pretend that there is actually a difference between his dick and the hairs around it.