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11.02.2007, 11:05 quote

moorsey
moorsey Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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I have been a member of a few dating websites but never seem to get much attention, I dont understand why??

Im not too bad looking.

I have taken a few things away from my profiles, like lacking confidance and such

Its just hard, got out of a 6 year relationship. My ex cheated on me 3 times and always throws things back in my face. We have a child so its hard to get her out my life.

Just simple things that put me down, she will say stuff like the last person she slept with was twice the size of me, just hurts me and ruins my confidance.

I dont think i will find anyone who i can trust, I really just want to be able to love again

 

11.02.2007, 14:14 quote

pirakkanaama2
pirakkanaama2 Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 1888 Location: United Kingdom, England, Leicestershire
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moorsey wrote:
I have been a member of a few dating websites but never seem to get much attention, I dont understand why??

Im not too bad looking.

I have taken a few things away from my profiles, like lacking confidance and such

Its just hard, got out of a 6 year relationship. My ex cheated on me 3 times and always throws things back in my face. We have a child so its hard to get her out my life.

Just simple things that put me down, she will say stuff like the last person she slept with was twice the size of me, just hurts me and ruins my confidance.

I dont think i will find anyone who i can trust, I really just want to be able to love again


if she cheated on you she simply wasnt worth the time it took you to walk away, and to get more attention it seems the best way is to just post on boards and such like this one, good luck!
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11.02.2007, 14:58 quote

moorsey
moorsey Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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cheers for that dude. It just when you love someone you hope they will change but she never has done

 

11.02.2007, 15:49 quote

Anonymous

how long ago did yee split up, perhaps you need a chaqnge of scenary, get your head together and work on yourself first, been there some years ago and its hell. But raise above it, youll be fine

 

11.02.2007, 18:00 quote

Anonymous

moorsey wrote:
cheers for that dude. It just when you love someone you hope they will change but she never has done
Why would you want to be with someone that you need to change in order for things to be right? Better to find someone that you like the way they are in the first place.

 

11.02.2007, 19:10 quote

Anonymous

moorsey wrote:
I have been a member of a few dating websites but never seem to get much attention, I dont understand why??
Neither have I moorsey, I think the main reason is that on most dating sites men vastly outnumber women so it is very hard for men to get dates from them. I think for men it is probably better to attend real world dating events like singles parties and speed dating etc where there are usually equal numbers of both men and women.

 

12.02.2007, 08:39 quote

moorsey
moorsey Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Why would you want to be with someone that you need to change in order for things to be right? Better to find someone that you like the way they are in the first place.


Well i fell in love with her for the person who she was, but then she changed herself. Ive always put it down to we are both young i guess she just wanted to experiance something different.

She says she regrests whats shes done but carries on doing it. I just realised i'm just being a mug.

We have not been split up that long, but Gizzemoto said i think i need a change. shes really given me a head fuckk.

I'm a very affectionate person and really in touch with my emotions, just looking for someone whos right for me now.

 

12.02.2007, 09:03 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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hey man, another manc lad, welcome to the boards and boy do i feel your pain Smile

Trust me it gets easier, i'm not saying time is a healer because that's a sh*t term tbh, but it doesn get easier Smile
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