I can barely believe what I'm reading. Why some twat would PM a woman purely to comment (negatively) on her weight does no-one any favours. From what I can see, you all look dandy to me.

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babygirkuk wrote:

danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...

Hey Dude, did you bone her anyway? I would. Sometimes you gotta give and sometimes you get to take. If weight was the only draw back, get over it and get busy. Once you find out the inner person you might find a new view on life. If you break up after, she will probably have a great story to tell about this fantasticly handsome dude she had and what a great lay he was. Now all you have is a sad story.

But that is just me.....I am a hornDog by some standards, but I have great stories and I will be happy in my old age thinking of all the might have beens.

Thomas

i once had someone pm me to say this and only this... almostperfect? yeah you'd be perfect if you lost like a stone.

omg.

i replied... when i said almostpurrrfect i did not mean my drawbacks included wieght. on the contrary i am most happy with my curves. i am a healthy size 14-16 and anyone who says i look bad is just feeling insecure about themselves. dont get me wrong i am by no means in love with myself but i do love myself..if i dont love myself how can i expect someone else to love me? i am not full of myself but i know when i look good. your email, if intended to cause hurt had the opposite effect. it made me realise that i prolly look better than you since you aint got no pic uploaded. so thanks. bye.

awww look.. here's me feelin a lil lonely tonight as the kiddies are tucked up in bed, theres nothin on the tv, dont feel like readin and aint tired.... and all the while i been gettin lovely compliments off you lovely guys... pity ur all so far away.

I believe we have some clouded views in this thread, Blaming the media for making people be attracted to slim women is wrong, because people are attratced to what they are attracted to. Some people have a natural attraction to larger people as others have an attraction to slim women.

And as for people calling you fat thats just because thats the way some people are, we will always have the minority who are rude towards others. But i also cant stand people that moan, if your fat and your not happy then there are things you can do about it, if your happy with the way you look then thats perfect.

My personal preference is a girl that is smaller in height than me, doesnt mean that a taller women wouldnt be attractive. I just think we should always feel comfortable, i wouldnt go the gym if i was happy with the way i looked, people can always improve on the way they feel about themselves. I feel good but like to have a goal and feel even better.

Wow, i cant believe i have not posted here, strange for me, hehe
anyway, i am always honest about how i am, how i look and what i want, if people dont like me for who or what i am too bad for them thats there loss not mine, People are so blind and manipulated by the press to want that perfect image of someone(beauty mostly) i agree with an earlier post, that people do not see what is really within someones soul, mind and heart.

it makes me want to cry for some people that gets abused by people with there comments and makes me want to rip out the tongues(or cut off something) that do make the comments, sorry just really in strange mood when it comes to men right now. and some women too

aluria

I think when it comes to size men will always find a reason to insult, its just a vulnerability they pick on, Im size 8/10 and always have been (no, i dont diet and Id love to be more curvy etc) and often get called skinny or anorexic and that can be equally as hurtful!!!!