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Home >> Dating >> What do i do?
13.03.2007, 17:10 quote
Ahem, a bit of confusion here for me at the mo!
I was in contact with a girl met online for a while before i broke my collar bone in December last year, but then we lost touch for a bit, and i couldnt really go dating anyway cause i was all strapped up!!
Then this weekend came and we texted each other and she just suddenly sprung wanting to go out for a drink on Sat night even though I was due to stay in!
Now, I went out for a drink with her for couple of hours, which went ok, and she seemed nice, however, i had already agreed to meet with another girl from online last night! Which i did and it went really well!
My conundrum is, what do i do now? Do i sack one off in favour of the other? Or do i go on another date with both, a longer one to see how it goes? Im just dont wanna piss either of them off, and im not sure at the mo which one i favour!!! HELP!
What would u guys do?
13.03.2007, 17:33 quote
I'd leave it a bit longer to decide- if you're only going on dates then what harm are you doing?
I don't think you have any obligation to keep it exclusive at this early stage.
Having said that, you might want to keep quiet about it...
13.03.2007, 18:04 quote
From a girlie point of view, you seemed to get on really well and were really impressed with your date from last night so I think I would stick with that 1 for now and see how it goes. Keep the other one as a friend at the mo but dont let it go any further till you know where you stand with your date.
13.03.2007, 18:06 quote
id say go on another date with each and make a decision after that, you are after all, only friends at this stage
13.03.2007, 18:07 quote
| Cazzabee wrote: |
| From a girlie point of view, you seemed to get on really well and were really impressed with your date from last night so I think I would stick with that 1 for now and see how it goes. Keep the other one as a friend at the mo but dont let it go any further till you know where you stand with your date. |
Thanks Cazza, that sounds good, yeah i do feel better about last night, she was lovely! And from the guys last night seemed to think it was v.positive, so great! Im just in a pickle now about how much to contact her...
Like, a text a day? Or every couple a days? Maybe a call soon or what? Mmmm?
13.03.2007, 18:12 quote
No no......i personally would maybe send a text tonight or tomorrow and take it from there. You should be able to read from her response what to do next
13.03.2007, 18:12 quote
You're dating matey. They'll both be adult enough to know they're not your only one. Most women know how men work in this respect (if they're honest), and besides, a little friendly competition never hurt anyone.
If you're confronted about it; be honest. Don't try and hide the fact. And don't try to dress it up either. Remember you're dating, you're not at the relationship stage yet. Its still open season. If either one are expecting you to be monogamous at this stage can you imagine how possessive they're going to get once you get serious?
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