just be a little braver ask a girl you like if they wanna meet up for a drink or bite to eat, if there are any knock backs dont take it personal everyone has different tastes take it easy and above all else enjoy your time dating and being single then its sweet when it happns n your back involved with somebody i am single now for nrly 2years too nd quite understand hat your feeling but with each date your confidence will grow maybe's you could find other ways b4 dating that will give you a boost?

Hi,

This is my first post too! Scary!

I like to think "Its like winning the lottery, e.g you've got to be in it to win it!". If you dont give it a go you are never going to win!

Also, I think you should bear in mind, - your not the only one in the same situation! (think about that! - it might help). I know how scary it can be (having recently come out of a relationship). I say face the wilderness bravely! Bring on the next challenge!

The fear of rejection is a tough one, but remember not every person is compatible with another!

Hope it works out for you!

Hi sean and Kitty .. and welcome