is it just my paranoia getting the better of me???

i'd like to know what women really think of me, but out of all the messages i've sent to numerous amounts of ladies, i've probably had about a 2% reply. don't get me wrong, it's not like im sending out heavy duty messages like 'marry me now' or 'i wanna suck those tits!' just normal, breaking the ice stuff...u know, yet, barely do i even get the slightest hint of a reply:(

i thought these kinda sites were supposed to help guys (& girls) like me that dont have the time to go out in the "real" world, yet i get the impression it's just another form of voyeurism!

at this rate, i'll be a monk by the time april comes......fcuk!!! 31 days to go!!!!

ah well, thats my rant over

Not you!! Happens, i have sent a message once to a girl that seemed interesting saw that she read it but no reply. Maybe because they think of it as being random and weird. I don't know
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xactly.....even a little..."ty" would do lol!!!!

dont take it to heart to be honest, i recon most girls on here get loads of mail and so generally just dont read them full stop, and the ones that do just get so many that they cant be arsed replying, or they are plain lazy, dont fret my man, this site works......generally
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well...i hope it changes soon lol!!! just feel like im pestering loads of people

I just dont send messages, that way I dont get the rejected feeling ... which really does affect me! I really do have to work on that.

I think the thing about saying more than just hi, and something interesting and relevant to the person is what its all about. I been on this and other sites where i've sent lots of messages and heard nothing back and theyve been read, not even a hi. But i think girls especially are afraid to even say hi cause theyre afraid you'll think "your in"!! And also they have loads a messages from guys who are far more fit than you (no offence)

But then i've not sent any messages for ages and then just picked the right person who does reply and you have a good chat, even if u dont hit it off.
But i must say, flirtbox is notoriously difficult to get a reply from someone.
Except in the forums! Hey everyone!
Steveo