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09.07.2006, 21:45 quote

Anonymous

milfhunter wrote:
I can barely believe what I'm reading. Why some twat would PM a woman purely to comment (negatively) on her weight does no-one any favours. From what I can see, you all look dandy to me.



i agree mate

 

12.07.2006, 11:43 quote

Anonymous

ScotInCornwall wrote:
I had a date with an FB woman who had a pretty face on her profile and described her body shape as "About Average".

Sorry, did you think I wouldn't notice when we met in the flesh?

I could describe myself as 6 foot tall, but the woman would know I was a liar when we met up.

What's the point of lying?


But what if her definition of the word 'average' was different to yours? that wouldnt make her a liar. I thought the average size of a woman in uk was about 14-16?? not sure, just what ive heard but dont know where it came from or how the result was obtained.
Also i wonder how many men say they are looking for long term relationship and love when really they are looking for one night of love? lol so i suppose people lie to try an get what they really want. I do see your point though, rather silly to lie when u know ur obviously going to be caught out, then that ruins any trust u may have felt.

 

29.08.2006, 11:44 quote

Anonymous

I understand what you mean Scot, but the girls have all interpreted your comment as "shallow".

Ladies, under no circumstances is size 18 average. The average in the UK is 14, although it's moving up to 16 thanks to the record number of obese people in the UK.

It's perfectly acceptable for people to be accomodating about weight, it's a sensitive issue - but it's when people lie. Even if this lady thought her weight was "average" for herself, it's naive to believe she didn't think this was misleading people on her profile.

Is there no option to leave that feature blank? No comment? I think that's more honest.

 

27.11.2006, 13:18 quote

Anonymous

Well said Scott, have had that happen to me once. Have nothing against larger/curvy women and have dated a few, in fact I find a curvy woman more attractive than a skinny one as I just want to give a skinny girl a burger and fries to put some meat on their bones!. Personality plays a greater part in my choice of date but as you said looks has it’s part too, the physical attraction has to be there, and for someone to make themselves out to be something they are not kind of makes you think about the honesty of the person right from the start. These days I make sure I get a recent picture or even better if they have a web cam get them to turn it on for a few seconds! I do the same if asked, no disappointments on both parts then.

To go off the subject for a second, girls, .. if you paint your nails don’t just paint over them or wait until they flake and chip it’s such a turn off on a first date lol

 

27.11.2006, 13:41 quote

Anonymous

i used to have such pretty nails. at least an inch long.

when i put all that green paint on my hands at halloween it stained my nails.... so rather than cover it with nail polish i cut them all off Mad

but....they're growing back now.... and i can file them this evening i reckon.... and i really feel like doing myself up. haha. i aint been dressed up in ages cos i aint been out much.

think i'll do the lot, tan, nails, hair.... and walk into college tomorrow to see all the jaws drop.... *insert evil laugh* Twisted Evil

 

27.11.2006, 14:00 quote

Anonymous

lol hugglies i know hunni... but it was paint that stained them.... like... green face paint. i was a witch...remember the pics in anything else?

well i had that green on my face, neck, chest, arms and hands.

the green just wouldn't come off my nails.

so... had to cut them...they looked unhealthy lmao.

it's ok tho.... they are long enough now to file nicely and paint again.... not that long..but i'll keep using my nail creams and strengthening polish and they'll be fine.

wow we really are off topic!!

 

27.11.2006, 14:32 quote

Anonymous

actually hugglies...try this...

undercoat
gold polish
top coat
nail tip guides
red tips
top coat
red diamonds on the gold parts.
top coat on top of the diamonds to keep them behaving

that's the way i did them for my bday!

 

27.11.2006, 15:00 quote

Anonymous

sure i will hugglies.

i was gonna train to be a nail technician...hehe

and ryan.... my god!!! hang your head in shame boi!!

 

08.12.2006, 01:38 quote

Anonymous

one guy i was going out with when i was 17 actually MOVED AWAY without telling me.

 

14.12.2006, 02:20 quote

Anonymous

Aradon wrote:
*commiting social suicide here*

I can do manicures, and nail art, the lot Embarassed

Damn my ex hahaha

cool Aradon, i know people will tease you but i think it's cool

 

17.01.2007, 13:28 quote

Anonymous

babygirkuk wrote:
danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...


I think your totally wrong, its all about a confidence thing. I am not slim but i am enormous and i have no problem with getting dates, i was even married (be it to a bit of a twat) for four years who loved me for me. You will meet someone just be yourself and you can't go wrong. Very Happy

 

18.01.2007, 17:08 quote

Anonymous

I meant to put am not enormous lol Rolling Eyes

 

06.02.2007, 10:54 quote

Anonymous

Nyreen wrote:
babygirkuk wrote:
danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...


My goodness girl, a size 14 ain't fat at all..... Let me tell you straight, the problem ain't with you, it's with Britain and the US (western culture) and the media has a lot to say for itself about that! But you know what? If you went to a country like Brasil, Or any Island in the Caribbean for instance, you'd have to walk round with bodyguards cus they's sweep u off ur feet...(no shit!!) ...

But they're too far away i guess... Crying or Very sad ..and they might not be your type...

My only suggestion is that u totally dismiss all thoughts about your weight whenever u meet sum1..because if you make an issue of it, other ppl will too, even those who probably wouldn't have been thinkin about it in the first place. Alternatively, for those who do have a problem with your weight, they ain't worth your time anyway.... cus they're just follow fashion monkey's... Laughing ...

So set your standards higher girl...cus we have that power...and rembember, it ain't what they think about you...it's what you think about them..so chin up!

Shit! I think I talk/type too much! lol
It's down to individual attitude!! I'm an 18 and have little trouble attracting men. Seems my smile and personality are my biggest assets. If you can find something about yourself that's bigger than your dress size, then others will too.

 

06.02.2007, 10:56 quote

Anonymous

Aradon wrote:
*commiting social suicide here*

I can do manicures, and nail art, the lot Embarassed

Damn my ex hahaha
Wow Ryan!! How come you don't have women queuing up?! My last ex eldest is a 20 year old lad. He learnt nail art purely for that purpose

 

06.02.2007, 14:52 quote

Anonymous

Aradon wrote:
redoctober wrote:
Aradon wrote:
*commiting social suicide here*

I can do manicures, and nail art, the lot Embarassed

Damn my ex hahaha
Wow Ryan!! How come you don't have women queuing up?! My last ex eldest is a 20 year old lad. He learnt nail art purely for that purpose


LMAO, maybe I should market the talent then eh Razz
Most definitely

 
 
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