why is it that men dont find me attractive ive been single and selibet for 4yrs now and its starting to b come a real drag someone please tell me what in doing wrong help :cry: :(

You're probably not doing anything wrong. The first thing I would ask though is how do you view yourself? If you dont like/love yourself it's very hard for someone else to like/love you.

maybe the guys around you'r area just cant see a good thing infront of them?
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Maybe if u had a picture up people will find u attractive
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I couldn't find your profile so can't give you advise on that.
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click on the link that says profile










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Thanks Ian, I'm such a n00b

Ok here goes, This is my opinion only:
Smiling pictures are key.
A nice description with emphasis on things you enjoy.
Find someone whose profile you think is good/attractive and follow their example.

Others may disagree with me here but that's what I think.
Best of luck!

from his last pic i think hes the middle one
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a pic helps with me sometimes, not cus i want to know if they hot or whatever, its cus you seem to be able to see a someones personality through there pics, like make up, poses, what they show and dont show, things like that
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