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26.05.2009, 20:23 quote

fungirlh

I'm finding that I only seem to get guys interested in one thing contacting me. (It may be my user name, I'm not sure?) I like a bit of fun and a flirt but that's all it seems to be and when I think I may actually hit it off with a guy (after several long chats on msn) I never hear from them again!

So it begs me to ask, do guys using sites like this actually want to meet a nice girl for more than just flirty chats? Or am I expecting too much for a site called flirtbox? lol

Are there any guys out there aged 25-40 interested in a 'nice' fun loving girl????

 

26.05.2009, 20:36 quote

70

To be honest, your site name is not the best to have used 'cos whereas many of us use the word fun, for all kinds of enjoyable things, most men see 'FUN' as meaning just one thing so if you're up for fun it means you're up for sex.

 

26.05.2009, 20:49 quote

kadushu

Call me cynical, but a lot of the twats that frequent the site will just see that you are a girl and assume you are up for casual sex. Unfortunately the nature of internet dating is that you will get a lot of 'throw-aways' (ie pervs, timewasters, etc) for every 'decent' person. Just numb yourself to it.

Good luck Very Happy

 

28.05.2009, 09:10 quote

desolation84

maybe because you look fat and not very attractive.
Sorry for the honest opinion.
Good luck with guys.

 

28.05.2009, 09:28 quote

70

desolation84 wrote:
maybe because you look fat and not very attractive.
Sorry for the honest opinion.
Good luck with guys.


Are you sure you even looked at fungirlh's profile? Fortunately for her, I don't believe that others will see her the same way as you do.

 

28.05.2009, 09:41 quote

desolation84

I did look at her profile, but I'll take another look just to make sure...
I think that people here are trying to be nice too much. It's not bad to be honest from time to time. Wink

 

28.05.2009, 09:50 quote

desolation84

Well maybe just not my type.
Girls in my country are much more prettier.

 

28.05.2009, 10:06 quote

70

desolation84 wrote:
I did look at her profile, but I'll take another look just to make sure...
I think that people here are trying to be nice too much. It's not bad to be honest from time to time. Wink

I do think constructive criticism and a bit of honest confrontation can be a good thing, but when it comes across as being personal, and subjective on a site like this I would take the approach that if I didn't have something nice to say then I'd keep it to myself.

We all have different reasons for being on here in the first place, but I think it's wise to remember that many people have had painful and broken relationships and may as a result have a fragile sense of self and low esteem. I'm not suggesting I know who has or hasn't got confidence, but just remember that for some people to 'brave' the forums may be a big step to have taken.

 

28.05.2009, 10:09 quote

zacktelstar
zacktelstar Joined: 15 Feb 2009 Posts: 273 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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desolation84 wrote:
I did look at her profile, but I'll take another look just to make sure...
I think that people here are trying to be nice too much. It's not bad to be honest from time to time. Wink



...what a prick

but 'Desolation' yer probably suffering - well you say as much on yer profile. Get some professional help. Coming to Britain ain't gonna make you happy, you'll more than likey find yourself ostracized and miserable here as well.

PS; You look like Dimitar Berbatov
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28.05.2009, 17:03 quote

desolation84

To mirrorpool: Look I didn't mean to insult her, I just said what I think.
To zacktelstar: My life is my concern. Coming to UK may not make me happy, but it will bury my past and memories for good. And anyway that has nothing to do with the topic of the forum.
P.S. I hope Berbatov has scored against your favorite team hahaha Twisted Evil
P.S. 2 I doubt you have any idea what it is to live in a country enslaved by communism, so just shut your mouth. Can you imagine what it is to survive with wages like 150 euro a month? Can you take care of a family like that?
Fucking moron.

 

28.05.2009, 17:06 quote

kadushu

I like it when a twat arrives on cue to demonstrate a point

 

28.05.2009, 17:10 quote

cutielouise

kadushu wrote:
I like it when a twat arrives on cue to demonstrate a point


lmao! i agree that ppl shud b as honest as they can but dont think that criticism of someones appearance is the best way to go about things because they arent what you would go for!! we all like diffrent things

 

28.05.2009, 17:52 quote

sometimesalways

Crikey o'Reilly Desolation.. Rolling Eyes

Don't worry fungirl, the answer is very much yes

 

28.05.2009, 19:15 quote

aimiemai
Joined: 26 May 2009 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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Lol. If you want sex go to a sex site. If you want a real life person to share and have good sex with because you care for each other then come to a datinfg site. The hint is in the title!

 

28.05.2009, 19:28 quote

bbones
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francine needn some attention
wilma givn that thank u smooch
ha no im not pinchin lois' tig ol bitties
betty wonderin how the fuck she ended up here

 
 
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