Hi - not posted here before but have lurked a bit! So a quick hello - - and on to business.....and a user by the name of Lyndamarcus.

Yep - so pleased was IO to get a first approach from a woman that I provided my e-mail address a little too readily....and got:

"I am astonished at your depth. Very unusual for a man. What a major attraction. I am glad that you chose to write me as much as you did,as it is not wasted on me. I like that you are so open, so honest...so real with who you are. That speaks volumes to me about you. I like the fact that you are straight-forward about the fact that you are looking for a serious relationship. So many men feel like they have to be in the "I'm not looking for anything serious" mode, because they think that's what women want to hear. I was really blown away that you chose to be open and honest and completely un-apologetic about that. Thanks for taking a chance and just showing who you are.So I should probably tell you a little more about me.

I don't have a family! My parents have died, I'm an only child. I'll like to pursue a career in the promotional and advertising industry when the time is right. I get along with pretty much anyone..a sense of humor for me is definitely a must with anyone I hang out with. I am kind of picky that way. I decided to try the on-line thing because I have decided that I am willing to not only wait for the perfect person for me.I think we have to be a little proactive in the matter, and that I believe that there is at least one person out there who could not only fit me but be my soul mate. I believe in destiny and fate,but I believe that you have to participate with your destiny. Do nothing, nothing happens. Do something, and it's no guarantee, but sometimes the most interesting things happen while you are on the way to your destination. It's a spiritual notion that there is a destination that we are all heading toward, I suppose....but it seems a bit pedestrian and over simplified for me.
Your openess in life is clearly an attraction to me. I am verypassionate about things that I believe in and things that I know are true. I have a lot of compassion. I enjoy going out to eat, watching movies, cuddling on the couch to watch a movie or a TV show, or to watch games, and taking walks. My motto in life is "You only live once so live it well." You will impress me with who you are not what you have. The cup is half full, and don't forget - you get what you give. Marriage is like a partnership and opinions are important, it needs to be 50/50. You must be able to laugh at yourself (blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah won't bore you with the horseshit too much) I guess i fall asleep after drinking the champagne. He must have added some sleeping pills in the drink. He stole my money, jewelries and my mother precious necklace. He dropped a note stating that he was leaving for Germany to join his family. I never knew he was married but i do know now when i read the letter he dropped for me . All my life, I have waited for this thing called CRAZY LOVE. I didn't feel it at the right time. I felt it at the wrong time and for the wrong person. Right from that moment, I have been stranded here in the hotel. I have been heartbroken and i am left with nothing but some expenses to cover . The hotel management won't let me leave without paying the bills. What Dave did was wrong and embarrassing. I have an outstanding bill of £500 for accommodation and £100 for internet access. I came here on a visiting visa .I don't have a work permit so i can't work. The hotel manager seized my return plane ticket . I wont be able to leave here without paying the hotel expenses. I want you to understand this, I do not need a boyfriend or husband to see me through this , I need a friend who is willing to lend me an ear, emotional stability and be there for me. Who knows,maybe at the end, we might end up being together. I hope i haven't turned you off. Hit me back if you are still interested.
Sincerely,
lynda Xxxxx"

Ummmmmmm........

Sod.

Pmsl.

Hello

Haha - hey gents!

I decided to let this one go.....no replies, no nothing....but styringing it along sounds like it does have some slightly perverse pleasure to it! hehe - might give it a go with the inevitable next one!

Sod.