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27.01.2009, 22:43 quote

chatt3r

1)
Jumping to the 'next level'. Why do women do that? One day u're out on a picnic and the world is a good place! Good lunch, good wine, good weather. Then it all goes crashing down with "I want to get married in a park like this!"

2)
Say what you feel and if something bothers you, don't play games... just let it off yr chest. It really gets me worked up when I can tell there is a problem but I don't get told what is wrong. If I ask what is wrong and the answer is, "nothing!", then I will take that as an instruction to keep my space.
If you want to exclude me from your space, I will stay away. Don't tell me later that I am the insensitive one.

3)
Talking about previous partners. I really don't want to hear about how some other guy didn't do enough of this, or too much of that. Comparing partners is just plain wrong.

 
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01.02.2009, 21:09 quote

chatt3r

unimportant wrote:

if u want, I can post for u a manual I have created for buois like u. is called:
"understanding mean women"
but first u need to learn the coded language..


Thanks Smile

As for me understanding things, I think I am a bit behind. I reckon the person who releases a pocket-book of 'what women think' would be an overnight millionaire.

eg:
If you see a lady with a problem... don't be a bonehead and offer a solution. Give her what she really wants: a hug!

 
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01.02.2009, 22:04 quote

chatt3r

jennyanne54 wrote:
1)
***Why is that such awful thing? who wants to be in a relationship that isn't moving forward towards something?

My fault; I didn't mention that it happened within 3 months of us meeting. A few weeks of us going on our first date. I'm sure other guys have been in that same boat before.

On a side note: When the signs are that they're more focused on a wedding than the relationship, I get worried. For me, marriage isn't about the wedding and the party... its about the commitment, loyalty and family. When the wedding becomes bigger than the marriage, I have a problem.

jennyanne54 wrote:

2)
*** That is such a frustrating situation!!! I have been there myself many times. She doesn't wanna have to tell you whats wrong because at that point she feels you should know why she is upset. Sadly men don't seem to get the tip off, unless you spell it out for them most of the time. ... Giving her space? haha That is just going to add to the problem, shes upset at you & you up & leave?

Thanks for understanding my frustration. Getting up 'n going isn't quite what I was thinking when I said, "keep my space". I won't get up and leave the room, if that's what u're thinking. More like, ... time to think. I won't nag you to tell me what is bothering you. I'll wait for you to tell me. I can't read minds and won't play games by trying to guess.

jennyanne54 wrote:

The best thing to do is comfort her, even if you dont know what the hell is going on. Give her a hug, relax the situation so she can tell you whats on her mind.

Thanks, pretty good advice there.

jennyanne54 wrote:

** Sometimes when women do that, its because their trying to be sneaky and make a point without actually saying be more like he was, or less like him.

Sometimes just asking for a small change with a reason as to why the change should occur would cause less heartache. "I would love it if you..." is a whole lot easier on the ear than, "I loved it when he..."

Oh yes! Something I left off the list...
4) (which should be #1)
"I think we need to talk."
If you ever want to ruin yr guy's day, phone him up and finish the call with those words.

 
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02.02.2009, 18:01 quote

chatt3r

fireinmyheart wrote:
lover89 wrote:
When they try to Dutch Oven you xD Wiki it if you don't know what it is.



Ok, well I wiki'd it... but I still dont understand what your refering to... it seems to be a cooking pot. Whats that got to do with this topic?


After much interwibble hunting, I found this:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=dutch%20oven

 
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