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01.06.2006, 15:46 quote

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I met one of my ex's online(not on this site..) he was a friend of a friend, anyway, the friend of mine gave him my email address, we decided to meet, got on great...had a 3 year relationship(on and off...it was more like 2 years in total) and then he totally broke my heart. After playing a shit load of mind games with me.

 

01.06.2006, 15:58 quote

pinkdevil
pinkdevil Joined: 04 Mar 2006 Posts: 22 Location: United Kingdom, England, Suffolk
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yeah that sucks. but its shit cos u put all ur trust into a guy and they totally break ur heart and they obviously dnt realise how much they hav hurt u

 

01.06.2006, 16:04 quote

Anonymous

He knows how much he hurt me. He's been trying to make up for it ever since.

I mean, we're friends now, and we make the perfect friends.

 

01.06.2006, 16:22 quote

Anonymous

It works vice versa too, Girls can hurt Guys as much as Guys hurt Girls

 

01.06.2006, 16:33 quote

Anonymous

ScotInCornwall wrote:
I had a date with an FB woman who had a pretty face on her profile and described her body shape as "About Average".

Sorry, did you think I wouldn't notice when we met in the flesh?

I could describe myself as 6 foot tall, but the woman would know I was a liar when we met up.

What's the point of lying?


Lol this is what i mean about men and womens dress sizes lol the avrarge womans dress size in the uk is in fact a size 16/18 not a 10/2 as every guy i soeak to seems tio asume.

So just how big was she then lol

 

01.06.2006, 22:31 quote

babygirkuk
babygirkuk Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 380 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...

 

01.06.2006, 23:31 quote

Nyreen
Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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babygirkuk wrote:
danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...


My goodness girl, a size 14 ain't fat at all..... Let me tell you straight, the problem ain't with you, it's with Britain and the US (western culture) and the media has a lot to say for itself about that! But you know what? If you went to a country like Brasil, Or any Island in the Caribbean for instance, you'd have to walk round with bodyguards cus they's sweep u off ur feet...(no shit!!) ...

But they're too far away i guess... Crying or Very sad ..and they might not be your type...

My only suggestion is that u totally dismiss all thoughts about your weight whenever u meet sum1..because if you make an issue of it, other ppl will too, even those who probably wouldn't have been thinkin about it in the first place. Alternatively, for those who do have a problem with your weight, they ain't worth your time anyway.... cus they're just follow fashion monkey's... Laughing ...

So set your standards higher girl...cus we have that power...and rembember, it ain't what they think about you...it's what you think about them..so chin up!

Shit! I think I talk/type too much! lol

 

02.06.2006, 08:00 quote

angeltread
angeltread Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 39 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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Hear, Hear Nyreen !!!! I wish all those people who waste my time emailing me to tell me to lose weight just stopped to think for one second. People don't seem to want to find out the whole package - well it's their loss girls !!!! Anyway a size 14 is not fat !!!!!! Lets all move to the carribean lol !

 

02.06.2006, 14:39 quote

Anonymous

Size 14 is considered fat? That can't be right at all.

I had a BBC News page bookmarked once that proved being a size 14 and above is healthier than being a size 12 downwards - something produced in the hips I think it was about...

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4606011.stm found it!

Curvy women are more likely to live longer than their slimmer counterparts, researchers have found.

Institute of Preventative Medicine in Copenhagen researchers found those with wider hips also appeared to be protected against heart conditions.

Women with a hip measurement smaller than 40 inches, or a size 14 would not have this protection, they said.

The researchers say hip fat contains a beneficial natural anti-inflammatory.

 

02.06.2006, 14:50 quote

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swissrebel wrote:
Size 14 is considered fat? That can't be right at all.

I had a BBC News page bookmarked once that proved being a size 14 and above is healthier than being a size 12 downwards - something produced in the hips I think it was about...

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4606011.stm found it!

Curvy women are more likely to live longer than their slimmer counterparts, researchers have found.

Institute of Preventative Medicine in Copenhagen researchers found those with wider hips also appeared to be protected against heart conditions.

Women with a hip measurement smaller than 40 inches, or a size 14 would not have this protection, they said.

The researchers say hip fat contains a beneficial natural anti-inflammatory.


According to some blokes, a size 14 is fat. Other superficial idiots even think a size 12 is fat....i mean, where do these people come from?

Also, i'm sick of the hollywood twigs. Females are not meant to be like that.

 

02.06.2006, 16:48 quote

Nicaragua
Nicaragua Joined: 20 Feb 2005 Posts: 125 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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[/quote]

According to some blokes, a size 14 is fat. Other superficial idiots even think a size 12 is fat....i mean, where do these people come from?

Also, i'm sick of the hollywood twigs. Females are not meant to be like that.
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Go you !

Lets have a go at people who call some people fat and then on the next breath have a go at thin people - superb !

Well done for totally showing you dont have a huge chip on your shoulder about your weight.

 

02.06.2006, 16:56 quote

Anonymous

Nicaragua wrote:


Go you !

Lets have a go at people who call some people fat and then on the next breath have a go at thin people - superb !

Well done for totally showing you dont have a huge chip on your shoulder about your weight.


I just say what i think.
People in general piss me off because they spend too much time judging others for their size because they have nothing better to do with their time.

I have nothing against skinny people, for the record.

 

02.06.2006, 20:54 quote

babygirkuk
babygirkuk Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 380 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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Nyreen wrote:
babygirkuk wrote:
danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...


My goodness girl, a size 14 ain't fat at all..... Let me tell you straight, the problem ain't with you, it's with Britain and the US (western culture) and the media has a lot to say for itself about that! But you know what? If you went to a country like Brasil, Or any Island in the Caribbean for instance, you'd have to walk round with bodyguards cus they's sweep u off ur feet...(no shit!!) ...

But they're too far away i guess... Crying or Very sad ..and they might not be your type...

My only suggestion is that u totally dismiss all thoughts about your weight whenever u meet sum1..because if you make an issue of it, other ppl will too, even those who probably wouldn't have been thinkin about it in the first place. Alternatively, for those who do have a problem with your weight, they ain't worth your time anyway.... cus they're just follow fashion monkey's... Laughing ...

So set your standards higher girl...cus we have that power...and rembember, it ain't what they think about you...it's what you think about them..so chin up!

Shit! I think I talk/type too much! lol


hey ur soooo rite!! it really gets 2 me tho !!! it hurts wen i get called fat!! ever since i had my wee boy!! ( now 4 ) lol my sons dad fed me up and i mean fed me up!! wen i had my son i was bck 2 my happy size ov 10!! but then he was feddin me sweet ( i should ov said no but ive got a bad sweet tooth) and that was it he left me 4 a lass that was a size 10!! and here i am!! yer i know i can lose wait but it dnt help wen ive got guys callin me a fat bitch so i comfort eat!! and u r rite!! set my standards higher... u talk alot ov sence girl... where in brum ya frm lol Laughing Laughing

 

03.06.2006, 10:05 quote

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babygirkuk wrote:
danni82 most men go 4 a women that is slim and blonde... me im a size 14 and men dnt look at me!! they look at my sis coz she is a small lass!! and i cant find a man 2 love me 4 me!! and my sexy curves lol soz bout the spellin !! Embarassed Embarassed but i jst want a man 2 love me 4 my insides and out!! i walked out ov my job coz i was called fat by sum bloke and it hurt me!! and that is all i get off men ''god anit she fat'' my last bf hurt me coz he said i was fat and ugly!! ne way im gonna stop goin on now lol ...


You know what, men who look only for outter beauty only & only care about looks are sooo shallow.. Don't they know that looks fade away by age & only the personality & character stays ??
babygirl am sorry, I mean no offence, but youre ex is a lame person & so is the one who's with you at work.. If I was in your place I wouldn't have left my job & stood up for myself, maybe by calling that person shallow or just look at him with a smile & say who asked you for your opinion & even if who cares ?? I don't Smile)
Turn around, toss your hair with confidence & leave him..
I think you're pretty though Smile)
Screw shallow guys, I've been in your place when I was 95 kilo grams Smile) & even worse situations Smile)
Keep your smile girly *muwah*
P.S: Am not a lesb** Smile)

 

03.06.2006, 18:29 quote

Nyreen
Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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hey ur soooo rite!! it really gets 2 me tho !!! it hurts wen i get called fat!! ever since i had my wee boy!! ( now 4 ) lol my sons dad fed me up and i mean fed me up!! wen i had my son i was bck 2 my happy size ov 10!! but then he was feddin me sweet ( i should ov said no but ive got a bad sweet tooth) and that was it he left me 4 a lass that was a size 10!! and here i am!! yer i know i can lose wait but it dnt help wen ive got guys callin me a fat bitch so i comfort eat!! and u r rite!! set my standards higher... u talk alot ov sence girl... where in
brum ya frm lol Laughing Laughing[/quote]

Hi there...

Who are these people calling u fat bitch? ...ohmygod!!!! they must be sooooo insecure with themselve to have to call u that..honest! It's people who have a problem with others who really have problems with themselves...

Never mind them...

I'm from Stechford sides ...
How about you..? Keep smiling

 
 
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