Date or have a romantic sort of relationship with someone you weren't totally into?

Like if the girl you're dating is simply wonderful, but you two just don't click, or if the guy you're dating is really nice, but he's just not the sort of guy you'd want next to you every day...

In the past (and present too lol) I've met lots of people who were holding on to a relationship just for the sake of being in one. I never understood how that works...

See I'd never date/have a romantic relationship with someone I weren't totally into.

I'd rather be alone, even if it takes forever.

Some people have said in the past that I'm searching for a prince and should wake up to real life.

But see I once actually met a prince who was actually into me. LOL Obviously it wasn't a never ending story, but point is: what I'd like to have is out there. And I'm not even going for the prince, but even he exists and I have a shot.

So... Getting back to the point... Would you? LOL Go back to first paragraph
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I did when i was 17, had a cute girl on my arm, was great - well, for everyone else to see. We got on like erm.. Fire and Co2 but being 17 meant that being as the sex was great, i didn't really care

i'm now 28 and single.. hmn..
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Nope, i am holding out for the man for me,
its not a case of all or nothing, but i want to wake in the morning and think, god i am so lucky; not, what is he doing today, please go out

Thats not to be confused with an unwillingness to comprimise, and i understand no one is perfect, as i know i aint; but i wont take less than the tingly feelings, the heart racing and the endless dwelling as to whether he is happy

lol mind come back in 5 years i might have a different answer,
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Nope, never
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Have been thinking about this. Most of the women that has an interest in me, I cant say there's any I totally fancy. So at my age, should I just settle for someone as being a friend?,...even though there may not be love but attraction on my part?? So do I want love now?

But no ones perfect, so will probably never find anyone that is.

How could it be a romantic relationship if you was not into them? That would be pure faking it and totally not a path to happiness. Making life an act all the time....fuck that! I would rather be single than fake a romance

I didn't say you weren't into them. Please, kind Scottie, do read my messages twice. LOL I said you weren't TOTALLY into them. That meanin' you'd like them, but they wouldn't take yer breath away.
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I think I will read them a few times. Or maybe it is just better that I just don't post in them as I always seem to misread or misinterpret your posts for some reason

No, it'd be nice of you to keep on posting.
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ive been in that situation a couple of times and ended it before it started really - dont think your really helping urself or the other person involved

I have been in relationships with a few people where they were amazing in mot ways but for some reason I just never really felt like she was for me. I have yet to find many that I have felt that way about but here is hoping .

Unfortunetly i have been in a relationship like that that ended a while ago. I liked him yeah course, but i didn't love him. I kept telling myself i did, but then when he went home after spendin a few days with me, i didn't miss him and i thought what it would be like without him, what i could do, who i might meet etc. It's not like i was with him cos i was waiting for the next best thing, i was with him.. well cos' i dunno. Sounds bad but i'm being honest.. i knew he was in love with me and it made me feel good, even though i wasn't in love with him. I didn't wanna end it cos i then, wouldnt have that security of knowing that person will always be there for me. And no i would never cheat, never! but he decided to end it for me saying the relationship was too intense for him! so i do believe people stay with one another if its easy.. otherwise u got to start the dating thing again.. so hello, i'm cloe lol xxxx

ya well... You cheeky hot munkey.
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