From what I've learned on here......

"Treating a lady right" ?

Man on flirtbox version: I treat her like she is more important than me, I am a doormat.....Help! Whats wrong with me? I treat my lady right but she still wants the Bad Boys who treat her wrong.

Woman on flirtbox version: I want a man who knows how to treat a lady right. You know what I mean, I am a li'l pwincess, must get my own way all the time, shower me with gifts and spend all your wages on me, me, me, me........Help! What's wrong with me? My man is lovely but here I am on flirtbox cuz I am bored bored bored and need a Bad Boy for a while.


/runs away and hides sniggering/

/trots back - ok seriously, the meaning of "treat a lady right" is that the man is treating the lady exactly as she wishes to be treated and he's happy to do so. I guess?

I'm with Red on this one....i like the same things. I also like to feel as though i'm being looked after in a small way, not bossed about and told what to do, but cared for and cared about. And its not about the big gestures, it could be something really silly like coming home with my favourite chocolate bar, or seeing a CD that i've mentioned and just buying it.

But more than anything its communication, listening to what i have to say and just talking together. Being interested in what i have to say as well as me being interested in what you have to say.

Thats what i think anyway.

Well Snaith, if you intend to come home late and pissed and expect your dinner on the table......you's a bit stuffed mate eh?!

Oh right...i've already put my two penneth in. Are you trying to tell me haven't read what i said? And committed it to memory??

I think it depends on the age group Ed. I like to be treated like a lady, and appreciate all the things aidjon wrote. Whereas someone your age might not appreciate it

I actually love a guy like Jonathon, but he'd have to allow me to treat him the same, I think its important for the woman to hold the door for him, pour the wine etc. when the occasion arises i.e. I happen to be neareast, and spontaeniously (sp!) give him little gifts (and yes flowers it has been known haha) as well.
In other words, treat each other, not just the lady, like they are both worthy of that extra mile.

........proudless Tony heads for the isle of man minus his wallet......


I read somewhere once that for a relationship to work, it has to be 60/40.
That is, *both* parties give 60% and take 40% - and not just money issues.