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16.03.2007, 19:39 quote

Twobitactor
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Just wondering guys, if you were dating, and i mean not online but actually going out on 'dates', would you still be looking for someone else, actively on the net or wherever? Like if nothing had happened with your date?

Its like, ive had a few experiences with girls, who appear to be still actively seeking someone else, whether it be online, or in their normal everyday life!

Are they just players? Or are they just using me until something better comes along? Or is that just the way it is? Mmmm?
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16.03.2007, 19:44 quote

MrRoper
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TBH mate I think it would depend on how the dates went.

 

16.03.2007, 20:24 quote

Anonymous

No, one of the things I will be glad of when I finally get a woman if I get a woman will be an end to searching for someone to go out with which takes up so much time and effort. I am fed up of trawling public places looking for women to chat up. I would love to be able to relax instead knowing I have got a woman when I want to be with her.

 

16.03.2007, 20:27 quote

MrRoper
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"Trawling public places looking for women to chat up"........jesus your nights out must be fun! Rolling Eyes

 

16.03.2007, 20:30 quote

Anonymous

Twobitactor wrote:
Just wondering guys, if you were dating, and i mean not online but actually going out on 'dates', would you still be looking for someone else, actively on the net or wherever? Like if nothing had happened with your date?

Its like, ive had a few experiences with girls, who appear to be still actively seeking someone else, whether it be online, or in their normal everyday life!

Are they just players? Or are they just using me until something better comes along? Or is that just the way it is? Mmmm?
Smile


It seems to be the way some do it, others don't. It's not something I ever did, I wouldn't be comfortable with it, but... each to their own.

 

16.03.2007, 20:38 quote

Twobitactor
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It seems to be the way some do it, others don't. It's not something I ever did, I wouldn't be comfortable with it, but... each to their own.[/quote]

I still dont understand, i mean i spent the last hour chatting to the girl i had a date with on a dating site! So, like while we were both looking at profiles or checking our mails from other people! Whats going on there? I think we must be playing each other lol!
Crying or Very sad

 

16.03.2007, 20:41 quote

Cazzabee
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Your both just letting each other know that you do have other people interested. I take it this is the same girl from your other advice bits then then??

 

16.03.2007, 20:45 quote

Twobitactor
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Cazzabee wrote:
Your both just letting each other know that you do have other people interested. I take it this is the same girl from your other advice bits then then??


I suppose, but i am all in a tizz about her! I mean, she has granted me a second date next wednesday, but, she is being quite hard to get! Text wise etc... i mean, im no advocate of the text while dating thing, i think text/email/the net etc... is very dodgy when it comes to saying and being heard how u actually feel, it takes away all emotion pretty much, hence "smilies"!
I suppose ill see how nxt date goes, but, methinks this one will fizzle out, and ill be played like i have the last few times Crying or Very sad

 

16.03.2007, 20:47 quote

Cazzabee
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Twobitactor wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Your both just letting each other know that you do have other people interested. I take it this is the same girl from your other advice bits then then??


I suppose, but i am all in a tizz about her! I mean, she has granted me a second date next wednesday, but, she is being quite hard to get! Text wise etc... i mean, im no advocate of the text while dating thing, i think text/email/the net etc... is very dodgy when it comes to saying and being heard how u actually feel, it takes away all emotion pretty much, hence "smilies"!
I suppose ill see how nxt date goes, but, methinks this one will fizzle out, and ill be played like i have the last few times Crying or Very sad


Must admit...im not a big fan of the text thing. One of my worst habits is not texting people back. Would rather have a real face to face conversation with someone. Can usually read the situation better

 

16.03.2007, 20:53 quote

Twobitactor
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Must admit...im not a big fan of the text thing. One of my worst habits is not texting people back. Would rather have a real face to face conversation with someone. Can usually read the situation better[/quote]

Yeah, ive met a lot of girls like that, but i thought it would make u feel great if a guy seemed that interested, that youd text back? I always grant people a text back or email if they send one, its common courtesy, isnt it? Rolling Eyes

 

16.03.2007, 20:54 quote

Cazzabee
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Twobitactor wrote:
Yeah, ive met a lot of girls like that, but i thought it would make u feel great if a guy seemed that interested, that youd text back? I always grant people a text back or email if they send one, its common courtesy, isnt it? Rolling Eyes


It is...thats why I say its a bad habit and I am really guilty of it. My mate even ends her texts with saying....Caz this is a question so you have to text back Laughing Laughing

 

16.03.2007, 21:00 quote

Anonymous

Twobitactor wrote:
Must admit...im not a big fan of the text thing. One of my worst habits is not texting people back. Would rather have a real face to face conversation with someone. Can usually read the situation better


Yeah, ive met a lot of girls like that, but i thought it would make u feel great if a guy seemed that interested, that youd text back? I always grant people a text back or email if they send one, its common courtesy, isnt it? Rolling Eyes[/quote]

Doesn't work like that with everyone. I've gotten used to my fellah not sending texts back. If i want a reply, I ask a question.

 

16.03.2007, 21:04 quote

Twobitactor
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anothermansjulie wrote:
Twobitactor wrote:
Must admit...im not a big fan of the text thing. One of my worst habits is not texting people back. Would rather have a real face to face conversation with someone. Can usually read the situation better


Yeah, ive met a lot of girls like that, but i thought it would make u feel great if a guy seemed that interested, that youd text back? I always grant people a text back or email if they send one, its common courtesy, isnt it? Rolling Eyes


Doesn't work like that with everyone. I've gotten used to my fellah not sending texts back. If i want a reply, I ask a question.[/quote]

Ok, i suppose! Maybe i think it's not helping my dating experience! I mean, i havent been properly "dating" with someone i have only talked to a few times, for years! And then only sending a few texts to each other and organising another date is giving me jitters! Im just a hopeless dating person in need of a good slap to wake me up a bit lol! Embarassed

 

16.03.2007, 21:34 quote

missme7

Twobitactor wrote:
Im just a hopeless dating person in need of a good slap to wake me up a bit lol! Embarassed


There you go

Wink

 

16.03.2007, 21:43 quote

Twobitactor
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[quote="missme7"]

Twobitactor wrote:
Im just a hopeless dating person in need of a good slap to wake me up a bit lol! Embarassed


There you go

Thankyou!

 
 
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