Hi,

I'm a 21 year old female who over a year ago split up with my ex of 2 n half years. Ever since I won't let any guy get close to me, as soon as I have a first date I want out of it as I'm scared I will get hurt again if I get to know the guy any better.

Any suggestions on how not to feel scared?
Are there any guys out there who can understand how I feel?

Feeling lonely
Kel

i understand i to have been hurt but without closure take everyday as a new one and remember not everyone is that person
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its official got the call back today ladies you have three months or im becoming a monk

i hope you get some good advice here sorry i cant help you as i am going thru something similar good luck!!

Everybody who's suffered heartbreak goes through a period like you are at the moment. Unforunately theres no way of knowing it wont happen again but sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind and just say 'what the hell' and get out there and start dating again. You cant live behind a brick wall forever.

I got hurt really badly aswell. I just fig if i don't risk getting hurt, i'll never meet that special someone, and the highs do out way the lows

Just go for it i always do no matter what happens, i'm a risk taker though i enjoy it if i get hurt i get over it but if i regret not doing something that sticks with me forever

remember..... no two men are alike..... i still have issues that terrify me even now i am happy and settled.... this is being helped with lots of reasurrance from my partner.
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You've got to let go of the past and start building on the future not every guy and women for that matter is only out to hurt people so go out enjoy yourself and if you find someone take it slow don't rush into anything to quickly that way you know your making the right decision