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12.12.2006, 11:23 quote

funnyrob25
funnyrob25 Joined: 13 Nov 2006 Posts: 1373 Location: United Kingdom, England, Tyne and Wear
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whenever i seem to start getting on well with a woman i get shoved into freindzone or if it starts getting interesting i seem to push to far its like i have a self destruct button atatched to me somewhere what is wrong with me?
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12.12.2006, 11:53 quote

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funnyrob25 wrote:
whenever i seem to start getting on well with a woman i get shoved into freindzone or if it starts getting interesting i seem to push to far its like i have a self destruct button atatched to me somewhere what is wrong with me?

the same thing happens with me. you are not alone. it seems that when i fall for someone either they don't feel the same way or i fall too far too fast. i hope this helps

 

12.12.2006, 13:46 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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funnyrob25 wrote:
whenever i seem to start getting on well with a woman i get shoved into freindzone or if it starts getting interesting i seem to push to far its like i have a self destruct button atatched to me somewhere what is wrong with me?


Mate from what I've seen of your posts and your pic (well when it used to appear) you seem fine to me!

Just be patient and maybe like you say maybe you push a little too quickly!

I do find with chatting to people on the net things can become very intense very quickly, just take your time.

 

12.12.2006, 14:14 quote

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Razz ..Perhaps you need to rethink your social skills. Let women get to know you as a person before the relationship thing rears its ugly head and as daft as this may sound, only try to chat up the ones who show an interest.
Learn a bit about body language from the net so you can at least have a chance of recognising the signs good or bad, as getting rejection from women who were a non starter is doing your confidence no good at all.... Wink

 

12.12.2006, 14:18 quote

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kinghelfer wrote:
Razz ..Perhaps you need to rethink your social skills. Let women get to know you as a person before the relationship thing rears its ugly head and as daft as this may sound, only try to chat up the ones who show an interest.
Learn a bit about body language from the net so you can at least have a chance of recognising the signs good or bad, as getting rejection from women who were a non starter is doing your confidence no good at all.... Wink

excellent advice King! i could use it myself! Question tho: what about when on the Discussion Boards. no body language there

 

12.12.2006, 14:57 quote

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lovecat2 wrote:
kinghelfer wrote:
Razz ..Perhaps you need to rethink your social skills. Let women get to know you as a person before the relationship thing rears its ugly head and as daft as this may sound, only try to chat up the ones who show an interest.
Learn a bit about body language from the net so you can at least have a chance of recognising the signs good or bad, as getting rejection from women who were a non starter is doing your confidence no good at all.... Wink

excellent advice King! i could use it myself! Question tho: what about when on the Discussion Boards. no body language there


Razz ...thats when "reading between the lines" skills come into play, never take a post at face value - read it several times before answering it and try to get a feel for the posters style... Wink

 

12.12.2006, 14:58 quote

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kinghelfer wrote:
lovecat2 wrote:
kinghelfer wrote:
Razz ..Perhaps you need to rethink your social skills. Let women get to know you as a person before the relationship thing rears its ugly head and as daft as this may sound, only try to chat up the ones who show an interest.
Learn a bit about body language from the net so you can at least have a chance of recognising the signs good or bad, as getting rejection from women who were a non starter is doing your confidence no good at all.... Wink

excellent advice King! i could use it myself! Question tho: what about when on the Discussion Boards. no body language there


Razz ...thats when "reading between the lines" skills come into play, never take a post at face value - read it several times before answering it and try to get a feel for the posters style... Wink

will do, thanks Exclamation

 

13.12.2006, 08:31 quote

Out2lunch
Out2lunch Joined: 25 Nov 2006 Posts: 47 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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From experience unless you make your intentions known you will always become a 'friend', so let her know you want to bonk her senseless but don’t do anything about it, occasionally be a bit naughty but don’t make moves to take her to bed.

When she is ready she will literally drag you to bed, as one thing I know ladies need to make the decision to share their time with you, don’t force it, or it will end in tears.
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