first let me say im a pretty good looking guy and have never had much problem with the ladies... but this has never happened to me, and i wanted to know what you guys have to say about it.

well, friday night i was at a halloween costume party and it was packed- evryone was up against each other- and i was up against the wall, chillin, drink in hand, talking with my buds, leaning on a wall because it was the only thing that would hold me up. when out of NOWHERE, this french maid chick gets in front of me, bends over, presses her ass up against my groin, she does her thing, grinds up on me, turns around, puts her hands on the back of my head/ face, and plants this huge one on me.

it's on.

10 seconds in she sticks her tongue down my throat

its on even more.

we go for a few more minutes id say, and as quickly as it started, she pulls away and starts to walk away. we still have not said one word to each other. until i call her, she turns around, and i told her to come back to me. she responds with "f*** that youre f***ing short (5'8" is really that short?)" and leaves. everyone i know who i went with saw these event unfold. needless to say, i was confused.

most of the kids i was with actually know her, and we just happened to bump into each other. one of them told me she was trying to get with another kid we were with, and she knows him, thus KNOWS he has a girlfriend. and this kid tells me she did what she did to get the other kid jealous.

the worst part- as you now know, my circle of friends and her circle of friends are basically intertwined- and now i am afraid i am going to see her again sometime. which i do not want to do ever. i mean i dont remember her face, i mean i barely saw it, when i yelled at her, and even that memory is very very blurry. but if she is around, i am sure my friends will point her out. so what should i do the next time we are in the same place? because i know it is going to happen, its just a matter of when.

so what should i do the next time i see her? i mean i cant leave, my friends and her friends who are also my friends will be there, and im not going to just walk off on them.

on a side note- this isnt the first site ive put this up on. the last one, almost everyone told me it was my fault for letting her do that, when i was more drunk than she was. she started the whole thing. and i never chased her. "im getting some tail tonight," i swear, never even crossed my mind while it was happening actually. so they basically didnt help me at all because that is the most rediculous "advice" i have ever heard.

Don't allow yourself to be humiliated.

She made it appear that she fancied you and then made a big show of rejection you because you were "short". If she really was cool she would have spotted your alleged height deficiency beforehand.

Try to present it to people as a bit of welcome nonsense. It sounds like it wasn't unpleasant, except for the attempt to embarrass you the end.

My recommendation is laugh it off. Describe it as the most pleasant lead up to a rejection you've had.

Think of the positive, keep thinking of the positive - her rudeness is her own problem, not yours.

Maybe make yourself a 5'8" tall badge and put it on in her company, with all due process ... explaining that it is to inform short-sighted and/or too-drunk women!

She doesn't deserve your worries. If you see her treat her like it was nothing because it was nothing.

I'm sure there are plenty of other people in yours and her circle of friends that you can talk to whilst she's around. IF your friends do ever point her out.

all the "this kid, that kid" stuff seals the whole shenanigan as just some sophomoric type shit.. i could recall a million of these types of instances when i was a teen. it happens

Yep. It was just one of those things.
If she was drunk too then chances are she doesnt remember much about it either.
Fact is, it was such a big nothing that you dont recall much about it yourself......so, if anyone does point her out in company just shrug and say "who?" turn your back on her and take the convo elsewhere.
People will soon lose interest and forget the whole thang.

/none of my business, but maybe you should be thinking about staying a bit more in control and not drink so much before you get some real trouble your drunken brain cant handle/

You'll look back and laugh at this, so why not laugh at it now? She ain't worth bothering over

thanks for the help, but my actual question remains: what do i do when we are together?

my roomate calls me to meet up with everyone at a dinging hall. i show up and sit down. there is a chick across the table. my roomate leans over and whispers "that's the french maid." and, yes, i know they will point her out if she is there

what would be the best thing to do? i could care less about her, she's just a whore anyway.

Why do you care so much about this?

If she means nothing to you then you have no problem.

I dont want to fall out with you or anything buuuuuttt.......
How is SHE a whore??
She comes up to you ok so she made the first move, but I didnt read how you pushed her away in disgust. In fact you kissed her for ages then when she walked away you tried to call her back.
Bottom line is, your pride has been dented. Simple as.
If or when you see her, be a man and shrug it off and forget it.
Next time maybe dont drink so much, then you'll be more in control of the situation.

Far too much sense coming out of you today RG. Are you feeling alright?

I was sensible earlier today, it got me all confused and upset. I had to sit down in a darkened room for an hour or so.

I posted that while lying in the dark on my bed using my laptop!

Well i'm screwed at 5 ft 6 then!

But on a serious note, can you not just ignore her completely? Don't even make an acknowledgement or look her way. Ha could actually cause the opposite to happen if you do this and she may well come talking to you thinking 'why is he ignoring me?'

Also I wouldn't neccesarily refer to her as a 'whore' due to what she did. Both girls and guys can be bad for the jealousy games whether it be physical or not.

The fun of parties hey.