Hi all,
Right, I've been pondering this ever since I tried a whole bunch of methods online with dating and im sure some of you out there have too otherwise you wouldnt be here for starters, but why is it so hard to meet any genuine real good guys/gals?

Why?! ill tell you...because the system has been screwed up by the one and many before you. take me for example, normal guy..wouldnt say im perfect or anything, joins the millions online to look for someone whos looking for fun in life as well. this doesnt mean love, I mean im a red blooded guy and you know when it comes to down to I like love but at the same time, im not a creap, weirdo, stalker or any of the associated terms. I've tried msg a few girls who I liked sound of and BAM! i get replies assuming im a stalker. Like everything i take it with a pinch of salt but after so many times you start to wonder is this worth it?

I know places like gumtrees dating section have been abused to shreds by nonsense guys/gals and spammmers with pics leaving nothing to the imagination. And if you are lucky enough to have hooked up with someone through there your a miracle in itself. However righly so that alot of the ladies out there already have their guard up when a guy contacts them cause they think hes after one thing, and quite rightly many are solely after that. guys getting contacted by woman happens not very often unless thats just me haha. conclusion the good one or two who try their luck end up being chucked in with the rest.

When your next on that site look at the casual enconter section for guys seeking girls and then look at girls seeking girls and you will see a clear difference which is universal on free ad sites.

With guys for guys and girls for girls i bet there isnt half as much drama cause already theres something established, a connection if you will of chosen lifestyle whereas the alternative is what you are. anyway i think im rambling so im going to stop but if any one out there has anything to add or critcise please come forward as its a sad state of affairs for real good ones in the bunch.