my last gf died of cancer 5 years ago,it was a struggle to go out and look for someone again,you feel very guilty that you are moving on even though your old partner has gone,its a battle you fight day by day.
i thought this site would help but all people are looking for here is sex

Not all people on here are . Theres been some very happy couples come out of this site and im sure a few of them will post once they see this
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Hi John and welcome as Cazzabee says, we're not all here for sex. I may not have met my boyfriens on this site, but I didn't find him by offering my 'wares'.

For those that are new, I know I come across as rather naughty at times, as do quite a few on here, but that's because some of us have been here a while now and are comfortable with the regulars.

Make yourself known and have a laugh in here

40 yr old widow ....two teenage sons....new to site...looking for friends.....must have good sense of humour be honest cos i dont like liars!!!!