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25.05.2009, 21:07 quote
just been thinking about that bit where you can let people know if you want to meet them,
*who uses it, and what makes you use it?
*do you ever look at your page to see if anyone does want to meet you?
*are you ever surprised with anybody you see there?
*do you ever tick the box when you like somebody instead of messaging, hoping they'll make the first message move?
*any other thoughts on this subject?
I think we touched on this a while back but I couldn't find the old thread.
26.05.2009, 17:12 quote
Surprised by the amount of men visiting my profile, heterosexual men at that
Also the amount of empty profiles who visit me!
26.05.2009, 17:52 quote
Gave up on the 'if' and 'why' along time ago
If by some miracle i do receive a message i will look at their profile .......... and go from there if its worth replying too.
26.05.2009, 17:54 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: |
| Gave up on the 'if' and 'why' along time ago
Never look at my page to see you has 'visited' me ......... never ticked any boxes either If by some miracle i do receive a message i will look at their profile .......... and go from there if its worth replying too. |
26.05.2009, 17:56 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: |
| Surprised by the amount of men visiting my profile, heterosexual men at that Also the amount of empty profiles who visit me! |
I reckon the men visit your profile because they see your comments on the forums or wana check on their competition but it's a bit funny getting blank profiles visit you
26.05.2009, 19:54 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: |
| Surprised by the amount of men visiting my profile, heterosexual men at that Also the amount of empty profiles who visit me! |
Not sure about your profile, but I've looked at your river pics. Very nice too
26.05.2009, 20:03 quote
| mirrorpool wrote: |
| ...
*who uses it, and what makes you use it? *do you ever look at your page to see if anyone does want to meet you? *are you ever surprised with anybody you see there? *do you ever tick the box when you like somebody instead of messaging, hoping they'll make the first message move? *any other thoughts on this subject? |
I check Visitors most days.
Like Scottie I get a lot of empty profiles.
Very few men visitors.
I am surprised at the number of women in their 20s.
I assume most are new, or lost.
Or maybe they think the 65 is my rating!
And that - WOW! - it's higher than anyone else!
But it may just be they see something in the forums and look at my profile.
When they message I tell them they are too young.
But I keep a look out for older people re-visiting.
I find Visitors very useful.
If I like someone I message them.
No use being coy, at my age!

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26.05.2009, 21:24 quote
The visitors page can be useful too, but I was meaning the page where people have chosen to say they'd like to meet you.
I find it odd that they tick that box, but most of them never message you anyway, so I wondered if that's cos they're shy, and just want to let you know they're interested but want you to message them first.
26.05.2009, 21:40 quote
| kadushu wrote: |
| Maybe its men adding you to their wank bank |
I think the visitors page shows that more than the 'would like to meet'
27.05.2009, 07:30 quote
| mirrorpool wrote: |
| The visitors page can be useful too, but I was meaning the page where people have chosen to say they'd like to meet you.
I find it odd that they tick that box, but most of them never message you anyway, so I wondered if that's cos they're shy, and just want to let you know they're interested but want you to message them first. |
Drat! I've never used that and - now I've gone there - it's got people in it!
One is from Israel...
So Rome would be a good place to meet!

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27.05.2009, 11:28 quote
On inspection, I've found that one Japanese girl wants to meet me. Not all bad then
27.05.2009, 13:13 quote
I've just discovered that there's more than one page of people AND I've met 2 of them (out of 69 over a long while that is!)
29.05.2009, 20:33 quote
I check it on occassion. I checked it today and there was somebody new on there, tking it up to a total of three people, one of whom is a friend, who ticked it for something to do, i think.
I never say that I would like to meet somebody though.
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29.05.2009, 21:19 quote
I've ticked a few people from the forums and a couple of other interesting men
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