ok well to start with hi, i have just signed up after deciding to do something about being single and not wanting to meet another girlfirend in a club at 3am drunken and smelling of vodka,

my problem is with so many guys on here (higher percentge compared to girls) just browsing through photos selecting girls they would like to shag and messaging them telling them how sexy they are and what they want to do to them, how are guys like me actually ment to meet someone, because for 1 i would just be another message in the inbox alongside the OTHER guys mentioned above and 2 it says there thousends of girls/woman as members on here but i am slightly suspicious as to how many are real? it seems 99% of them are 49 and live in cornwall for some reason lol

is the site for real? i hope to be proven wrong and i do get to chat/meet some genuine people.

anyways as i said im new and photos have not been approved by the site yet? (on facebook if you want to see though?) (daniel whitford), anyone interested in getting to know me then feel free to prove your out there, untill then take care lol. x

hiya and welcome!

i dont think that all us girlies appreciate guys messages wen they tell us what they want to do with us!!

the only thing u can do is find sum1 you have stuff in common with and be yourself! try and make your 1st message interestin so she wants to reply back and find out more

good luck

Hello

I need to agreed with Louise.

This site like all internet is plenty off false ppl, but u cant generalize. I am new on this site too. Single now 2 years and only advice i can give U is " Do not give up. Only those who search will find it"

Good luck and all best.

true true, just feels like a place for the older generation, i sent a message to a certin person yesterday saying she looked and sounded like a really nice girl and would be interested in chatting and getting to know her a litle bit, her responce was simply i am to young and i dont look like the type of person who needs to use a dating website to get girls?

Now this is exactly my point! firstly i dont NEED to use a dating website to get a girl shes write i could just go clubbing or to the pub if thats all i wanted, and 2 i am NOT trying to get a girl i was just simply asking if she wanted to chat. as in CHAT lol. about anything and everything in general. she must have automatically pressumed i was a young guy after a shag. probbly bcasue she hears the same thing ten times a day from other guys WHO ARE!

so at the moment i am 50/50 on how this site can work for younger people, but as i said time will tell lol.

maybe some stories or experiances of genuine meets?/friends? that have happened for you?

Maybe she just didnt have anythin in common with you! and was honest probably just doesnt go for younger guys theres nothin wrong with that she just didnt ignore your message either!

there is a few ppl that have met up on here some worked out some didnt at the end of the day its still real life whether its on here or in a pub/club! as i said before ull find someone that has similar interests and ull click its just a matter of finding them!

Give it a chance, there's plenty of us real people on here and I don't know if it's the same with girls, but there really are a lot of men between 20 and 30.
It might be that more young people are on-line late night early morning... dunno... just a thought.
BTW I like your pic number 3 best.... but I feel bad about what I said ABOUT THE FISH in the other thread now 'cos THAT fish of yours is very impressive..... erm... somehow I don't think it came from Valentine's Park Lake!!!!

Oi, danieljw stop fiddlin' with yerself!!

A picture like that can hardly help your stated cause?
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theres no fiddling going on, just in your mind! inocent photo taken by my ex in egypt! only other photos i really have are all fishing ones and dont want to many on here? what was said about the fish in another thread there? i missed it. and no not from valentines park but from ongar lol.
does my pic really not help my cause? x

i think u shud change it to 1 of the other 1s cause ur a gd lookin guy cani see u right in that 1

oh no when i drag and drop to re arrange click save it just all drops back inot the original position! cant swap any around?

oh no when i drag and drop to re arrange click save it just all drops back inot the original position! cant swap any around?