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28.10.2008, 13:17 quote

ed85

What does 'treating a lady right' mean?

 

28.10.2008, 13:27 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 5482 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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It means sod all.

 

28.10.2008, 13:28 quote

redelicious
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I would have said it was an individual thing Ed. Otherwise it'd be a lot easier than it is.

For me it's being able to make me smile when I'm down. Taking me out for the occasional meal without there being 'an occasion'. Knowing the difference between wanting and needing a cuddle and giving it at just the right moment. It's letting me have an off day without taking it personally. Knowing that no matter how small a gift is, it's worth everything. It's knowing I can be myself without fear of some sort of reprisal.

I'm sure you'll get lots of different replies Ed. There as many ways to keep a person happy as there are people I suspect Smile
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28.10.2008, 13:34 quote

snaithman

Where's me tea?

I'm going out to get pissed tonight, wait up for me baby.

and so on.

 

28.10.2008, 13:35 quote

ed85

I reckon you're right Red. It just seems to come up a lot in women's profiles and I wondered what individuals meant by it. I bet for some it means 'spend loads of money on me' and for others it simply means 'treat me with respect'.

 

28.10.2008, 13:35 quote

choochi0
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redelicious wrote:
I would have said it was an individual thing Ed. Otherwise it'd be a lot easier than it is.

For me it's being able to make me smile when I'm down. Taking me out for the occasional meal without there being 'an occasion'. Knowing the difference between wanting and needing a cuddle and giving it at just the right moment. It's letting me have an off day without taking it personally. Knowing that no matter how small a gift is, it's worth everything. It's knowing I can be myself without fear of some sort of reprisal.

I'm sure you'll get lots of different replies Ed. There as many ways to keep a person happy as there are people I suspect Smile


What she said.

What Snaith says is piss.

 

28.10.2008, 13:35 quote

rocketgirl

From what I've learned on here......

"Treating a lady right" ?

Man on flirtbox version: I treat her like she is more important than me, I am a doormat.....Help! Whats wrong with me? I treat my lady right but she still wants the Bad Boys who treat her wrong.

Woman on flirtbox version: I want a man who knows how to treat a lady right. You know what I mean, I am a li'l pwincess, must get my own way all the time, shower me with gifts and spend all your wages on me, me, me, me........Help! What's wrong with me? My man is lovely but here I am on flirtbox cuz I am bored bored bored and need a Bad Boy for a while.


/runs away and hides sniggering/

/trots back - ok seriously, the meaning of "treat a lady right" is that the man is treating the lady exactly as she wishes to be treated and he's happy to do so. I guess?

 

28.10.2008, 13:40 quote

bexbex

I'm with Red on this one....i like the same things. I also like to feel as though i'm being looked after in a small way, not bossed about and told what to do, but cared for and cared about. And its not about the big gestures, it could be something really silly like coming home with my favourite chocolate bar, or seeing a CD that i've mentioned and just buying it.

But more than anything its communication, listening to what i have to say and just talking together. Being interested in what i have to say as well as me being interested in what you have to say.

Thats what i think anyway.

 

28.10.2008, 13:43 quote

ed85

I'm just waiting for some narcissistic little princess to arrive and contribute now...


...it probably won't happen because they won't get paid for it

 

28.10.2008, 13:48 quote

bexbex

rocketgirl wrote:
I want a man who knows how to treat a lady right. You know what I mean, I am a li'l pwincess, must get my own way all the time, shower me with gifts and spend all your wages on me, me, me, me........


Whats wrong with that? That's basically what i was saying. You have to read between the lines! 'Listen to me' means 'spend all your money on me'.

And i AM that Princess.

 

28.10.2008, 13:53 quote

ed85

Making a woman feel like a princess without treating her like a princess?

I look to the Good life for guidance...

 

28.10.2008, 13:57 quote

snaithman

bexbex wrote:
I'm with Red on this one....i like the same things. I also like to feel as though i'm being looked after in a small way, not bossed about and told what to do, but cared for and cared about. And its not about the big gestures, it could be something really silly like coming home with my favourite chocolate bar, or seeing a CD that i've mentioned and just buying it.

But more than anything its communication, listening to what i have to say and just talking together. Being interested in what i have to say as well as me being interested in what you have to say.

Thats what i think anyway.

I take these are clues that should be digested.

 

28.10.2008, 14:08 quote

choochi0
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Maybe you should ask the women that put it in their profiles. I would hope they would know how they want to be treated?

 

28.10.2008, 14:10 quote

rocketgirl

Well Snaith, if you intend to come home late and pissed and expect your dinner on the table......you's a bit stuffed mate eh?!
Laughing Laughing Laughing

 

28.10.2008, 14:12 quote

rocketgirl

bexbex wrote:
rocketgirl wrote:
I want a man who knows how to treat a lady right. You know what I mean, I am a li'l pwincess, must get my own way all the time, shower me with gifts and spend all your wages on me, me, me, me........


Whats wrong with that? That's basically what i was saying. You have to read between the lines! 'Listen to me' means 'spend all your money on me'.

And i AM that Princess.



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