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24.12.2008, 23:45 quote

adam37
Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 18 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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whats wrong with me how come nobodys interested can some one help me out please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

25.12.2008, 00:24 quote

puddingcup

i can help find you a girlfriend, i can help to point you in the right direction tho.. if you send someone a message there is never a 100% chance of getting a reply, saying something witty or interesting is helpful..

woman also tend to check out ur profile so a smiling happy photo is gona have a better impact than a lifeless one..
also dont sounds desperate, tell them enough so they know you a bit but not enough so they want to know more.. its not all give it give and take which makes a conversation more interesting!

your young, take your time and be a bit flirty Very Happy

 

25.12.2008, 00:30 quote

kadushu

Think positive man! Happy photos, funny comments, keep your expectations low to avoid disappointment Razz Avoid girls that describe themselves as 'bubbly' - it means they fart in the bath

 

25.12.2008, 00:32 quote

adam37
Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 18 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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thankyou

 

25.12.2008, 00:36 quote

puddingcup

dont listen to kad not all bubbly women fart in the bath some of them do it outside too xD

i also wana add theres someone out ther for everyone, sometimes you kiss a few frogs to get to them but keep kissing! its more fun that way Wink

 

25.12.2008, 00:42 quote

kadushu

Yeah, I was joking about bubbly women farting

Puddingcup is right - you might have to wait a while and go down a few dead ends before you find what you are looking for. Don't let it get you down too much, just learn from the experience and view it as essential self improvement. Trust me, I know how hard it can be Very Happy


...oh and be honest. Positive, but honest. Integrity is sexy

 

25.12.2008, 01:13 quote

adam37
Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 18 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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yeh i was sayin fanx for the advice

 

25.12.2008, 01:24 quote

puddingcup

your welcome.. tho do lighten up i think we both knew why u sed thanks Rolling Eyes

 

25.12.2008, 01:30 quote

kadushu

Yeah, no probs mate and good luck

 

25.12.2008, 06:23 quote

lasvegasvic
lasvegasvic Joined: 13 Oct 2008 Posts: 13 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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First of all dont send messages that portray you as desparate - like your introduction to this thread - if someone e-mailed me saying they 'really really' wanted a girlfriend id run for the hills ... the others are right humour and sincerity go a long way and make sure u show an interest in her, be yourself and dont portray yourself as somebody you're not - if you leap in too quick with wanting to meet someone before youve chatted for a while you'll probably scare them off - its not easy to meet the right person but when you do you'll know it - good luck and merry christmas!! cool

 

25.12.2008, 16:41 quote

reaper1987

i think ya just tryin 2 fuckin hard mate lol the things u want most in life never come haha im just on here 2 meet nw people not for a laff but by been that way i mite find som1 nice without knowin it forget about it n it will find you im sure theres more importint things 2 be doin with ur life rite now anyways

 

26.12.2008, 00:21 quote

sc0ttie

adam37 wrote:
whats wrong with me how come nobodys interested can some one help me out please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


yeah blimey, just get on with your life mate, go out and have fun, people are always attracted to other people who know how to enjoy themselves. Try and stop focusing on the girlfriend issue...I think it was John Lennon who penned the lyric "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans", and that makes sense really. make it your goal in 2009 to just enjoy it.

 

26.12.2008, 01:40 quote

SOATom
Joined: 20 Jun 2006 Posts: 379 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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adam37 wrote:
whats wrong with me how come nobodys interested can some one help me out please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dude, u got this all wrong, u dont plead for a g/f, u gotta make it look as if you have no need for a partner and that your out of reach of whoever it is you are trying to court. once they know that your forbidden, it should be abit easier. although i know i won't make any friends by saying that, but who the fark needs anyone else anyway, much simpler to be single m8, trust...

 

27.12.2008, 17:34 quote

fallenangel1989

what everyone wrote is right.
have fun! be happy, i find someone who looks like fun and is funny so attractive. make a girl laugh n shes all urs! (mayb thats jus me hehe) confidence is key!! trust me, i wernt stunning wen i was your age and never got the men! so instead of being girly i was more confident and outgoing instead. then i got bf's! (they all ended up being assholes)lol!have fun enjoy yourself and you will find love Very Happy

 

27.12.2008, 18:05 quote

grooveme
grooveme Joined: 23 Aug 2008 Posts: 1321 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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SOATom wrote:
adam37 wrote:
whats wrong with me how come nobodys interested can some one help me out please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dude, u got this all wrong, u dont plead for a g/f, u gotta make it look as if you have no need for a partner and that your out of reach of whoever it is you are trying to court. once they know that your forbidden, it should be abit easier. although i know i won't make any friends by saying that, but who the fark needs anyone else anyway, much simpler to be single m8, trust...



kinda true actually Rolling Eyes

 
 
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