Not having paid any attention to any posts I'm wondering what this site is all about...now don't flame me but,.no replies except those which are automated..no real lists,...p'raps I 've pressed the wrong button...maybe just me but maybe not. All I wanted was to have a social chat but that was'nt about to happen. Silly misguided me....I was right all along to be antisocial, selfish, smug, self-satisfied and arrogant. I should fit right in on this site

Hey freeboot, get stuck in on the forums and you;ll soon have some social chat!!!
Not tried the instant chat thang myself, but others seem to make friends on there.
Sometimes it takes awhile to get replies to private messages, not everyone does. Dont know why, there are plenty of topics on these forums discussing the whyfores of that.
Good luck, sit back relax and have some fun!
(and please dont be arrogant blahblah no you wont fit in like that I doubt).

Well, a response! tks for that Rocketgirl. You have stepped some way to re-affirming my faith in human nature. I may have been a little extreme on the smug and arrogant description but I do get really annoyed when people completely blank. I do have the ability to rise above it.....till tomorrow when I will have to beat my staff with a big stick to get them working,...or should that be gently persuading them to do that which they are paid for,,,,,,hmmmm I wonder!
Big Smiles

You should find things improve if you use these forums or the chat room but the messaging can still be a bit 'hit and miss' depending on how gripping your opening conversation is.... bearing in mind that men are in the majority and have to work that little bit harder to get noticed. Good luck anyway

At the back of 2 or 3 in the morning on a weekday you don't tend to get many responses funnily enough

As mirrorpool says, join in, use the forums, the chat room etc and you will find plenty of peeps to chat to here. Welcome to the forums by the way